Sex With Emily

 Do you find intelligence a turn-on? Well, you're in luck this week because THE Anna David is in the studio with Emily and Anderson to talk all about her writing career, new podcast, her journey through addiction and recovery, and of course -- sex! Addiction specialist and relationship guru Anna dishes out what it was like writing multiple novels and creating her podcast After Party Pod. Bonding over writing triumphs and failures Anna shares with Emily her experiences through the years of her ever-expanding career which all began with an accidental dating task in NY. Who knew trading lives with someone would get you a spot inside Playboy?! Emily and Anna then discuss past dating experiences including a celebrity ex-boyfriend. Anna also divulges, upon request, the best sexual encounter of her life! Let's just say her safe word is "yellow"..... Next listener emails. What to do when your boyfriend won't stop watching porn? Will your past traumas let you have a healthy relationship and sex life? Having the best s

In this week's podcast Emily is back in the studio with, you guessed it, Menace! In this hilarious podcast Emily and Menace discuss the real story behind Hustler stores, glass dildos, and answer listeners' emails that may shock even the most avid listeners! We've spent a lot of time talking about going above and beyond in your relationship. Any relationship takes work - especially in the bedroom - which is why it is so important to embrace and explore your own sexuality with no shame or regrets. If your man can’t handle your toys, he doesn’t deserve you! Emily gives advice for ways to help your guy feel more comfortable about using toys (Hello Jimmy Jane Form 2!) which can re-ignite your sex life and provide an amazing experience for both you AND your partner. Next they move on to the popular subject of “Friends with Benefits”: What do you do if one of you wants more? Menace and Emily provide amusing yet helpful guidance for awkward situations and talk about not settling for sprinkles of attention. Also tackl

Social media is here to stay but how is it affecting your relationships?. In the studio tonight is freelance writer Annie Daly who lends her expertise on sex, dating, health and millennial trends for New York Post, Women's Health, SELF, Elle, Shape, Health and Time Out New York to name a few.   Emily and Annie talk about why social media does matter (even if you dislike it), Generation Validation and the rules of online dating. But first, will Anderson give up what he’s learned from Sex With Emily that’s made his wife happy in the bedroom? You might love social media but it is ruining your dating life? Have you been #Ghosted? What does “like” even mean? How has the internet affected your relationship? And will it bring you together or swipe you into oblivion? Emily and Annie talk about how “Premature Escalation” is something you should avoid before the first date. Emily shares need-to-hear stats on social media, relationships and sex that will surprise you.  Plus how social media is not only speeding up the c

It’s that magical time of year again, INTERN SEX TOY REVIEW DAY! But first, Emily shares hilarious adventures from her LA kitchen. Spoiler alert: This one ends with a smoke alarm and a honey bee. Then we move on to talk about sex and interns! Along with her assistant Lauren, Emily’s newest intern Madison is in the studio to tell tales from her sex drawer, including the story of how her boyfriend accidentally stumbled upon her first vibrator (it’s funny one!), and how it opened up their already scintillating sex life. Now her sex drawer runneth over, and she has found a new toy that knocks her Magic Bullet right off the shelf: the G-Twist SmartVibe from GoodVibesToys. From external use to internal use to mounting the damn thing, Madison explains her time with the toy that she rates as “Expert Level”. Her advice: start off slow, use A LOT of lube, and when it comes to the “Turbo Boost”, proceed with caution! Between dishing about penis length and oral sex, Emily talks the benefits of using sex toys with a partn

Emily and Menace are back in the studio and cover a lot of ground from body image to sexuality to learning to love the blow job, this Podcast is sure to educate and entertain you. The two catch up on recent developments, including Menace’s visit to the Taco Bell mecca and the blessed return of Emily’s Facebook page. Wondering what caused our three week Facebook hiatus? Emily explains her struggle with social media censorship. Also in the studio are Cyan and Nadya of Zivity.com, here to talk erotica, photography and body positivity, among other things. Zivity is an erotic photography website for real people, where models, photographers and fans alike can enjoy and appreciate the art they love. Zivity features beautiful photography with a  wide range of fantasies and scenarios. Want to know the most popular themes? The ladies of Zivity dish on the hottest sets, costumes and fantasies. And speaking of costumes- Emily and Menace’s Hamburglar debate comes back into play! Would Emily “Hamburglar-Suit Up” for her dr

