Relationships Uncomplicated

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Sinopsis

Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni and Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov have teamed up to bring you invaluable relationship advice. Both Idit and Alina are practicing Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists in the state of Florida who run successful private practices in Miami. They take pride in helping people improve their relationships or heal after breakups. This show is all about un-complicating and demystifying social messages about relationships. Idit and Alina offer easy-to-apply tips and ideas about common relationship issues such as communication, trust, infidelity, breakups, divorce, etc. *Not intended as a replacement for psychotherapy.

Episodios

  • Episode 027: What You Can Do To Make Your Relationship Work

    Episode 027: What You Can Do To Make Your Relationship Work

    23/10/2017 Duración: 26min

    Those of you in long-term romantic relationships may be feeling like something is off between you and your spouse, yet you can't quite pinpoint what's going on or how you even ended up at this point.  Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni sheds light on this often brought up issue in couples therapy. Idit also introduces a theory and guide that's based on 40 years of research to help you learn what you can do to improve your relationship and make it work.  Together with Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov, they discuss the key points to a strong relationship based on Dr. Gottman's Sound Relationship House Theory.  You don't want to miss out on Idit's FREEBIE below, a full couple's evaluation based on the successfully proven and effective Gottman method! Links mentioned in this episode: Link to Idit's Freebie: Full Couple's Evaluation Utilizing The Gottman Checkup Link to the Sound Relationship House Theory:  https://www.gottman.com/about/the-gottman-method/ To send us questions you'd like answered in a future podca

  • Episode 026: How To Stop Self-Sabotage For A Future Relationship

    Episode 026: How To Stop Self-Sabotage For A Future Relationship

    16/10/2017 Duración: 28min

    On this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated, Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov discusses common self-sabotage scenarios that arise in relationships.  The examples mentioned are paired with the underlying reason behind the behaviors. She hopes to spread awareness to better individuals for themselves and their future partners. Together with Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni, Alina shares possible reasons why self-sabotaging behaviors led to a breakup and what you can do differently in your next relationship. Additionally download her Freebie below, a Guide to help identify self-sabotage to gain tools for a healthy future relationship.  Links mentioned in this episode: The Guide to Help Identify and Atop Relational Self- Sabotage To send us questions you'd like answered in a future podcast: Please write your question in the following format and email idit@iditsharonicounseling.com or alina@alinagershonov.com: Type of relationship (marriage, dating, etc.) Length of relationship Your story + your question to u

  • Episode 025: Staying After Infidelity - Mistake #3

    Episode 025: Staying After Infidelity - Mistake #3

    09/10/2017 Duración: 24min

    On this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated, Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni sheds light on a situation many couples with infidelity issues deal with. This episode offers a freebie: The Step By Step Overall Healing After Infidelity Plan. After the initial phase of shock, couples try to avoid the pain and subconsciously sweep their issues under the rug in an effort to "forgive and forget." Despite efforts to do so, the elephant in the room will rear its head unless something is done. Together with Breakup Specialist, Alina Gershonov, Idit sheds light on how to work through this phase of infidelity recovery.  You won't want to miss out on the freebie, The Step By Step Overall Healing After Infidelity Plan. It will offer additional help if you are feeling stuck.  Links mentioned in this episode: Freebie: The Step By Step Overall Healing After Infidelity Plan To send us questions you'd like us to answer in a podcast: Please write your question in the following form and email idit@iditsharonicounseling.com or

  • Episode 024: Things We Wish People In Miserable Relationships Knew

    Episode 024: Things We Wish People In Miserable Relationships Knew

    02/10/2017 Duración: 28min

    Do you feel like your happiness is in your partner's hands? Do you constantly go back and forth in your mind about whether you want to stay or not?  Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov sheds light on why so many people fear leaving a relationship that’s miserable and how more fear of not finding someone or something better perpetuates your unhappiness. Together with Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni, they explore some common factors that people in this position bring up. In addition, Alina and Idit offer useful suggestions on how to create change in your relationship and fill you in on a therapeutic secret! To send us questions you'd like us to answer in a podcast: Please write your question in the following form and email idit@iditsharonicounseling.com or alina@alinagershonov.com: Type of relationship (marriage, dating, etc.) Length of relationship Your story + your question to us Remember, you will absolutely remain anonymous  For more information about the podcast, Idit Sharoni, and Alina Gershonov visit:

