On The Brighter Side

Marriage advice is everywhere, but much of it is outdated, misguided, or flat-out harmful to your relationship, no matter how well-intentioned it may be.• Happy couples don't fight - FALSE: Conflict is like exercise for your relationship and helps you grow stronger• The myth of "don't sweat the small stuff" can lead to an explosion after years of suppressing irritation• Compromise is outdated advice that leaves both partners with less than they want• Collaboration creates solutions that multiply the best of both positions instead of subtracting from each• Love is a foundation but requires communication skills, conflict resolution, and intentional connection to build lasting marriage• Your differences aren't proof you picked the wrong person - they can become your greatest strengths when you learn to navigate them together• Believing these myths sets expectations that don't match reality, which creates resentmentTo be part of my book launch team for "Bad Marriage Advice: Debu