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I'm all for HAPPY relationships and marriages. Really I am, BUT I think SOME people take the whole "YOU ARE NOW ONE" thing WAY TOO FAR! I mean I know you can't just do you like you are still single when you hitched ya dig. BUT I don't agree with the notion that you are not allowed to keep your individuality and personal identity either! Some people think that because you are in a relationship that EVERYTHING is shared. So they share BANK ACCOUNTS, they go through each others phones, and host of other thing that I don't feel like you HAVE to do just cause you are married. YES I know what the VOWS say..but it also says a chic should OBEY her husband (thats an EPISODE IN ITSELF) so you can save all that BS for someone else. The bottom line is BEING MARRIED or in a SERIOUS relationship doesn't mean that you have to give up YOUR identity TOTALLY. YES there is a certain level of self you must admonish in order for a marriage to be successful. You cant just keep doing you like you did when you were single. BUT I thi