Mind Body Health & Politics

The Forgiveness Trap: Why "Forgive and Forget" Perpetuates the Very Harm It Claims to HealDescription: Most people think forgiveness means welcoming harmful people back into your life. Veronica Monet reveals why this approach actually perpetuates cycles of abuse—and what real healing looks like.Guest Bio: Veronica Monet is a former high-end escort turned therapist and domestic violence counselor. Having survived childhood sexual abuse in what she describes as "a family of pedophiles," she now specializes in Internal Family Systems therapy and helping survivors break generational cycles of trauma. She's the author of the upcoming book "The Pedophile Who Loved Me: My Treacherous Path to True Forgiveness."Key Topics:Why religious forgiveness often enables continued abuseHow shame drives harmful behavior underground instead of stopping itThe difference between true forgiveness and dangerous reconciliationBreaking generational cycles of sexual abuse in familiesInternal Family Systems and how trauma creates "split"