Tuff Love With Robert Kandell

Welcome back to Tuff Love with Rob Kandell. The show today is special because Rob’s love Morgan is on the show. Together they talk about their relationship and how things work for them.   Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! Here’s How » Join the Tuff Love Community today: robertkandell.com Tuff Love Facebook Tuff Love Instagram Tuff Love YouTube Tuff Love LinkedIn

Welcome back to Tuff Love with Rob Kandell. The topic of the show today is touch, and more specifically how to touch deliberately. Rob is really excited about this topic because he watches a lot of people and cringes at how they touch. As someone who has been training for 14 years now on how to touch, he has some things to say on the topic. Before Rob started doing this work, he never knew how important touch was or that there was a process of learning to touch well. It’s been an incredible experience over these 14 years to have to keep reinventing himself. He started this work at 28 years old, married with a mediocre sex life. He was enthusiastic but un-deliberate. Rob would constantly touch her for some kind of security. He was always reaching out, massaging, touching. There’s a lot of touch that’s un-deliberate, especially between couples.   Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! Here’s How » Join the Tuff Love Community today: robertkandell.com Tuff Love Facebook Tuff

au·then·tic·i·ty Noun : real or genuine : not copied or false : true and accurate its a simple word really… authenticity. Just be real, right. Easy? Right? Well.. no, its not so easy. In matter of fact, its f’in hard to be authentic in this world because the world rarely rewards you if you are truly who you are. > Want to talk to that attractive guy across the room? Gotta look cool. > Want to wear those comfy very out-of-fashion jeans and birkenstocks? No way. > Want to go art to school and not your parents dream of med school? Going to be a rough ride. Or do you want to reveal yourself to your partner. The real you? The kinky you? The dirty, nasty, bad bad bay you? You better be careful. In this call, I invite my old friend Kendra Cunov (met her in 1999!) who was an integral creator of AuthenticSF and Circling. She is now a full-time coach, teacher and bad-ass mother in Northern California. Please check out her website at www.kendracunov.com.   Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, an

This week’s show was off-script. In other words, it’s more real and vulnerable than I expected it to be. We start off with Robert Burns’ 1785 poem: > The best-laid schemes o’ mice an’ men > Gang aft agley The best laid plans of mice and men often go askew. In my life, I am suffering a loss of LA Mother. Not so much the business itself or my responsibilities but what it represented and what it was in my life. Integrity is showing up and being truly who you are. Not who someone else expects you to be. No. YOU. 100% you. I wasn’t in integrity with myself for my business and it got stripped from me. I’m grateful on many levels but also finding out who I am in the aftermath. Come take a listen.   Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! Here’s How » Join the Tuff Love Community today: robertkandell.com Tuff Love Facebook Tuff Love Instagram Tuff Love YouTube Tuff Love LinkedIn

I am in the middle of a transformation. Details will be made public soon. The question, really is how I handle this transition will be a true test of my commitment to being an entrepreneur and a man. As Tony Robbins says, “We all want stability.”   Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! Here’s How » Join the Tuff Love Community today: robertkandell.com Tuff Love Facebook Tuff Love Instagram Tuff Love YouTube Tuff Love LinkedIn

My buddy Jason said that I had to meet Ray that we are like-minded souls. We were like two cats when we first met. Sniffling at each other, our ears pinned back, but with a definite kinship. Since then, we’ve become friends and colleagues.   Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! Here’s How » Join the Tuff Love Community today: robertkandell.com Tuff Love Facebook Tuff Love Instagram Tuff Love YouTube Tuff Love LinkedIn

I grew up an overweight kid in the suburbs of Long Island which meant the heat of the hazy and humid summers was something to be feared. I feared how my shirt would cling to my body, bring the cotton t-shirts to conform to the body I was ashamed of.   Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! Here’s How » Join the Tuff Love Community today: robertkandell.com Tuff Love Facebook Tuff Love Instagram Tuff Love YouTube Tuff Love LinkedIn

A teacher once told me the viewpoint: “Being ‘Nice’ is telling the truth without anger.” I always liked that. – Last weekend, Morgan and I had the opportunity to coach a couple who were in a rough spot.   Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! Here’s How » Join the Tuff Love Community today: robertkandell.com Tuff Love Facebook Tuff Love Instagram Tuff Love YouTube Tuff Love LinkedIn

