Tuff Love With Robert Kandell

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Sinopsis

Its an interesting paradox. We all really want to know how we show in the world but we do everything we can to avoid it. Its like an itch we want to scratch but also tend to ignore. We create secret covert alliances with our friends, families, workmates and enemies for them to withhold the truth, to make things safe rather than real. In doing so, we never truly know what people think about us. For some, this is okay. Maybe not for you. Every week, coach, entrepreneur and teacher Rob Kandell will leading a group experience where he will speak his heart-filled, intense, tuff love. He will (a) answer questions posted to this event and via chat, (b) speak his mind plainly on topics of interest, and (c) coach brave enthusiastic volunteers in a group setting. Honestly, we dont know whats going to happen.

Episodios

  • 218: Rob Rant: The Stories We Tell Ourselves

    03/12/2019 Duración: 23min

    In this week’s episode, Rob rants about our internal stories and how they impact our lives, and the lives of those around us. He looks at the stories we tell ourselves about our own identities, about how we relate as individuals to society, and the stories that affect the way we interact with children. 1:09 – Insights from a recent medicine journey 5:50 – The impact of stories we have 10:23 – Stories creating isolation 13:10 – Social media 14:56 – The story of reality and agreement 17:44 – Stories and parenting 19:38 – The stories we tell about ourselves Find Marla Mattenson at: MarlaMattenson.com And David Neagle at: DavidNeagle.com Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for

  • 217: Supporting Women Entrepreneurs with Racheal Cook

    26/11/2019 Duración: 38min

    Racheal Cook is an author, speaker, business growth strategist, and host of the Promote Yourself to CEO podcast. With an MBA in Entrepreneurship, several years consulting small businesses and tech start-ups, and having won the National Small Business Institute Competition, she teaches savvy, soulful, smart women to simplify their businesses so that they can achieve not only a meaningful living, but also a meaningful life. 2:49 – Her early experiences as a post-graduate 7:28 – The reason behind the behavior men exhibit to women in the workplace 9:02 – A toxic workplace and panic attacks 12:32 – First step into running her own business 15:38 – Three people needed for every business 18:00 – Operating from your zone of genius 19:53 – Racheal’s services 22:29 – The gender pay gap and intersectionality 27:25 – Women of color in business 31:19 – Stories of success Find Racheal at: RachealCook.com Facebook: www.facebook.com/racheal.cook Instagram: www.instag

  • 216: Rob Rant: Confront Fear

    19/11/2019 Duración: 24min

    In this week’s episode, Rob rants about fear: how it affects us, various ideas on what it represents, the biology behind it, and his own experiences of it. Rather than shying away from what scares us, we should move towards confronting our fears, so that we can lead lives free of what would hold us back otherwise. 4:23 – Biological impact of fear 8:06 – Fires in California 11:45 – Fears around evolution in relationships 16:34 – Rob’s personal experience of fears around his partner’s evolution 17:51 – Not letting fear run you 21:03 – Confrontation as the antidote for fear Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie tr

  • 215: The Power of Invisible Influence with Shana James

    12/11/2019 Duración: 38min

    For 15 years Shana James has coached more than a thousand leaders, CEOs, authors, speakers and people with big visions who step into more powerful leadership, start and grow businesses, create more effective teams, increase their impact, get promoted, find love, rekindle spark, create a legacy, and become more personally inspired and fulfilled. She’s been known for my ability to assess, in just a few minutes, the cause of dissatisfaction and stuck points in your profession and love life. Then she creates a clear and unique path for you to have true success and incredible love. Referred to as a secret weapon, she cuts through distraction and provides direct access to your confidence, power and clarity. She is also a translator between women and men, providing effective tools to transform conversations and dynamics that have gone awry into connection and collaboration. With an M.A. in psychology, DISC certification, Coaching training, more than a decade facilitating groups and workshops, starting multiple

  • 214: Rob Rant: You’re Evolving – Deal With It

    05/11/2019 Duración: 28min

    In this week’s episode, Rob rants about the evolution that each and every one of us is undergoing constantly in our lives. Rob explores what he’s seen in others, as well as his own evolution in the spheres of his sexuality, his relationship with his parents, and his career as he has gotten older. 4:26 – Our relationship with evolution 9:36 – Rob’s sexual evolution 13:57 – Masturbation and self-love 16:51 – Your transformation and those around you 21:27 – Evolution with one’s parents 24:44 – Rob’s evolution around his career Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden i