  • Episode 023: Signs Your Partner May Not Be That Into Your Relationship

    Episode 023: Signs Your Partner May Not Be That Into Your Relationship

    25/09/2017 Duración: 33min

    Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni and Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov give you a sneak peek into the therapy room. Idit answers the most common question every couples therapist receives. Do you know what it is? On this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated titled Signs Your Partner May Not Be That Into Your Relationship, Relationships Expert Idit Sharoni reveals the 9 signs to help you assess if this may be happening in your current relationship.  Stay Tuned: you don't want to miss expert tips on what you can do if you realize your partner is not that into your relationship.  Links mentioned in this episode:  Episode #021: Things We Wish Couples With Communication Issues Knew (Part 1) To send us questions you'd like us to answer in a podcast: Please write your question in the following form and email idit@iditsharonicounseling.com or alina@alinagershonov.com: Type of relationship (marriage, dating, etc.) Length of relationship Your story + your question to us Remember, you will absolutely remain anonymou

  • Episode 022: The Difference Between Moving On And Healing

    Episode 022: The Difference Between Moving On And Healing

    18/09/2017 Duración: 19min

    Have you tried everything you can to heal after a breakup but still feel as though you haven't been able to? Chances are you have been trying to get over your ex/move on instead of putting in the work to heal your heart.  On this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated titled The Difference Between Moving On And Healing, Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov shares her professional insight on what it feels like when you are ready to heal.  Together with Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni, this episode addresses the necessary mindset shift in order to truly heal. Alina also reveals the biggest downside to getting over someone. Hint: it affects your future relationship.  Links mentioned in this episode:  Episode 4: How To Heal After A Breakup  To send us questions you'd like us to answer in a podcast: Please write your question in the following form and email idit@iditsharonicounseling.com or alina@alinagershonov.com: Type of relationship (marriage, dating, etc.) Length of relationship Your story + your question to

  • Episode 021: Things We Wish Couples With Communication Issues Knew (Part 1)

    Episode 021: Things We Wish Couples With Communication Issues Knew (Part 1)

    04/09/2017 Duración: 23min

    Do you find that whenever you tell it like it is your partner takes it the wrong way? Does your partner get defensive whenever you tell them something is wrong? On this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated, Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni challenges the need to be brutally hones with your partner. She also provides listeners with a recipe on how to say things in a way that has the potential to be heard and bring about a change.  Tune in to learn from co-hosts Idit Sharoni and Alina Gershonov what they wish you knew to better your relationship.  Links mentioned in this episode:  Episode 19: Love Your Partner How THEY Want To Be Loved To send us questions you'd like us to answer in a podcast: Please write your question in the following form and email idit@iditsharonicounseling.com or alina@alinagershonov.com: Type of relationship (marriage, dating, etc.) Length of relationship Your story + your question to us Remember, you will absolutely remain anonymous  For more information about the podcast, Idit Shar

  • Episode 020: How To Attract The Right Person

    Episode 020: How To Attract The Right Person

    28/08/2017 Duración: 18min

    On this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated, Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov shares three areas where most people feel stuck after they've healed from a breakup and begin dating again.  This episode titled How To Attract The RIGHT Person After A Breakup will help you look deeper within if you're stuck in the dating world and are having trouble attracting quality potential partners. Together with Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni, Alina reveals a takeaway tip to steer you closer to Going Forward and finding the one who is right for you. Tune in to listen to expert knowledge and a new perspective that can assist you in making the changes in your life you yearn for. Links mentioned in this episode:  Book Recommendation- Deeper Dating: How to Drop the Games of Seduction and Discover the Power of Intimacy by Ken Page, LCSW https://www.kenpagelcsw.com/deeper-dating-home/ To send us questions you'd like us to answer in a podcast: Please write your question in the following form and email idit@iditsharonicounsel

  • Episode 019: Love Your Partner How THEY Want To Be Loved

    Episode 019: Love Your Partner How THEY Want To Be Loved

    21/08/2017 Duración: 21min

    Do you ever feel like you're trying so hard to show your partner you care, but they just aren't seeing the effort you're putting in?  On this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated, Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni explains how these common arguments appear in relationships.  Together with Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov, they share the basic assumption that causes most of the relationship distress discussed in this episode; both partners expect each other to be mind readers.  Idit reveals easy-to-impliment argument de-escalating tips you can begin using immediately. These practical tips allow space to have a different, more productive and healing kind of conversation. The goal of this relationship help episode is to create understanding, effective communication, and gain clarity. Links mentioned in this episode:  The Five Love Languages by Dr. Gary Chapman www.5lovelanguages.com  To send us questions you'd like us to answer in a podcast: Please write your question in the following form and email idit@idit

  • Episode 018: Can You Be Friends With your Ex?

    Episode 018: Can You Be Friends With your Ex?

    14/08/2017 Duración: 26min

    Do you want to have a friendship with your ex?  Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov asks thought-provoking questions to help you figure out the real reason why you still want to be friends.  Together with Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni, they explore the differences between a true friendship and a casual, check-in friendship.  On this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated, Alina & Idit guide you with important factors to consider internally such as emotional attachment, closure, and potential ulterior motives.  You may find that your decision to be friends could change after listening to Idit & Alina's expert advice based on real client experiences.  Links mentioned in this episode:  Study mentioned: Griffith, R.L., Gillath, O., Zhao, X., & Martinez, R. (2017). Staying friends with an ex-romantic partner: Predictors and outcomes. Personal Relationships, advanced online publication. Episode 4: How To Heal After a Breakup: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/relationships-uncomplicated/id1232273542

  • Episode 017: How Much Time Spent Together Is Too Much?