Comedian Adam Ray stopped by the studio to talk sex (of course) and share other stories of debauchery with Emily and Anderson. From dropping out of football to play the lead in Grease to getting kicked out a comedy club for dropping the C-Word, to landing the role of lead villain in the popular comedy The Heat, Adam tells the tale of how he cracked his way into show business to his new release Poptart Suicide. The gang discusses Emily’s world of sexual innuendos (and everything in between). Adam spills his spiciest sex story, which leads to a lengthy discussion on threesomes. Want to know how to make a threesome work? Emily gives tips & Anderson shares a story of what happens when threesomes go bad. Then Adam answers the sex question all comedians get: Do people expect you be funny in bed? Emily and Adam bond over tales of their adorable Jewish mothers, and the dudes explain why young boys are essentially “walking boners with feet”. Then they move on to the logistics of old people sex, shower sex and the impo

Did you know that there’s an estimated 15 million swingers in the world?  This week, Emily interviews Daniel Stern, author of Swingland: Between the Sheets of the Secretive, Sometimes Messy, but always Adventurous Swinging Lifestyle. Listen in on how a single man learned to navigate “The Lifestyle” and pick up some specific tips on how you can add a little spice to your sex life. Daniel shares his insider experiences and tips that we can use in any relationship - whether swinging, married, dating or single. Emily and Anderson catch up and we hear all about Emily’s sold out “How to Blow (His Mind)” workshop at Hustler. Plus, the pair dare to ask Dan about some of his most crazy stories about swinging. Prepare yourself for dominatrixes, orgies and cuckolding gone wrong! Daniel shares how The Lifestyle took him from being “bad at sex” to a master in the bedroom. He shares his best tips for performing oral sex on a woman, how to date and still be a swinger and the best websites to use when you’re looking for a pa

This week’s Podcast is chock full of sexual information, all aimed to improve your sex life and make you feel good! Emily’s special guest, Coyote the woman BEHIND the sex toys, and is head of purchasing for GoodVibes.com, which pretty much makes her the expert! In this episode, Coyote and Emily talk sex toys of all shapes and sizes! Want to know what toys are best for singles, couples, anal, g-spot, waterproof, etc? These ladies have the answers. Coyote uses her expert knowledge to guide newcomers through choosing their first sex toy. She and Emily give advice for a married listener who wants to introduce sex toys into the bedroom, and delve into the wonderful world of lube! Emily shares a story of her deep personal connection to Good Vibrations and Coyote tells us about her experiences in the ever-changing sex toy industry, including how she got started, what it’s like to shop sex toys for a living, and how her job has positively affected her own sex life. Emily also has special guests Ken and Helle from Bac

On the latest podcast Emily interviews adult film star Siri, the all-natural beauty who has swiftly skyrocketed to success. Listen in as this self-proclaimed “late bloomer” turned sex-positive bombshell give specific tips for performing oral sex on women (and men), anal sex, the truth about faking orgasms - on and off camera, her favorite position and her fantasy role as Power Girl in the world of cosplay.  Siri shares why her biggest turn on is dirty talk, how to deal with jealousy in a non-monogamous relationship and how she went from being a Texas girl to being named the AVN Performer of the Year. Also, Emily gives us the inside scoop about her night out at a Hollywood premiere party and Anderson gives her his two cents about it! Later, they both weigh in on Siri’s instructions for masturbating. From Siri’s role as an activist for The UnSlut Project to what her husband got her for her birthday (you’ll be as surprised as Emily was!), nothing’s off limits in the latest episode of Sex With Emily. Hosted on A

