God Is Not Fair?

There have been several narratives around Men in the past for example "Men are like that, Men will be Men, Mard ko dard nahi, Ladke rote nahi, etc etc. The narrative around masculinity that has been defined over millennia, is toxic, both to men and to women. It needs to change now! It is obvious that at some point, with the weight of responsibilities, inability to show any emotions (except anger) and seek help, any man is bound to be overwhelmed; be it at the workplace or at home. Many of us at some point in our career, feel suffocated at the workplace that causes emotional instability and lack of productivity in both professional as well as personal lives. Knowing that it is not good, we tend to keep silent and do not talk about it thinking someone may use “me” or this conversation may go against “me”, sometime later. Emotions, when repressed over long periods of time tend to take a toll on one’s mental health, sometimes even manifesting physically in the form of physical pain. I had a chance to have a candi