    Episode 017: How Much Time Spent Together Is Too Much?

    07/08/2017 Duración: 29min

    Ever wonder if you're spending too much time with your significant other? On this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated, Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni and Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov address a question they received from one of their podcast listeners.  Idit and Alina offer their different perspectives on this topic along with valuable indicators and advice on time spent together in a relationship, in addition to healthy ways of separating work life and home life.  Don't miss out on Alina's freebie below: 10 Warning Signs of A Toxic Relationship. We welcome your questions! See details below.  Links mentioned in this episode:  Freebie mentioned: 10 Warning Signs of A Toxic Relationship (click here) Episode 4: How To Heal After a Breakup & Episode 3: How To Listen & Be Heard: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/relationships-uncomplicated/id1232273542?mt=2  To send us questions you'd like us to answer in a podcast: Please write your question in the following form and email idit@iditsharonicou

  • Episode 016: Staying After Infidelity, Mistake #2

    Episode 016: Staying After Infidelity, Mistake #2

    31/07/2017 Duración: 28min

    If you are trying to piece back your relationship after it's been shattered by an affair, then this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated will be of help to you.  This episode called Staying After Infidelity - Mistake #2 addresses the second mistake couples make while trying to heal after infidelity. Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni provides a breakdown of questions to avoid and questions she recommends asking when confronting your partner. Together with Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov they explore possible scenarios of conversations and their benefits along with potential detriments to the relationship. Idit's Freebie is a worksheet guideline on how to access your partner's inner world- a necessary step towards rebuilding broken trust and healing your relationship.  Links mentioned in this episode:  Freebie: Staying After Infidelity: Mistake # 2 Worksheet Download Access to Idit's private Facebook group: It's Okay To Stay Episode 12: Staying After Infidelity - Mistake #1  To send us questions you'd lik

  • Episode 015: Why We Overlook Red Flags In Relationships

    Episode 015: Why We Overlook Red Flags In Relationships

    24/07/2017 Duración: 23min

    Have you recently asked yourself, "How did my relationship get to this point?" If you are in a new relationship or in a committed relationship for a while and things are not going as well as you'd hoped they would in the beginning, then this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated could help you.  Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov and Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni discuss the reasons Why We Overlook Red Flags in Relationships. One message Idit & Alina really emphasize during this episode is that your instincts or intuition are rarely wrong. They discuss ways you can listen to it along with signs of red flags.  If you want to find out if you are ignoring the red flags in your relationship, then take the free quiz below. Links mentioned in this episode:  Freebie: QUIZ: Am I Seeing The Red Flags In My Relationship? Article mentioned: https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/prescriptions-life/201107/relationship-red-flags-are-you-ignoring-them Episode 14: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/relationships-unco

  • Episode 014: Is It Time For Couples Counseling?

    Episode 014: Is It Time For Couples Counseling?

    17/07/2017 Duración: 24min

    Have you said the following words to yourself recently? "We Need Help." If so, then this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated, "Is It Time for Couples Counseling" is one you don't want to miss.  Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni provides a roadmap for the process most couples go through when they are experiencing issues in their relationship.  Did you know that the average couple waits 6.7 years to see a professional? Idit Sharoni and Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov hope to change this number by providing essential information in this very episode. They also share some helpful tips on how to find the right couples counselor for you!  To send us questions you'd like us to answer in a podcast: Please write your question in the following form and email idit@iditsharonicounseling.com or alina@alinagershonov.com: Type of relationship (marriage, dating, etc.) Length of relationship Your story + your question to us Remember, you will absolutely remain anonymous  For more information about the podcast, Idit Sha

  • Episode 013: Why You Cant Let That One Person Go

    Episode 013: Why You Can't Let That One Person Go

    10/07/2017 Duración: 25min

    Do you ever think about the one that got away?  Believe it or not, the reason why you can't let go has nothing to do with the person constantly on your mind and absolutely everything to do with you.                           If you're intrigued, then this episode is definitely for you! In this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated, Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov reveals 3 things that are keeping you stuck and not allowing you to let that one person go.  Together with Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni, they reveal both the conscious and subconscious reasoning for why people still hold on emotionally. Don't forget to send us questions you'd like us to address in a future episode! (We'll respond to you directly first!) Resources: To send us questions you'd like us to answer in a podcast: Please write your question in the following format and email idit@iditsharonicounseling.com or alina@alinagershonov.com: Type of relationship (marriage, dating, etc.) Length of relationship Your story + your question to us

