Tuff Love With Robert Kandell



Its an interesting paradox. We all really want to know how we show in the world but we do everything we can to avoid it. Its like an itch we want to scratch but also tend to ignore. We create secret covert alliances with our friends, families, workmates and enemies for them to withhold the truth, to make things safe rather than real. In doing so, we never truly know what people think about us. For some, this is okay. Maybe not for you. Every week, coach, entrepreneur and teacher Rob Kandell will leading a group experience where he will speak his heart-filled, intense, tuff love. He will (a) answer questions posted to this event and via chat, (b) speak his mind plainly on topics of interest, and (c) coach brave enthusiastic volunteers in a group setting. Honestly, we dont know whats going to happen.


  • 238: Navigating Relationships in the Time of CV with Rachel Wright

    238: Navigating Relationships in the Time of CV with Rachel Wright

    21/04/2020 Duración: 35min

    Psychotherapist Rachel Wright is recognized as one of the freshest voices on millennial and couple-preneur relationships. She and her husband Kyle co-founded Wright Wellness Center in 2016 to bridge the gap between a self-help book and a therapist’s couch. Together, they’re changing how we approach relationships, sex, and mental health. With a Master’s Degree in clinical psychology, Rachel has worked with thousands of couples all over the world, helping them scream less and screw more. She has brought her message to stages across the globe and is also a sex educator, writer, and co-host of the popular Bachelor-themed podcast, The Wright Reasons. Rachel has been featured widely in the media including Cheddar TV, Cosmopolitan Magazine, Simplify Magazine, InStyle, CNN, Women’s Health, NBC News Radio, Huffington Post, CNN, Refinery29, MindBodyGreen, Bustle, and dozens of other outlets. She currently lives in New York City, where she nurtures her love for all things musical theatre. Learn more at wrightwellnessce

  • 237: Your Permission Slip with Madelyn Moon

    237: Your Permission Slip with Madelyn Moon

    14/04/2020 Duración: 40min

    Madelyn Moon is a walking permission slip, embodiment teacher and transformational coach. Her mission is to help women and men unify all pieces, including the Feminine with Masculine, Light with Dark, Introvert with Extrovert and Doing with Being. Through transformational experiences such as coaching, shadow work, spiritual healing, polarity, and Feminine and Masculine embodiment, Maddy will warmly guide you deeper into your own truth. Her work and story have been featured in hundreds of podcasts as well as various publications such as The Huffington Post, Teen Vogue, Thought Catalog, Nylon Magazine, The Daily Mail, Vice, Greatist, Men’s Health, PEOPLE and ABC News Nightline. She’s hosted the popular Mind Body Musings podcast for nearly six years, ranking in the Top-50 of ALL TIME in the U.S. and Great Britain in Self Improvement. 3:06 – Experiences on the street during this time 9:35 – Coping mechanisms 14:02 – Addressing unconscious distractions 18:34 – A society of disapproval

  • 236: How to Find Your F*#$k Yes in Your Life with Sandra Bershad

    236: How to Find Your F*#$k Yes in Your Life with Sandra Bershad

    07/04/2020 Duración: 43min

    Sandra Bershad, M.A. is a visionary mentor and awakening catalyst deeply devoted to empowering people in becoming intimate with the resonance of their highest truth and inner guidance. She is on a mission to create spaces of radical permission that invite individuals to tap into the full spectrum of their inner knowing, visions, gifts, and the specific genius they are meant to share. As a truth resonator and amplifier, she strives to demystify the perception that we need something outside ourselves to connect with our intrinsic nature that is infinite, innately wise, and already whole. Her approach has been forged through rigorous study of the merging between mind, body, spirit, and hard science, a deep passion for healing and growth, and the clinical application of therapeutic modalities, healing arts, and spiritual traditions. She has a Master’s Degree in Mindfulness-based Transpersonal Counseling Psychology and dual Bachelor’s Degrees in Somatic Psychology and Psychology of Health and Healing. Recognized f

