Divorce Conversations For Women

In this episode of Disrupting Divorce, Rhonda sits down with Dyna Vink, a Certified Integrated Health Practitioner and expert in perimenopause and menopause support. They dive into a critical but often overlooked topic: how hormonal shifts intersect with the emotional rollercoaster of divorce. If you’re navigating the end of a marriage while also feeling off—emotionally, physically, or mentally—this episode will give you clarity, validation, and practical next steps. What You'll Learn: Why so many women hit perimenopause right as marital stress peaks The 4 major symptoms that could be derailing your progress (and how to fix them) Why traditional medical tests often miss the mark What functional medicine can reveal about your hormones, gut health, and more Practical strategies to improve sleep, energy, mood, and metabolism How mindset—and the words you say to yourself—can change your experience Why now is the perfect time to start putting yourself first

What does it really take to “disrupt divorce”? In this episode, Rhonda sits down with Jordan Rosenberg, a family law attorney from the Chicago area who believes the attorney–client relationship should be a true partnership — built on open communication, trust, and collaboration. Together, they pull back the curtain on what most attorneys wish their clients knew and how women can take a more empowered role in the process. You’ll hear insights on: Why viewing your lawyer as a partner — not just a service provider — changes everything The power of organization (and how small clues, like a $5 savings account, can reveal much bigger financial issues) Why “the smartest people know when to ask for help” — and how that applies directly to divorce The importance of building the right team: legal, financial, and emotional support How to set realistic expectations — without slipping into worst-case-scenario thinking Why “trusting the process” doesn’t mean handing over control, but staying actively engaged Jordan also

Prenups aren’t romantic, but they are powerful. In this episode, NY matrimonial attorney Evan Schein explains what a prenup can and cannot do, why early conversations matter, and how precise drafting prevents costly fights later. We talk disclosure, fairness, and how to keep agreements current as life changes. What you’ll learn What a prenup is, and isn’t: A financial agreement signed before marriage that can cover assets, debt, and spousal support. In New York, it cannot set child support, kid expenses, custody, or parenting terms. Disclosure that holds up: Why both partners should list assets, accounts, businesses, and premarital property with as much detail as possible. Separate vs. marital property: How to define each, and why you must specify how income from a separate business is treated during marriage. Fairness and enforceability: Factors courts look at later, including independent counsel, full disclosure, and whether terms were unconscionable then or now. Avoiding the “muddy middle”: Clear drafting

Divorce makes college planning more complex. In this episode, Vicki explains the 2024 FAFSA changes, student loan rules, and how to find scholarships that actually make a difference. She also shares client stories where strategic planning saved families thousands—even hundreds of thousands—on college costs. What you’ll learn Why the parent providing more financial support (not the custodial parent) now files the FAFSA  How CSS Profile schools may require financial info from both households Student loan basics: limits, subsidized vs. unsubsidized, and upcoming changes for parents Smart scholarship strategies—what to prioritize, what to skip, and how to avoid wasted effort The impact of remarriage on financial aid and why timing matters With the right strategy, you can lower college costs, protect your retirement, and reduce conflict during and after divorce. You don’t have to figure this out alone.

Vocational assessments can shape spousal support and earning-capacity debates. Rhonda and Dan unpack what credible reports look like, how to prepare, and how to challenge numbers that don’t match reality. What you’ll learn in this episode: ✨ Purpose & scope: Employability, realistic job options, training needs, and reasonable earnings. ✨ Data that matters: Social Security earnings, medical narratives, education, work history, and daily commitments.  ✨ Prep moves: What to bring, how to show up, and how to keep the interview factual and respectful.  ✨ Quality standards: Current labor data, paid databases, and transparent methodology—not a Google job search.  ✨ Retraining reality: Timelines (PT vs. FT), tuition costs, entry pay, and wage progression. ✨ After the report: Red flags to spot and when to seek a second opinion. 

In this episode, Rhonda sits down with Stacey Wynn, MDiv, PCC to talk about the intersection of ✝️ faith,

Divorce mediation doesn’t have to feel confusing. In this episode, Rhonda sits down with her friend Rebecca Stern, owner of Pearl Mediation, to break down the different types of mediation and how to know which one is the best fit for your divorce journey. Whether you’re in a high-conflict situation

In this solo episode, Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA®, unpacks the psychology behind the "Disney Dad" and why his extravagant gestures aren’t really about the kids. If you’ve ever felt frustrated, exhausted, or even questioned your worth as a parent while your ex showers the kids with trips, gifts, and treats—this episode is for you. Rhonda reveals how Disney Dad tactics often mask deeper issues like guilt, ego, or financial manipulation, and how those behaviors can quietly erode your financial future if left unchecked. She shares the tools and mindset shifts you need to reclaim your power, protect your financial stability, and create a safe, consistent environment for your kids. What you’ll learn in this episode: The psychology driving Disney Dad behavior—and why it’s not about the kids How financial control and guilt are used as manipulation tools in divorce The real cost of staying silent during negotiations (including the 41% lifestyle drop women often face post-divorce) Practical steps to advocate for your