  • Episode 012: Staying After Infidelity, Mistake #1

    Episode 012: Staying After Infidelity, Mistake #1

    03/07/2017 Duración: 30min

    Ever wonder how to increase trust after infidelity has been revealed in a relationship? On this Episode of Relationships Uncomplicated, Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni reveals the first of many mistakes both partners make after infidelity has been revealed in their relationship. Together with Breakup specialist Alina Gershonov, this group of episodes titled "Staying After Infidelity" will present common mistakes both the hurt partner and the betrayed partner make along with how to solve the problem and most importantly; how to increase trust. The tips given during this episode are expert advise given from years of experience helping couples rebuild trust after infidelity and overwhelming emotions of betrayal have plagued a relationship. Links mentioned in this episode:  Freebie: Click to gain access to Step-by-step worksheet on how to increase trust and create a plan to part ways with your affair partner.  Freebie: Click to ask for access to Idit's Closed Facebook Group: It's Okay To Stay Book mentioned: Not

  • Episode 011: How To Survive Being Ghosted

    Episode 011: How To Survive Being Ghosted

    26/06/2017 Duración: 32min

    If you're currently in the dating world, then you've likely heard of "being ghosted" or you have unfortunately experienced it yourself.  As if ghosting isn't painful enough to deal with; icing, and simmering have plagued the dating scene even further. Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni and Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov address these extremely hurtful and emotionally damaging ways to part in a dating relationship. Idit and Alina address the reasons why people resort to saying nothing out of fear of a confrontational conversation or ultimately hurting someone's feeling. Also, learn just how frequently ghosting, icing, and simmering are used and the reasoning behind this non-existent form of communication.  Get expert tips on how to deal with being ghosted, iced, or simmered and learn how to date mindfully.  Resources: To send us questions you'd like us to answer in a podcast: Please write your question in the following form and email idit@iditsharonicounseling.com or alina@alinagershonov.com: Type of relati

  • Episode 010: Why Do People Cheat?

    Episode 010: Why Do People Cheat?

    19/06/2017 Duración: 25min

    Have you searched the internet endlessly, trying to understand why your partner cheated? If you have, then chances are you discovered misleading information and unfortunately have been misinformed. Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni and Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov discuss the causes of infidelity on this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated, called Why Do People Cheat? Idit & Alina also address common misconceptions about infidelity; the one that comes up the most is that the betraying partner wants to get out of a bad marriage and be with the person they are having the affair with. The truth is, most of the time, the partner who cheated does not want to leave the marriage at all. In fact, a recent study shows that only 3% of those who divorce after an affair actually end up marrying their affair partner.  Don't get caught up in the reasons why people think affairs occur; tune into this episode to find out the 3 main reasons why people cheat which are backed by evidence-based research. Idit's FREE

  • Episode 009: Why Getting Over a Breakup Can Feel Like Drug Withdrawal

    Episode 009: Why Getting Over a Breakup Can Feel Like Drug Withdrawal

    12/06/2017 Duración: 22min

    If you've recently gone through a breakup, then you may find relief in knowing that you are not the only one who feels like you're withdrawing from a drug.  Believe it or not, the deep pain experienced after a split actually triggers the same part of the brain that is stimulated during drug addiction, according to a recent study at Stony Brook University. This makes sense, love is one of the most powerful addictions; if it's lost then the body enters a period of withdrawal.  In this episode called Why Getting Over a Breakup Can Feel Like Drug Withdrawal, Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov and Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni explain what the physical process entails once the body's stress hormones have been released.  In addition, the #1 tip for survival is shared to help you through this withdrawal period. You don't want to miss it! Resources: For more information about the podcast, Idit Sharoni, and Alina Gershonov visit: www.iditsharoni.com www.alinagershonov.com Links mentioned in this episode: Freebie: D

  • Episode 008: Am I Crazy to Stay After My Partner Cheated

    Episode 008: Am I Crazy to Stay After My Partner Cheated

    05/06/2017 Duración: 22min

    Have you asked yourself "Am I crazy to stay in this relationship after I've been cheated on?" then you're in the right place. If you haven't personally been in this situation and thought this questions about a friend or family member, then this episode will absolutely be helpful for you as well.  Did you know that infidelity affects 1 in every 2.7 couples? In fact, most couples (65%-70%) stay together afterwards.   In this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated, Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni shares research based facts about infidelity along with trends she's seen as couples therapist specializing in infidelity. Together with Breakup Expert Alina Gershonov, they shed light on the reasons why friends and family encourage the betrayed partner to leave. They also address societal norms and the shame both partners experience. Additionally, they discuss exactly what needs to happen when both partners are committed to staying and what that process looks like. Learn how so many couples are able to thrive after an

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