  • 235: StoryTime: My Sophie#x2019s Choice

    235: StoryTime: My Sophie’s Choice

    31/03/2020 Duración: 39min

    In this week’s episode, during a time of global challenge, Rob tells the story of his experience of his own “Sophie’s Choice” in a formative part of his life, that went on to create who he is today. Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

  • 234: How Our Self-Worth Can Block Our Pleasure with Amanda Biccum

    234: How Our Self-Worth Can Block Our Pleasure with Amanda Biccum

    24/03/2020 Duración: 37min

    Amanda Biccum is an Evolutionary Coach dedicated to helping individuals discover deeper connections to themselves, their passion and their pleasure. She is currently living in Bali where she is the creator of Tantric workshops, temples and experiences which create deep interpersonal connections and healing spaces rooted in the work of sacred sexuality. 2:00 – Amanda’s view of what self-pleasure is 6:53 – Her road to self-discovery around self-pleasure 11:11 – First steps on the road to self-pleasure 14:22 – Showing love to our own bodies 16:28 – The relationship between self-worth and self-pleasure 19:37 – Societal values and self-worth 22:45 – Breaking feeling “I am bad” 26:54 – Initial steps for couples who have lost touch with their sexuality 34:18 – Her resources and her course “Worship the Goddess” Find Amanda at: www.InstituteOfIntegratedIntimacy.com As well as: www.amandabiccum.com And her course “Worship the Goddess”: www.InstituteOfIntegratedIntim

  • 233: Modern Manhood with Cleo Stiller

    233: Modern Manhood with Cleo Stiller

    17/03/2020 Duración: 42min

    Cleo Stiller is on a mission to encourage health, education and positive social action around the world. She is an award-winning journalist, speaker, and television host — and most recently, the author of Modern Manhood: Conversations About the Complicated World of Being a Good Man Today out with Simon & Schuster on November 12th, 2019. Cleo received a prestigious Peabody Award nomination for public service journalism in 2018 and an Emmy Award nomination in 2015. Her health-focused television show for Univision’s cable network Fusion is the network’s highest-performing original series premiere. Her work receives frequent coverage, including The New York Times, Rolling Stone, Fortune Magazine, PBS, Mother Jones, ABC News, Variety, Self, Essence and many more. She speaks regularly around the country about her work and social impact, most recently at New York University Global Affairs: Women’s Global Health Conference. 2:09 – The reaction to her book “Modern Manhood” 4:04 – Writ

  • 232: Rob Rant: Antagonistic vs Collaborative

    232: Rob Rant: Antagonistic vs Collaborative

    10/03/2020 Duración: 34min

    In this week’s episode, Rob rants about Antagonistic versus Collaborative Communication. Pulling ideas from the key concept of James P. Carse’s book “Finite and Infinite Games”, as well as the work of Simon Sinek, Rob explores the games that we play and people’s relationship to scarcity in relationships and business. 3:09 – James Carse’s book “Finite and Infinite Games” 7:26 – Reflecting on the idea of finite and infinite games 11:54 – Being right versus being connected 13:34 – Your scarcity incites the scarcity of others 17:37 – Tone in communication 19:26 – Societal training regarding scarcity 20:21 – Servant leadership 24:03 – The effects of profit-first business 26:23 – A model of Antagonistic versus Collaborative Communication 30:54 – Incentives for antagonism 32:12 – Self-antagonism Find James Carse at: www.JamesCarse.com And find Simon Sinek at: www.SimonSinek.com Find resources for Rob’s model of Antagonistic versus Collaborative

  • 231: Rob Rant: The Impeachment of the United States

    231: Rob Rant: The Impeachment of the United States

    03/03/2020 Duración: 20min

    In this week’s episode, Rob rants about the outcome of the recent impeachment trial of Donald J. Trump, and the impact it, as well as who he is, has on the world, and its occupants. Rob explores what he sees in the president’s behaviour as it relates to bullying tactics, climate control, racism, and separation, as well as the standard set for young boys. 3:52 – Separation and speaking to a small base 5:23 – Rob’s experience of separation and racism growing up 8:02 – Trump becoming president 10:02 – Bullies and role models 12:48 – Appealing to the disempowered 14:04 – Presidential misconduct 15:45 – Questions and answers Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before