In this powerful episode, Tracy Malone returns to discuss what most lawyers don’t tell you about parenting plans — the money. From major expenses like cars and tech, to everyday costs like school supplies, Tracy breaks down how to build financial protection directly into your parenting plan. She and Rhonda explore real client scenarios, highlight common pitfalls in legal agreements, and share practical strategies to help you avoid future conflict, legal fees, and emotional burnout. If you're navigating divorce or co-parenting, this episode will give you the clarity and confidence to stand your ground — and plan for your future. Key Topics Covered: Why financial clauses are critical in parenting plans Specific costs you must define (phones, insurance, travel, etc.) The power of a noncompliance clause — and why you need one How financial ambiguity leads to conflict (and how to prevent it) What lawyers often overlook in divorce agreements A walkthrough of Tracy’s Parenting Plan Course: 52 lessons for every kin

In this empowering episode of Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for Women, Rhonda sits down with Energy & Empowerment Coach Aimee Carlson to explore the overlooked but critical role of energy in the divorce process. Aimee shares practical strategies to help women stop running on empty and start tuning into their inner strength—even in the middle of major life transitions. They dive deep into what it means to track your energy, manage stress, and build the kind of connections that sustain you through change. Aimee’s approach is clear, accessible, and deeply compassionate. Whether you’re trying to hold it all together or rediscover what lights you up, this episode gives you the tools to start where you are. Key Topics Covered: How low energy sabotages decision-making during divorce The power of tracking sleep, food, mood, and productivity—without judgment Paper vs. app: How to track your energy in a way that actually works The role of gut health in clarity and resilience Why a deep breath can change your w

In this insightful episode of Divorce Conversations for Women, Rhonda Noordyk welcomes mortgage expert and CDLP® trailblazer Jody Bruns for a heartfelt and eye-opening conversation about a critical—but often overlooked—component of divorce: mortgage planning. Together, they unpack the unique financial, legal, and emotional challenges women face when trying to keep, refinance, or buy a home during divorce. Jody shares cautionary tales, real-life case studies, and empowering advice designed to help women avoid common missteps and build a more stable financial future. This episode is more than just numbers—it's about protecting your future, understanding your options, and ensuring your divorce settlement truly supports your next chapter.  

In this transformative episode, Rhonda Noordyk sits down with Dr. Lisa Fox to explore the complex realities women face in the midst of divorce, especially when coercive control, abuse, and financial manipulation are involved. Drawing from her personal journey as a trauma coach and surgeon—and her experience navigating a high-conflict divorce—Dr. Fox shares candid insights and practical strategies for women to reclaim their power, protect themselves, and advocate for their rights. Together, Rhonda and Dr. Fox dive into the emotional, legal, and financial dynamics of leaving a toxic relationship while prioritizing safety and self-worth.   Key Discussion Points:

In this powerful and deeply insightful episode of Breaking the Trauma Bond with Lisa Happ , Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA®, sits down with divorce coach and survivor Lisa Happ to unpack the layered realities of high-conflict divorce—especially when narcissistic abuse, coercive control, and parental alienation are in play. Together, they offer transformational strategies for women navigating these emotionally charged separations, empowering them to recognize abuse, reclaim their voice, and create a safe, healing home environment for themselves and their children. Whether you're in the midst of a difficult divorce or supporting someone who is, this episode sheds light on both the pain—and the path to peace.     Key Discussion Points:

When the legal system becomes a weapon, how do you protect yourself—and your children? In this compelling conversation, Rhonda is joined by Lisa Johnson, co-founder of Been There, Got Out, to expose the realities of legal abuse, coercive control, and the hidden challenges self-represented litigants face in high-conflict divorce and custody battles. Lisa shares both her lived experience and professional insights to equip listeners with tools for survival and success in the courtroom. From navigating manipulative exes to choosing the right attorney and crafting a rock-solid parenting plan, this episode is packed with strategy, strength, and solidarity for anyone who feels like the system is stacked against them.

