Like A Mother

  Of course it's never 'just sex.' But sometimes, a relationship based on little more than sexual chemistry is a fantastic way to get in touch with your femininity, your sexual identity, and get your groove back — especially after a long hiatus or long-term relationship. Why?  In the absence of potential emotional or relationship entanglement, you can focus on JUST THE SEX. You learn what makes you hot, what turns you on, what you need in bed without all the complications of a relationship (because, let's face it: relationships can kill your mojo).  So: Without shame or guilt, go for that hottie who you know you'll never fall in love with. Hook up with the guy who your family and friends will never meet. Enjoy. Indulge. Learn. Then take those lessons to your next relationship.