Clarity On Fire

Welcome to another episode of Dear Krachel, a monthly advice segment where we answer audience questions about life, career, relationships, existential angst, and anything that helps you become a more whole, fulfilled version of yourself. On this episode, we’re answering questions from: Muddled Muggle, who heard our Enneagram series back in August and had a shocking realization that she’s not the personality type she’d assumed she was for years! Is this normal? Can someone’s personality type change? And what does it mean if it does? LaLa, who’s struggling to enter into a healthy relationship because of baggage she has around men, thanks in large part to her upbringing and questionable cultural messages. How can she change her distorted beliefs about men and have a healthy relationship? Laura, who’s in a bit of a lurch after she left her job with plans to move abroad, but then the timeline of the move got pushed back to 2020. She doesn’t want to blow through her savings, but she also doesn’t want to start a ne