Cornerstone Community Church, San Jose Ca

I don’t know if you have ever noticed this before, but it strikes me that we males of the species don’t like to ask for help. When we were toddlers and some well-meaning adult picked us up to help us go down the stairs, we threw a hissy fit and insisted on walking back up the stairs so we could walk back down the stairs by ourselves. When we passed from boyhood to manhood we took a vow never to ask for directions no matter how lost we are, and never to call a repairman to fix anything around the house, because we are men and we can do it ourselves. To say we are fiercely independent is an understatement; in our minds, a man is someone who will never admit he needs help.