Clarity On Fire

A trend we’ve noticed with almost every people-pleaser we’ve coached (or anyone who cares too much about what others think) is that they have a really hard time knowing who they are and what they want. It makes sense. When you’ve spent your whole life looking outward—“What will make these people happy?” “Who do I need to be to be liked, loved and accepted?”—Then there’s no space to go inward and consider who you are and what you want. And sadly, often you’ve been actively discouraged from asking those questions at all. You’re told it’s “selfish.” You can probably relate, and so can Rachael Tomasello. In this month’s brand-new interview with a normal person, Rachel and Rachael got into… How Rachael spent a decade in a career that wasn’t aligned with her because it was what she was “supposed” to do. How she had to seriously tone down her natural personality and interests around her family, for fear of being judged and rejected. The challenges that popped up when she made a 180 pivot in her career toward someth