Divorce Conversations For Women

In this solo episode, Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA®, unpacks the psychology behind the "Disney Dad" and why his extravagant gestures aren’t really about the kids. If you’ve ever felt frustrated, exhausted, or even questioned your worth as a parent while your ex showers the kids with trips, gifts, and treats—this episode is for you. Rhonda reveals how Disney Dad tactics often mask deeper issues like guilt, ego, or financial manipulation, and how those behaviors can quietly erode your financial future if left unchecked. She shares the tools and mindset shifts you need to reclaim your power, protect your financial stability, and create a safe, consistent environment for your kids. What you’ll learn in this episode: The psychology driving Disney Dad behavior—and why it’s not about the kids How financial control and guilt are used as manipulation tools in divorce The real cost of staying silent during negotiations (including the 41% lifestyle drop women often face post-divorce) Practical steps to advocate for your