Heightscast

It’s true: we talk too much. And we know that just one more brilliant lecture from us will not solve our boys’ every problem—but we can’t seem to help ourselves. This week on HeightsCast, lower school head Colin Gleason takes an intentional look at how we as parents and educators engage our boys, and how we might do better. The conversation reminds us that parenting is relational, not a delivery system, and that ultimately we want to keep the lines of communication open. Chapters: 2:30 Talk less, engage more 8:31 Over-supervision leads to acting, not being 15:11 Strategies for listening 17:23 Recon: trying to draw something out 21:12 Showing unanxious interest 25:38 Response: when they come to you 28:13 Keep them coming to you 31:01 Let the emotions breathe 37:32 Disrespect and complaints 43:38 The impact of listening Featured opportunities: Parents’ Conference: Freedom and Addiction at The Heights School (April 12, 2025) link coming soon Teaching Men’s Conference at The Heights School (October 2025) link co