  • 213: Libido, Desire and Arousal with Susan Bratton

    29/10/2019 Duración: 45min

    Susan Bratton is an author, award-winning speaker and serial entrepreneur who champions passionate relationships. Her straight-forward love-making advice is rooted in her personal experience of watching her marital intimacy wither as she and her husband pursued dynamic careers. When her relationship hit a crisis point, Susan made a fierce commitment to do whatever it took to hold her family together and revive the passion in her marriage. 2:45 – Susan’s journey in becoming a sexpert 11:42 – The Expanded Orgasm Practice 18:06 – Sexuality, triggers, and shame 24:05 – The growth of her and her partner’s company, Personal Life Media 28:22 – Changes in the last fifteen years 33:53 – Everyday factors that affect our body, libido, and desire 40:46 – Recommendations for those wanting to start working on their sex life Find Susan at: www.PersonalLifeMedia.com And her videos at: www.BetterLover.com Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book F

  • 212: How Men Can Level Up with Mark Guay

    22/10/2019 Duración: 42min

    Mark is a personal-development coach based in San Diego. His work guides men to integrate emotional energy and step into greater purpose, power, and connection. He is a featured teacher on Insight Timer where you can listen to his meditations for free. 3:15 – Mark’s story and mission 9:52 – Men and crying 14:25 – Traditional work lifestyles and emotions 21:23 – Pragmatic steps for men to connect with their emotions 26:08 – Suppression of emotions 30:51 – Shame and porn 36:00 – 18-year-old girls and porn 40:10 – Mark’s upcoming book Find Mark at: MarkWGuay.me Mark’s Emotional Charge Exercise: http://markwguay.me/emotionalchargeexercise Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it f

  • 211: The Radical Change of Gender Dynamics in Modern Divorce with Andrea Vacca

    15/10/2019 Duración: 34min

    Andrea Vacca is the founder of Vacca Family Law Group, a law firm in New York City that focuses exclusively on non-adversarial divorce and family law matters. Andrea is regularly featured as a media expert on divorce-related matters, and she lectures, writes and blogs on the topics of collaborative law, mediation, and topics related to non-adversarial family law. After practising traditional litigation-focused family law for many years, Andrea’s firm now works only with clients who want to keep their divorces out of court and want their prenuptial and postnuptial agreements negotiated in a non-adversarial manner. In addition to having a B.A. and J.D, Andrea also has a Certificate in Positive Psychology and regularly applies what she has learned to help her clients navigate their divorces, including having a growth mindset, being resilient and encouraging mindfulness. Andrea is President of the New York Association of Collaborative Professionals and is a co-author of the book, Onward & Upward: A Guide F

  • 210: Sexuality as the Gateway Drug for Intimacy with Caity Flannagan and Matt Sturm

    08/10/2019 Duración: 38min

    Caity Flannagan and Matt Sturm are the co-founders of Embodied Erotic – a community for sacred sexuality, intimacy, and personal growth. Drawing on Neo-Tantra, Core Shamanic practices, somatic psychotherapy, yoga and meditation, they offer a unique experience that’s powerful, accessible and fun in aiding the exploration of couples’ sexuality. Having worked with hundreds of couples, they share practical tools for sex and relating to uncover the magic and love waiting just below the surface, while remaining conscious of each individual’s unique experience, to invite the full expression of our bodies and relationships. 2:26 – Their backgrounds and how they came into their current work 5:06 – Matt’s experience of facing his ego when entering Tantra 11:47 – An epic breakdown in a couple they’ve coached 14:01 – Shame and sexuality 16:13 – What is Tantra? 18:14 – A recommendation for those interested in learning about Tantra 19:33 – Their online couples course 25

  • 209: Stop Giving Yourself Away with Sydney Campos

    01/10/2019 Duración: 34min

    Sydney Campos is a Visionary, Healer, Spiritual Teacher and Author of The Empath Experience: What To Do When You Feel Everything. Sydney guides visionary leaders to live in alignment with their soul purpose while embodying next-level power, pleasure and prosperity. In addition to being a seasoned Business Strategy Advisor and Certified Holistic Health Coach, Sydney is also a 200-Hour Registered Yoga Teacher, Reiki Energy Healer, Azure Light Guardian and Certified Akashic Records Practitioner and Instructor. Sydney shares her multifaceted expertise through writing, 1:1 visionary mentoring, self-mastery courses, transformational retreats, live workshops and events, intuitive soul sessions and the acclaimed Visionary Souls Podcast. 2:33 – Sydney’s mission 6:53 – Her entry into her journey 12:41 – Misdiagnosing children 16:43 – Gun violence and cultural conditioning 22:53 – Ancestral trauma 27:21 – Sydney’s work 30:37 – The Quantum Creator Academy Find Sydney at: www.Syd