In the latest podcast Emily and Menace are talking all about pushing the boundaries of your relationship. Whether or not you’re wondering if your friends-with-benefits situation will ever become something more, questioning if you should introduce your true love to swinging, or concerned about how to acquaint a new partner with your favorite sex toy- this show is for you. Emily is here to give you her tried and true advice! Looking for a surefire way to escape the friendzone, want to know how to escape a dead end relationship? Curious about what kind of accessories you’ll need to handle a partner that squirts? This podcast has it all. Plus, Menace and Emily talk about their newfound love for the beach and debate a character from their past- “Captain Erotica.” Is anal the new blowjob? Is squirting the new anal? Find out on the latest episode of Sex With Emily! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week’s podcast, Emily and Menace are back in action, ready to answer listener emails and talk sex, love and relationships. Emily had a rough morning and shares the gory details. Plus, we cover the recent  developments in Emily’s social life.  Menace announces his BIG Taco Bell news and he and Emily embrace their brother-sister relationship with a little sibling squabble, followed by a quick makeup. Next Emily and Menace move on to some freakier subjects, including freaky sex ads on Craigslist and ‘freaky’ first time sex moves. Emily explains why you should avoid getting too kinky the first time you sleep with someone  and shares her experience with some overzealous men. Answering listener emails, Emily gives advice to a girl going off to college, looking to explore her “inner freak-” and shares her ideas for the dream sex toy starter kit.   Then Emily counsels a man who is frustrated with his married sex life and thinking of cheating. This podcast addresses the hard-hitting questions: What’s Menace’s

On today’s show, Emily demonstrates her top mantra: communication is lubrication. Emily compiled a list of the most popular questions she gets asked from listeners and teaches communication skills those sticky situations. If communication is a tough subject for you, don’t worry, she give you a script for that. Subjects include: How do I talk about anal sex?, How do I talk about erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation?”Emily shares the most effective ways to ask for more oral sex and encourages women to be open (and honest) about their orgasms. So, what do you do if your partner doesn’t want to go down on you? How do you ask a new partner about STIs? And, of course, how do you stay out of the dreaded “friend zone?” Emily explains why you need to approach these touchy situations and how to do it right.   Emily’s panel of female truth-tellers today include her assistant Lauren and her intern Carolyn. The women discuss common issues women deal with during sex, but don’t ever talk about. Both women share the

This show is doubly great because there are not one, but two, very special guests: The first is DeAnna Jordan, relationship & addiction expert. The second is Emily’s big brother, Michael! Today’s show is all about rules for healthy relationships across the board! DeAnna explains the facts behind love addiction. How do you protect yourself from getting in too deep, too fast? Follow DeAnna’s “No Sex for 90 Days” rule, which is so crazy it just might work.. if you can last that long! Next, DeAnna gives advice for listeners on how to break out of bad dating patterns by avoiding that person you’re immediately attracted to and exploring other dating types! Also, the importance of being direct, both in relationships and in the bedroom: Why you should have the sex talk before the sex, have the relationship talk before the relationship, and why ladies need to start speaking up about what they want in bed! Emily and DeAnna answer some listener emails on addiction and relationships, and Emily gets proposed to by a liste

Today’s show is all about improving your sex life, and discovering the elusive G-Spot orgasm! That’s right, I’m in the studio with my awesome assistant and one of my new interns to give you the low-down on that magical little button that you’ve heard so much about. I give tips for men and women how to find it, how to stroke it, and what toys to use to heighten your G-Spot pleasure. But first, we’re popping my new intern’s Podcast cherry! Carolyn tells us about her night with her first ever G-Spot sex toy, the Silky G Waterproof G-Spot Vibrator, as well as the struggles she had of getting into a sex toy rut (prior to being an intern at Sex With Emily, where sex toys abound!)  Then we discuss our own G-Spot experiences- the good, the bad and the totally bizarre. Plus what do women think about when we masturbate? And where can you find a porno so good that my assistant actually stopped masturbating to watch it? Ever wonder about the difference between a G-Spot and clitoral orgasm? Or what positions are best to h

