Tuff Love With Robert Kandell

Welcome back to Tuff Love with Rob Kandell. This show is around the concept of fear and scarcity, which follows on from an episode from November last year called ‘One Unit of Fear’. This episode won’t duplicate that too much. We all have fear. We actually swim in an ocean of fear and scarcity. You might not even be aware that we live in a fear-based, scarcity-based society. It’s all we’ve ever known. Society is always saying ‘You’re doing it wrong, you’re not good enough and you’re not good looking.’ It actually takes an incredible amount of energy, courage, motivation and agency to move away from that. Rob is not immune to this, he experiences fear and has barbarians and phantoms in his mind just like everybody else. Even after 18 years of work on himself, the fear is still there, the fear of the flame, the fear of the haters. He still struggles with this every single day. However, it’s easier than it was 18 years ago and he likes himself a lot more, but there’s still a battle against society’s message. &n