  • 208: The Beauty of Conflict with CrisMarie Campbell and Susan Clarke

    24/09/2019 Duración: 43min

    CrisMarie Campbell and Susan Clarke are a couple who together run Thrive! Coaching & Consulting, offering coaching for individuals, couples, and corporates. Founded in 2002, they work with leadership teams, management groups, project teams and senior executive teams to resolve conflict in real time and use it to drive collective creativity, profits, and extraordinary results. They teach that conflict is natural when smart, passionate people work together towards an ambitious goal. The trick is learning how to use that conflict as a healthy driver for collective creativity. 2:50 – CrisMarie’s background 7:28 – Susan’s background 11:37 – Their book “The Beauty of Conflict” 14:15 – Being right or being relational 19:18 – A pragmatic tool for resolving conflict in romantic relationships 24:48 – A pragmatic tool for resolving conflict in business relationships 28:57 – Trends relating to women in business and society at large 33:33 – Being in the discomfort of co

  • 207: Three Pillars for Equanimity with Pablo Lucero

    17/09/2019 Duración: 46min

    Pablo Lucero is a renowned Yoga instructor and designer of Functional Movement – a powerful and skilful integrative practice rooted in the ancient philosophies of Yoga, Ancestral Indigenous Healing Arts and Functional Movement Methodologies. Pablo aims to awaken people’s inner power, recondition their natural vitality and reclaim their highest potential. He leads workshops, conferences, memorable Yoga Retreats and Yoga Teacher Trainings Certifications locally and internationally. 3:37 – The beginning’s of Pablo’s path 9:31 – The move to Costa Rica 14:34 – Equanimity 17:34 – Three pillars to establish equanimity 17:54 – The first pillar: Conscious Movement 24:16 – The second pillar: Concentration 28:00 – The third pillar: Adaptive inquiry 33:07 – The beauty of being human 40:46 – Pablo’s upcoming events Find Pablo at: www.PabloLuceroYoga.com www.FunctionalPowerYoga.com Facebook: www.facebook.com/pablolucerostella Instagram: @pablo_sometimes Don’

  • 206: Getting Out of the Man Box with Dr. John Schinnerer

    10/09/2019 Duración: 40min

    Dr. John Schinnerer is an U.C. Berkeley-trained coach with a Ph.D. in educational psychology, who provides executive coaching and organizational consulting with a scientific basis, with previous clients ranging from AskJeeves to Visa, FedEx to Starbucks. Drawing from the best of his research background, Dr John helps clients to overcome anxiety and anger to move towards happier, more purposeful lives. A nationally-recognized speaker and an award-winning author, Dr John was recently one of three experts to consult with Pixar on the Academy Award-winning movie, Inside Out. 3:12 – Consulting for Pixar’s Inside Out 5:32 – The Man Box 8:55 – Why people would put men in the Man Box 11:41 – Fears around ostracization 17:43 – Women feeling disconnected from their partners and how it leads to divorce 21:33 – Suggestions for wives who feel disconnected from their husbands 25:55 – Helping an angry male partner 30:34 – Men’s connection with their emotions across generations

  • 205: The Rob and Ken Show

    03/09/2019 Duración: 31min

    Ken Blackman is a sex and relationship expert who has worked with hundreds of couples from San Francisco to Paris to Sydney, and trained thousands of students in his workshops on sex, intimacy and connection. With nearly two decades of experience, Ken’s powerful, unapologetic break from conventional relationship advice is shifting the world conversation around love and committed coupledom. 01:03 – Ken’s history 5:17 – The difficulty for women to speak their truth, and for men to hear it 10:21 – Men and the shift of the gender paradigm 12:39 – Men wanting to know the truth, even if it hurts their ego 17:08 – Men’s sensitivity to the emotional charge behind communication 19:12 – Sex in the 21st Century 22:46 – What each gender wants sexually, but has trouble speaking about 26:13 – How to keep long-term monogamy hot Find Ken at: medium.com/straight-talkers Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by T

  • 204: The Truth About Attachment Theory with Dr Cat Meyer

    27/08/2019 Duración: 36min

    Dr Cat Meyer, PsyD, LMFT, is evolving the relationship we have with sexuality and our bodies. A published researcher, yoga instructor, reiki practitioner, and licensed couples and sex therapist, Dr Meyer pulls from various fields of knowledge to inform her work helping people to “create a deeply fulfilling, prosperous relational and sexual life” through private practice, workshops, international retreats, and her podcast Eat.Play.Sex. 2:14 – Dr Meyer’s backstory 3:55 – Disconnect between body and mind 8:29 – What is attachment theory? 15:42 – Common misconceptions about attachment theory 19:01 – Compassionate methods of interacting with different types 21:26 – First dimension of Mentalizing: deciphering differences between us and them 23:20 – Second dimension: Internal versus external 26:04 – Third dimension: spontaneity versus monitoring 30:47 – Fourth dimension: cognitive versus affective Find Cat at: www.SexLoveYoga.com Instagram: @sexloveyoga Facebook