There was an epic fire in my new home of Calabasas, California on Saturday. We could see huge billowing smoke, fire, helicopters, planes, fire trucks over the ridge from our home. I was home cooking dinner waiting for Morgan and the kids to come home.   Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! Here’s How » Join the Tuff Love Community today: robertkandell.com Tuff Love Facebook Tuff Love Instagram Tuff Love YouTube Tuff Love LinkedIn

The first time I saw Simon Sinek’s presentation, “Starts with Why,” I was blown away. I saw the wisdom in his words and his eloquent way of explaining a new paradigm of how to approach business and life. It has become the first thing I often discuss with.   Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! Here’s How » Join the Tuff Love Community today: robertkandell.com Tuff Love Facebook Tuff Love Instagram Tuff Love YouTube Tuff Love LinkedIn

I am a heterosexual white male born and raised in an upper middle class neighborhood who really has never wanted for anything in his entire life. When they define “privilege,” it would be appropriate to use my life as an example.   Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! Here’s How » Join the Tuff Love Community today: robertkandell.com Tuff Love Facebook Tuff Love Instagram Tuff Love YouTube Tuff Love LinkedIn

The song says: Unconditional Love is what we all strive for. To have it and to receive it. The parents say: We love our children unconditionally. The cynics say: There is no such thing as conditional love. The Lovers say: I love – is it possible?   Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! Here’s How » Join the Tuff Love Community today: robertkandell.com Tuff Love Facebook Tuff Love Instagram Tuff Love YouTube Tuff Love LinkedIn

I once read a “joke” on Facebook that your parents know how to push your buttons because they are the ones who installed them. – My mother, Netta Kandell, was born into a different time, raised to abide by certain rules.   Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! Here’s How » Join the Tuff Love Community today: robertkandell.com Tuff Love Facebook Tuff Love Instagram Tuff Love YouTube Tuff Love LinkedIn

I once told my good friend John… “I don’t believe in polarity.” He was quiet about it for a while and then his face turned red and I thought he might pop a blood vessel. We debated about it and teased each other about it and finally I got a clue.   Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! Here’s How » Join the Tuff Love Community today: robertkandell.com Tuff Love Facebook Tuff Love Instagram Tuff Love YouTube Tuff Love LinkedIn

They say stress is a killer but it’s also the first step to losing your vision. When we stress, we stop seeing and when we stop seeing, we stop performing optimally and then we don’t do well and then guess what? We stress the f*&K out.   Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! Here’s How » Join the Tuff Love Community today: robertkandell.com Tuff Love Facebook Tuff Love Instagram Tuff Love YouTube Tuff Love LinkedIn

You know who you are. You call yourself disorganized or messy. You kinda like it and you kinda hate it. It’s chaos. However, power comes from taking the inherent force of chaos and harnessing it. Learn how here.   Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! Here’s How » Join the Tuff Love Community today: robertkandell.com Tuff Love Facebook Tuff Love Instagram Tuff Love YouTube Tuff Love LinkedIn

Doesn’t everyone just want to be cool? You know that one in the crowd that has it all together? Cool under fire? Strong and silent. Never let them see you sweat. We all want to be suave and know what to say and how to say it.   Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! Here’s How » Join the Tuff Love Community today: robertkandell.com Tuff Love Facebook Tuff Love Instagram Tuff Love YouTube Tuff Love LinkedIn

Welcome to Tuff Love, a weekly podcast hosted by Robert Kandell. We get together every Thursday at 10am PST to discuss the issues that are impacting our society today in relationship, communication, self-esteem and love.   Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! Here’s How » Join the Tuff Love Community today: robertkandell.com Tuff Love Facebook Tuff Love Instagram Tuff Love YouTube Tuff Love LinkedIn

After a one-week break, Tuff Love returns with a vengeance with a topic that’s near and dear to my heart, Self-Sabotage. We all do it. I do it. And it’s what’s keeping us in this small little box we call comfort.   Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! Here’s How » Join the Tuff Love Community today: robertkandell.com Tuff Love Facebook Tuff Love Instagram Tuff Love YouTube Tuff Love LinkedIn

Hello and welcome to Tuff Love, a weekly all from Venice, California with your host, Robert Kandell. Each week, I pick a topic on something that I see in the world that needs discussing.   Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! Here’s How » Join the Tuff Love Community today: robertkandell.com Tuff Love Facebook Tuff Love Instagram Tuff Love YouTube Tuff Love LinkedIn