Mantalks Podcast: Purpose | Legacy | Relationships | Self Mastery | Business

I unpack why turning a boy into a grounded, capable man has become so difficult in modern culture. I talk about the loss of initiation, the erasure of strong male role models, and the mistake of trying to repress male aggression instead of teaching men how to master it. We explore why maturity is not about becoming harmless, but about learning to contain and direct a man’s dangerous potential in a healthy way.SHOW HIGHLIGHTS00:00 Why Masculinity Maturity Matters00:36 “Men Are the Problem” Narrative01:23 Feminizing Boys to Fix Society02:56 Fixing Systems vs Fixing Boys03:26 Why It’s Hard to Make a Man04:12 Loss of Initiation and Role Models05:25 Biology vs Social Conditioning06:08 Male Aggression as Biological Reality06:53 Raising Boys Without Sedation08:04 The Hellscape of Male Adolescence09:21 You Can’t Socialize the Mammal Out11:09 Learning to Contain Danger13:38 Beauty and the Beast Archetype15:13 Castrating Male Competition16:47 The Cultural Pendulum Swing18:04 Power, Initiation, and Surrender20:55 Warrio