Healing For Women

Ex Heart Space vs New Heart Space When a woman gets into a new relationship, she is comparing her new man with the ex man. I don't just mean a comparison with behavior like she's waiting to be hurt or disappointed because she's been primed or conditioned by her ex. I mean that she's looking to her new man to give her a similar kind of loving emotional experience that she had with her ex. She's looking for the depth and breadth of intensity and intimacy to be similar, like she's quietly asking herself will my new man make me feel good like my ex man did. There's a problem with this kind of natural and automatic thinking, which is that she is forgetting that her and her new man are a new combination and a new dynamic which is different to the dynamic she had with her ex. Her and her new man have a new relationship and a new love and the dynamic is new and can never be found anywhere else. Just like the dynamic she had with her ex can never be found anywhere else. But it's to recognise that there is indeed a d