  • 230: Jealousy with Olivia Lara Owen

    230: Jealousy with Olivia Lara Owen

    25/02/2020 Duración: 47min

    Olivia Lara Owen is an expert in Human Transformation, Intimacy and is a Coach and Guide for Men and Women. Olivia works with clients privately, runs online programmes, speaks publicly, writes on the internet and facilitates immersive experiences. Olivia has cultivated a body of work around the Unleashing of the Fully Expressed Self for both Men and Women. The Unleashed path is using the power of sexual embodiment to unlock your authentic expression and recreate an entirely new relationship to your power. Her next release is called The Unleashed Man guiding the modern man in how to be powerful, embodied, confident and fully expressed in his true nature. 2:47 – Jealousy 5:26 – One’s relationship with jealousy 10:55 – Rob’s experience of jealousy 15:42 – Desire and jealousy 19:19 – Understanding what jealousy reflects about ourselves 23:34 – Men’s responses to hearing their partner is jealous 25:42 – Hearing a man express jealousy 28:00 – Enjoying jealousy 30:52

  • 229: Empowerment Through Feng Shui with Patricia Lohan

    229: Empowerment Through Feng Shui with Patricia Lohan

    18/02/2020 Duración: 36min

    Patricia Lohan helps entrepreneurs make their homes & businesses magnetic to money, fame and new opportunities. She shows you what they don’t teach in business school, what lies between the lines, your top-secret tool for success. She is a Feng Shui expert & and passionate female entrepreneur who has shaped her dream life living in Bali with her husband. Patricia has a gift at making Feng Shui simple, easy to understand and implement. She has helped thousands of people across the globe embrace Feng Shui and create lasting changes in their businesses, homes and lives. Patricia has been featured on CNN, Fox, Forbes, The New York Post, She Knows, Essence, Mind Body Green, USA Today and Elephant Journal. 2:26 – Feng Shui 6:00 – The origin and basics of Feng Shui 11:05 – Basic approaches to addressing a studio apartment 14:54 – Addressing clutter and stagnation 20:08 – Success stories 25:46 – The people that approach her 27:20 – The relationship between our condi

  • 228: Book Release: Conscious Cock with Kris Lovestone

    228: Book Release: Conscious Cock with Kris Lovestone

    12/02/2020 Duración: 40min

    Kristopher Lovestone is a sex educator and relationship consultant who survived six divorces in his childhood and went on to rewrite the rules of the relationship game so people can win. He now teaches people how to succeed through communication, education & integrity. His techniques have yielded him a wildly successful 14-year marriage that gets hotter every year, and he published his teachings in his new book Conscious Cock: The Empowered Sexuality Manual For Men. He has been called the “Einstein of relationships” and has been endorsed by many of the top sex educators in the world. 2:21 – Behind the title of “Conscious Cock” 4:44 – The importance of words in sexuality 6:30 – Men and their shame 8:51 – Penis size 14:00 – Lasting longer in bed, having stronger erections 18:31 – Practice for strengthening pelvic muscles in men 21:17 – Having open conversations about sex and sexuality 23:49 – Porn as the main source of education for sexuality 25:49 – Be

  • 227: Overcoming Premature Ejaculation with Jeff Abraham

    227: Overcoming Premature Ejaculation with Jeff Abraham

    04/02/2020 Duración: 42min

    Jeff is a successful entrepreneur and the CEO of Promescent, a leading sexual wellness brand that helps couples Make Love Longer. He and his team are dedicated to bringing innovative products to market that solve sexual performance issues for both men and women. With over 10-years experience in the field of sexual wellness, Jeff has seen and heard from thousands of couples and is a great thought leader in the space. 3:09 – The portion of men affected by Premature Ejaculation (PE) 5:22 – The Arousal Gap 9:33 – Physiological causes of PE 14:02 – Ejaculating before you want to 15:48 – The pressure men experience 23:39 – Men being open about their problems 25:16 – Long-term relationships and intimacy 29:39 – Products to address PE 30:41 – Ensuring there are no side effects 32:15 – Introducing products into a relationship 34:27 – Presenting products as enhancing, rather than fixing sexual experiences 36:11 – The dream impact of these products

