Healing For Women

"One Person Can't Be Doing All The Relationship Work" The problems in a relationship are not the responsibility of one person. If you're the person doing all the relationship work, feel good about bringing the problems into the open: both of you are having the relationship, both of you need to discuss and fix the problems. You putting in all the effort will make you very tired and creates a feeling of numbness on one hand and craziness on the other. Dysfunctional relationships can survive for a long time because you may be living in a constant state of hope that one day your partner will listen and come to the party.