  • 203: Rob Rant: Confronting Your Ghosts

    20/08/2019 Duración: 19min

    In this week’s episode, Rob rants about looking into our past traumas and how we continue to have a connection with them. He outlines his current process behind writing his autobiography, and how he has investigated past relationships and events in order to gain insight into and feel out his own pain from the past. 2:07 – Confronting one’s ghosts 5:01 – Childhood wounds 8:59 – Being in conversation with our parents 10:01 – Planning Rob’s book and investigating old hurts 14:01 – Not pushing our ghosts away 15:07 – Rob’s relationship with his parents and punishment Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where t

  • 202: The Role of Creativity in Your Evolution with Adam Roa

    13/08/2019 Duración: 49min

    Adam Roa is an inspired speaker, author, coach, and business consultant. Through his video series “The Art of Choosing Love” Adam explores his personal relationship with intimacy and his traumas, and his search for understanding ‘what it means to be a conscious, empowered man’. A prolific artist, Adam uses film, music, and spoken word to explore messages of creativity, love, and transformation. 3:04 – Adam’s transition out of his 10-year relationship to where he is today 6:41 – The rising to consciousness of past trauma 10:51 – Feeling unsafe in being the object of sexual desire 16:28 – The response of people to their partners’ trauma 18:27 – The importance of holding space and validating people when they open up 22:59 – Becoming single for the first time as an adult 29:04 – Having a camera on your life 38:46 – The Grey Zone Find Adam at: www.AdamRoa.com Instagram @Adam.Roa As well as Adam’s YouTube series “The Art of Choosing Love”: www.TheArtOfChoosingLove.com

  • 201: Rob Rant: That Annoying New Teacher of Yours

    06/08/2019 Duración: 25min

    In this week’s episode, Rob rants about how the relationships we have with people who annoy us can be used as great tools for addressing parts of ourselves. Rob looks at how this affected his relationship with his father, as well as ways of approaching this means of reflecting on ourselves. 3:58 – Rob’s Father’s Day post 6:29 – Accepting others despite the way we feel treated 11:32 – We have three choices in every situation 13:14 – Viewing annoyance as an opportunity for magic, as opposed to fighting it 15:31 – Outside annoyances as a reflection of what is inside us 18:48 – Exploring an article on dealing with annoying people Find the Mind Body Green article “How To Deal With Annoying People” by Kaia Roman here: www.MindBodyGreen.com/0-17805/how-to-deal-with-annoying-people.html Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden

  • 200: Rob Rant: Episode #200!!!!

    30/07/2019 Duración: 24min

    In this week’s episode, Rob rants about the process he’s gone through over the last two hundred episodes of Tuff Love, and the experiences and insights he’s had into privilege, determination, abundance, and success along the way. 1:24 – Gratitude to everyone who participated 4:08 – The setting for the start of Tuff Love 6:31 – Privilege, work ethic, and determination 12:21 – Abundance vs Scarcity 16:11 – The process behind Rob’s relationship with Morgan 19:30 – When to continue, and measuring success 22:22 – Rob’s second book Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Un

  • 199: How Self-Love Will, and Can, Keep You from Love with Arielle Ford

    23/07/2019 Duración: 39min

    Arielle Ford is the “The Cupid of Consciousness”: a world leader in the self-growth space. Practising and teaching conscious-based approaches to love and life for 30 years, she is a bestselling author, speaker, and relationship expert whose “mission is to help women Find Love, Keep Love and Be Love”. She is the author of eleven books, including her international best seller “The Soulmate Secret: Manifest The Love of Your Life With The Law of Attraction”, which has be published in 21 languages and 40 countries, and “Wabi Sabi Love: The Ancient Art of Finding Perfect Love in Imperfect Relationships”. She can be found regularly presenting workshops around the world, from Europe to Asia, to South America, 2:17 – The beginning of Arielle’s work 5:27 – Modern marriage 9:32 – Understanding our habits with money within a relationship 13:00 – Divorce and Wabi-sabi love 15:09 – Men are easy to understand 16:56 – #MeToo, women’s anger, and men’s behavior 20:00 – Self-Love and c

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