  • 226: Unblocking Your Core Pattern(s) with Kristen Kancler

    226: Unblocking Your Core Pattern(s) with Kristen Kancler

    28/01/2020 Duración: 35min

    Kristen Kancler is a Relationship Coach who helps successful, single men find the woman they want to spend the rest of their life with. With over 10 years of experience, Kristen is committed to helping men effortlessly attract the love of their lives through clearing 5 Core Relationship Patterns that appear in all people. 3:06 – How Kristen started her work 5:02 – The difference between traditional and somatic therapy 10:08 – The 5 Core Relationships Patterns 14:40 – Process to identify moments that create patterns 18:42 – Releasing patterns 21:30 – How our Core Patterns create distance between who we are and what we want 25:53 – Self-esteem and fear 27:26 – How men start Kristen’s work 29:53 – Coaching from the opposite sex 32:01 – Predictions and wishes for gender dynamics Find Kristen at: www.KristenKancler.com And her free assessment at: www.KristenKancler.com/love-alignment-assessment Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller

  • 225: Rob Rant: It#x2019s the End of the Year

    225: Rob Rant: It’s the End of the Year

    21/01/2020 Duración: 25min

    In this week’s episode, Rob rants about the transition from 2019 to 2020, the past decade, and how his life has changed. Rob explores the decisions he’s made in his career and relationships, the roles different people have played in shaping him, significant experiences from the past decade, and his outlook for the years ahead. 3:40 – Looking back 6:08 – Turning 50 and enjoying life 8:58 – The previous change of the decade 11:11 – The past decade and the best decision Rob ever made 13:22 – Reflecting on 2019 14:44 – Medicine journeys 17:06 – His business roles expanding 18:56 – HIs relationships 22:02 – His relationship with himself Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to t

  • 224: How to Deal with Getting Hooked with Jade Connelly-Duggan

    224: How to Deal with Getting Hooked with Jade Connelly-Duggan

    14/01/2020 Duración: 45min

    Growing up in a family of wellness and organization development pioneers, Jade Connelly-Duggan, M. Ac., was the guinea pig for what would become the first Master’s of Transformative Leadership and Social Change in the U.S. Using tools from the arenas of ontology, biology of cognition, chaordic design, TLSC principles, natural scale and the proprietary Duggan Method, alongside her clinical acupuncture practice, Jade uses a particularly practical and physiologically grounded skills-based approach to culture and leadership design. Jade’s signature work is in the arena of empowering more effective living and leadership through listening to the body and treating an organization or community as a body using principles of acupuncture. Her unique skill is in teaching individuals and groups to notice and activate their physiology towards leadership- thus naturally away from stuckness or “stress” patterns. Her favorite party trick is transforming team culture impacting thousands of downline emplo

  • 223: Being a Mentally Tough Man with Dominick and Bryan

    223: Being a Mentally Tough Man with Dominick and Bryan

    08/01/2020 Duración: 47min

    Dominick Quartuccio and Bryan Stacy are two men generating worthy inquiry and meaningful introspection into the forces that shape a man’s sexuality, behavior and intimate relationships. Through their podcast, The Great Man Within (formerly The Man Amongst Men), running regular retreats, and their monthly live event The Discerning Dick, they are creating forums for men to discuss what it means to be a man today, and giving them the tools to become the Great Men that they all have the potential to be. 3:09 – Men’s behavior with women 8:10 – Power dynamics and behavior 13:46 – The “Hitch” model of consent 16:12 – Practices for mental toughness: 16:42 – Breathwork and the 60-second breath challenge 21:18 – The difference having support makes 24:58 – 100 press up challenge 27:06 – Cold showers 31:49 – Long-form meditation 35:56 – Temporary absence periods 42:31 – 30-day no dessert challenge Find Dominick and Bryan at: www.DoInnerWork.com And t

