Brojo Online Podcast

If you enjoyed this podcast, get access to more of Dan's content and his powerful confidence-building email courses by joining the famous BROJO self-development community. Learn more here https://www.brojo.org/enrol ------------------------ You might think you're a good person because you sacrifice your own needs to prioritise the needs of others. You might think of yourself as a nice person because you always cheer people up when they're feeling down. You might think of yourself as a kind person because you never argue or fight or cause problems. But what if underneath this pleasant exterior lurks a manipulative and damaged person, who has been trained and conditioned to keep others happy without really knowing why. As a veteran people-pleaser who's now in recovery and coaching other recovering approval seekers, I can tell you there's a good chance your "nice guy" act is a lie to conceal fear of rejection, confrontation and abandonment. Let's talk about what it means to stop caring what others think, stop c