Let's Parent On Purpose

In case you haven’t notices, your children typically have multiple character issues that need addressing.  Also, in case you haven’t noticed, they usually don’t appreciate when you address those issues. They especially don’t like when you bring up multiple issues all at once.  In that way, they’re like the rest of us humans.  But unlike the rest of humanity, children often have no sense of urgency in developing character habits, responsibility or personal industry.  Inside the safety of the home, there’s generally a buffer zone that protects them from some of the natural consequences they will face in the grown-up world.  This is a good thing, but can be frustrating as well. I feel like I have simple desires for my children: I just want them to treat each other kindly, to speak to me and their mother respectfully, to give their best to their homework and chores, to pick up after themselves, and to preemptively notice when things need to be done and help out sometimes. Sounds simple.  But apparently, it’s insa