  • 222: The Mandatory Necessity of Men#x2019s Groups with Jason Lange

    222: The Mandatory Necessity of Men’s Groups with Jason Lange

    31/12/2019 Duración: 39min

    Jason Lange is a men’s embodiment coach, group facilitator, and evolutionary guide. He helps men drop in and wake up to deeper clarity in their life’s purpose and relationships. He believes every man should be in a men’s group for the growth and support opportunities they provide. Jason applies an integral framework to all the work he offers, drawing on many disciplines and modalities to effectively serve. He has trained with John Wineland, Jun Po Roshi, Tripp Lanier, Ken Wilber, Brother David Steindl-Rast, and Robert Augustus Masters. He is also the co-founder of the non-profit Authentic Los Angeles which teaches Authentic Relating tools that make easy the art of deep connection and community. Twice a month he hosts drop-in men’s groups in Los Angeles, and hosts three deep dive Shadow Breakthrough Weekend’s for men ready to make massive shifts in their lives. His flagship online program, Pillars of Presence, is a 10-week bootcamp for men ready to transform their dating lives from the inside out. Outside of m

  • 221: Changing Your Mindset with Marla Mattenson

    221: Changing Your Mindset with Marla Mattenson

    24/12/2019 Duración: 51min

    Marla Mattenson is a relationship & intimacy expert specializing in coaching couples in business together with a desire to learn how to take their drive for success and growth mindset in business and apply it to invigorate their relationship, increase pleasure, joy and passion all while crushing sales. Over the course of her 25-year career, she’s helped more than 12,000 couples including Academy Award-winning actors, producers and directors, NBA players and coaches, Grammy Award-winning artists, and millionaire entrepreneurs. Marla was also a National Board Certified mathematics teacher in Los Angeles for seven years and is currently on the board of directors of a charter school in Hollywood consulting for them on their sexual education programs for 7th – 12th grade. She’s coached couples, families, individuals, companies, as well as school culture and leadership. Using her neuroscience and mathematics background, Marla is uniquely gifted at working with entrepreneurial couples to transform their negative

  • 220: The Masculine in Relationship with G.S. Youngblood

    220: The Masculine in Relationship with G.S. Youngblood

    17/12/2019 Duración: 31min

    G.S. Youngblood is a coach for men in relationship, former Silicon Valley executive, founder of a tech company that he eventually sold, and the author of two books (including the recently published “The Masculine in Relationship”). His teachings are based on 12 years as a student and creator in the realm of the Masculine-Feminine dynamic, as well as principles he pulls from a variety of fields: psychology, martial arts, tango, meditation, and BDSM. 2:21 – His divorce as the start of his journey 5:07 – Taking responsibility 10:02 – Seeking help 12:46 – The Masculine Blueprint 13:52 – The first element of the Masculine Blueprint: Respond versus React 16:08 – The second element of the Masculine Blueprint: Provide Structure 17:56 – The third element of the Masculine Blueprint: Create Safety 19:01 – Advice for men with female partners in their masculine 21:58 – Pragmatic steps to stop reacting form anger 26:04 – The importance of male companionship 28:11

  • 219: Understanding Men with Alison Armstrong

    219: Understanding Men with Alison Armstrong

    10/12/2019 Duración: 49min

    Alison Armstrong has been designing, leading, and executing a prodigious array of transformational projects for adults and children for nearly 30 years. Alongside her friend Joan McClain, she founded PAX Programs Incorporated with the mission of “altering society’s culture by transforming the way women relate to men”. She believes that by shifting the relationship between women and men from an adversarial context, environments can be created where conflicts become resolved quicker, and more peace can be found on this planet. 1:51 – The biggest changes in man-woman dynamics over the last 30 years 5:55 – Men’s complexity 8:00 – Labels given to men to show women’s dissatisfaction 13:20 – What it means to be a man, and asking for help 17:20 – Evolution in relationships 20:46 – #MeToo 23:36 – Complicity to abuse of power 26:44 – Addressing abuse of power in the world 32:57 – Toxic masculinity 35:10 – The hierarchy of instincts 42:46 – Fight, flight,

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