In this episode, Rhonda and Brynn discuss the crucial role of a nanny in co-parenting relationships, especially during and after divorce. Brynn, founder of the Premier Nanny Network, shares how professional nannies provide stability, facilitate trust, and help manage daily logistics, allowing parents to focus on quality time with their children. They also explore Brynn’s work in supporting women through life’s challenges and the potential for future collaboration. Key Topics: How a professional nanny supports co-parenting dynamics The impact of nannies on stability, trust, and financial matters post-divorce Brynn’s work helping women navigate life transitions Exciting plans for a future collaboration Connect with Brynn:  www.premiernannynetwork.com @premiernannynetwork Her Social Media:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/brynn-ungerleider-a123ba30a/ https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558084171799   Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA®, CEO of The Women’s Financial Wellness Center   Rhonda has dedicated her

Rhonda talks with Divorce Recovery Coach and Therapist, Dawn Wiggins about healing in a holistic way. It’s a fascinating conversation about trauma and healing and how homeopathy can work to bring you back to your true self. Learn about:   Mind / Body Connection How we store negative energy  Homeopathic treatment methods There are resources to help you lift your energy levels [be sure to check out Dawn’s journal - linked below]   21 Day Immersive Journal   To get the journal for free, use the code: EMAILFRIENDS    And be sure to grab Rhonda’s new book: Bold Beginnings! About today’s guest:   Divorce recovery coach and therapist Dawn Wiggins helps people tear down their walls and build back their confidence. Challenging the status quo, she integrates multiple modalities from EMDR Therapy to EFT tapping, immersive journaling, and homeopathy, embracing remedies that heal both the mind and body.    She is on a mission to deliver life-changing therapy in an accessible and affordable way, with the same

Rhonda sits down with New Jersey attorneys, Sarah Jacobs and Jamie Berger. Sarah and Jamie’s unique approach to law makes them disruptors in the divorce space. Listen in as they share their top tips for navigating a high conflict divorce. You’ll learn:   How to separate the conflict from your end goal. Find balance in making concessions Feel empowered rather than backed up against the wall 3 tips to successful negotiating   Helpful apps mentioned in today’s episode;   DComply   Our Family Wizard About today’s guests:    The Jacobs Berger team takes a forward-thinking approach to family and matrimonial law by focusing on each client’s unique situation, needs and goals in order to de-stress the divorce process. This solution-oriented mentality helps avoid the scorched-earth approach so commonly seen (and encouraged) on TV.  Located in Morristown, NJ, the Jacobs Berger team of attorneys have decades of combined experience helping families before, during and after the divorce process.    Their areas o

Rhonda sits down with narcissistic abuse expert and divorce coach, Tracy Malone to dive into the importance of protecting yourself and your kids with a good financial parenting plan.    Here are some topics they tackle in this episode [and don’t miss the link and coupons below for Tracy’s Masterclass!]   How to stop post-divorce abuse in advance Learn what to do if your ex won’t do what they promised Build in a conflict resolution policy - do not rely on the courts   Fight for what you need. It’s your life, your children, your future. Tracy has a special offer for our listeners! Join her course and save $100! (note: there are limited coupons and the code is only good through 12/31/24)   https://bit.ly/ParentingPlanCourse-RN   Use this code to save: RHONDA-LOVES-100   Variable Expense Apps discussed in this episode: DComply   Our Family Wizard About today’s guest:   Tracy A. Malone is a dynamic Author, Speaker, Educator, and internationally recognized narcissistic abuse and divorce coach.    As a sur

Certified Divorce & Relationship Coach Cindy Stibbard sits down with Rhonda to talk through if divorce is the right option for you. Many women contemplate getting divorce for over 2 years before they make a move. How do you work through the decision? Who should you reach out to for support? Here are some things they cover:   What is my “why?” Self abandonment (learn what this is) Is divorce right for me, right now?   This episode is packed with great insight!  About today’s guest:    Cindy Stibbard is a Certified Divorce Coach who will help you unpack if you’re ready to move forward with your divorce. ​​   A previous version of you chose this relationship—but maybe it has stopped serving you and who you’ve become. Now you are wondering if you are facing the reality of making the difficult decision to stay and give it one last shot at repair or prepare to go—and how to even know what comes next. You are not alone. Connect with Cindy:   Website: https://www.cindystibbard.com/   Instagram: https:

Rhonda sits down with Health Advisor, Leah Perry to discuss the options for Health Insurance after you’re divorced. It’s not fun to talk about - but necessary - and one of the biggest post-divorce expenses.    Topics include:   3 options to get coverage for you and your kids Timing is crucial How to best evaluate your needs as you move forward   Schedule a consultation with Leah:  https://calendly.com/leahmperry2096/insurance-quote?month=2024-02 About today’s guest:   For the past decade, Leah Perry has shouldered the responsibilities of being a single mom to two amazing teens. Along the way, she faced the challenges of divorce, battled lymphoma without the safety net of proper health coverage, and navigated the depths of those difficult times without a strong support system.    Now, she’s here, driven by my own experiences, on a mission to make sure no one else faces the financial and emotional strain of illness without the right coverage. Her days are dedicated to helping others navigate the comp