Clarity On Fire

Dear Krachel: My husband has been lying to me for years. Am I crazy?



Welcome to another episode of Dear Krachel, our monthly advice segment where we answer listener questions about life, career, relationships, existential angst, and anything that helps you become a more whole, fulfilled version of yourself.   This month we answered questions from:   Your Biggest Man Fan, who has achieved some pretty spectacular things in life: Climbing out of poverty, losing 130 pounds, and being married for 20 years, to name a few! But now that his weight loss has stabilized and he’s no longer climbing the ladder at a corporate job, he’s finding it hard to enjoy his success—How do you feel good about yourself when you’re no longer measuring your progress with numbers and metrics? Heartbroken & Confused, whose trust in her husband has been shattered after learning he’s been lying to her for three years about something very significant. He doesn’t understand why she’s so upset … is she crazy for making a big deal out of it?   We choose to answer just two questions this time, because we kn