 In today’s show Emily sits down with Menace to answer your most pressing sex and relationship questions sent to feedback@sexwithemily.com. Including what to do in a long distance relationship when your partner refuses to send sexy texts, have Skype sex, or engage in dirty talk. How to make your wife feel beautiful and why this is crucial for long lasting, amazing sex. Emily advises a woman in the middle of a sexual awakening whose boyfriend is experiencing delayed ejaculation among other penis issues. Emily shares her experience about shooting her first porno scene in San Francisco without getting naked. Hey, it was a dinner party scene!  Also, guess what bodily fluid is being sold on the black market to help men bulk up and who do you think is better with condom use, cheaters or swingers? All of this and more in today’s podcast. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this week’s podcast, Emily’s answering your questions with her buddy Anderson, host of The After Disaster podcast. Emily and Anderson get into manscaping, sugar daddies, and how to gracefully exit a bad date. Emily gives advice on having a successful threesome, sexual pleasure on the road and how to find the penis ring that’s right for you. Emily also answers a callers question: Is it possible to create a monster after introducing a ‘Vanilla’ partner to kink? Have you heard of the “horsey horse” sex position? We hadn’t either until the last phone call! Ever wonder what Emily would do if she had a penis for a day? Anderson shares an embarrassing story from his youth and he also exposes Emily to the adorable sounds of turtle sex. This Friday the 13th episode is dedicated to solving that mystery and more!   Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Emily and Menace reunite to answer your most pressing questions. Today’s topics include epic stories of sex-gone-wrong, a married couple with mismatched libidos, and that age-old dilemma, how to get a girl to warm up to back door sex. But first, Menace and Emily make a drunk show pact! Vegas, anyone? The two share some developments in Emily’s dating life and revisit the question- when will Emily be ready to settle down? Also, how do you break the pattern of dating the abusive guys? And do blow jobs really solve all problems? Thanks for sending all your sex and relationship questions to feedback@sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Director, editor and author Ernest Greene visits Emily to talk about his new novel Master of O, power play, and collars and cuffs. He’s here to give you his straightforward advice for getting your partner to participate in kink and just how to keep things interesting- whether you’re casually dating or in a long-term relationship. Greene has been a member of the BDSM community for 40 years. He’s talking bondage, flogging and what it’s like to be married to Nina Hartley, sex-positive pornstar, director and sex educator. Emily and Greene discuss whether or not “kink-dar” is an real thing. The pair get into plain, pleasure, safe words and what the first thing you need to know about BDSM is. Does Greene think Emily is submissive or dominate? Find out in the latest podcast! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Today’s show is all about confidence. Why? Emily believes you should make it your life work to cultivate confidence and tells you how to do it. Hands down men and women say confidence is the sexiest trait in and out of the bedroom. What’s preventing you from having it in the first place? Menace shares tips on how he got through his insecurities in the dating world and built his confidence. Confidence and self esteem are not about the way you look, how much you earn and definitely not how much you weigh.Emily gives advice on what women find attractive about confidence, what it means to be a confident woman and Menace shares the male perspective on the same issue. Emily also answers emails from listeners: what to do if your wife loses her sexual confidence due to weight gain, how a woman can learn to orgasm during intercourse and is it possible to masturbate too much? Find out the answers in this week’s Sex With Emily podcast. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, I’m talking to Kayden Kross, the award winning porn star, writer, and model for the best-selling Fleshlight.  This bombshell bookworm and I get into everything from how the brain can be a powerful turn on to some exciting hands on (literally) oral sex tips. Kayden has tricks for both guys and girls and she’s also talking about how a douchebag pony got her into the adult entertainment industry, so you don’t want to miss out! Ever wonder what the number 1 thing is that you need to know about the vagina? What about whether or not a guy can last too long in bed? All your questions answered and more on the latest episode of Sex With Emily. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.