Last First Date Radio

How do you love intentionally in midlife and beyond? Alfina Lofaro wrote a book on this topic! She is a kinesiologist, coach, author and speaker helping people build healthier relationships with themselves and others. Through "Love Deliberately", she teaches self-awareness, communication, boundaries and compassion, drawing on more than two decades of experience and her own lived journey to help audiences connect with greater intention and responsibility.In this episode:How doing more in relationships impacts your relationship with yourselfWhy we repeat relationship patterns while waiting for the other person to changeHow COVID revealed the quality of people’s relationshipsWhy your body reacts when your mind wants to respond differentlyConnect with AlfinaLinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/alfina-lofaro-bb222b91/?isSelfProfile=falseIG https://www.instagram.com/alfinalofaro/Website https://www.alfinalofaro.com/ ►Please subscribe/rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts http://bit.ly/lastfirstdateradio or

When you need to have a difficult conversation, the cost of staying quiet is greater than the risk of getting hurt. Here are five reasons why this is true.Follow me:►Youtube https://tinyurl.com/lfdyoutube ►Website → https://lastfirstdate.com/ ► Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/lastfirstdate1► TikTok → https://www.tiktok.com/@lastfirstdate1►Free Facebook group, Your Last First Date https://facebook.com/groups/yourlastfirstdate Work with me:►Private coaching: If you’re feeling stuck in dating and relationships and would like to find your last first date, sign up for a complimentary 45-minute breakthrough session with me https://lastfirstdate.com/application ►Group coaching: Join my low-cost/high-value coaching group, the Woman of Value Club https://lastfirstdate.com/the-woman-of-value-club/ Get my books:►Becoming a Woman of Value; How to Thrive in Life and Love https://bit.ly/womanofvaluebook  and Choice Points in Dating https://amzn.to/3jTFQe9  and Love at Last https://amzn.to/4erpj7C 

Why do successful women over 40 struggle to find love? Riana Malia is an Identity Architect and Board-Certified Neurosomatic Practitioner. She rewires why love hasn't matched the life high-achieving women have built, working below insight at the level where the choosing actually changes. She’s the founder of the Brilliance Brunch and author of The Last Piece on Substack.In this episode:Why high-achieving women need a different approach to loveWhy understanding the problem isn’t enoughWhat makes love the one area where problem solving skills aren’t effective enoughThe role of neuroscience is creating permanent changeConnect with Riana:Website: https://rianamalia.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rianamalia/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/RianaMalia LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rianamalia/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@rianamalia TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@rianamalia121Substack: https://substack.com/@rianamalia The extraordinary love index: quiz.rianamalia.com ►Please subscribe/

You’re dating someone new. Things are going well; great chemistry, fun dates, real connection. And then he says something that stops you cold. Suddenly, your mind is off to the races. What does this mean?Before you spiral, ask yourself, Is this actually a red flag or is it a trigger? Because there’s a big difference, and confusing the two could cause you to walk away from someone wonderful.►Please subscribe/rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts http://bit.ly/lastfirstdateradio or Spotify https://tinyurl.com/lfdradio ►If you’re feeling stuck in dating and relationships and would like to find your last first date, sign up for a complimentary 45-minute breakthrough session with me https://lastfirstdate.com/application ►Join my free Facebook for women https://facebook.com/groups/yourlastfirstdate ►Get my books, Becoming a Woman of Value; How to Thrive in Life and Love https://bit.ly/womanofvaluebook , Choice Points in Dating https://amzn.to/3jTFQe9 and Love at Last https://amzn.to/4erpj7C ►Apply for FREE

Marni Kinrys believes men are too scared to flirt, and it’s leading to a mental health crisis no one is talking about. She’s the founder of The Wing Girl Method, host of the Ask Women Podcast, designer of the F-Formula, and an award-winning female dating coach for men ages 25-85 at every stage of dating and relationships. Marni is known for her blunt, no “fluff” approach and honest insider tips, tools and advice on what women really want vs. what they say they want.In this episode:Why men today are so scared to flirtThe impact on men’s mental healthHow men can improve self-confidenceWhy so many men are afraid of rejectionConnect With Marni:Website http://winggirlmethod.com/Facebook https://www.facebook.com/marniwinggirlIG https://www.instagram.com/winggirlmethod/TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@marniwinggirlYouTube https://www.youtube.com/@marnikinrysTurn Her On Podcast https://open.spotify.com/show/2mYjCNaEb0OmwhIbesDAKz►Please subscribe/rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts http://bit.ly/lastfirstdate

You had a great first date. There was connection, laughter, maybe even a kiss. He followed up afterward… and then suddenly, he went quiet.Now you’re left wondering: Do I reach out? Do I wait? Did I do something wrong?Before you spiral, take a breath. This moment isn’t about decoding him. It’s about how you show up for yourself.Here are five grounded, empowering ways to handle when a man goes silent after a great first date.►Please subscribe/rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts http://bit.ly/lastfirstdateradio or Spotify https://tinyurl.com/lfdradio ►If you’re feeling stuck in dating and relationships and would like to find your last first date, sign up for a complimentary 45-minute breakthrough session with mey https://lastfirstdate.com/application ►Join my free Facebook for women https://facebook.com/groups/yourlastfirstdate ►Get my books, Becoming a Woman of Value; How to Thrive in Life and Love https://bit.ly/womanofvaluebook , Choice Points in Dating https://amzn.to/3jTFQe9 and Love at Last https

It’s time to redefine commitment in relationships, especially in midlife and beyond. My guests, Dr. Dana McNeil, PsyD, LMFT and Jeffrey Young are partners in life and work. They specialize in working with modern relationships, helping individuals and couples navigate connection, commitment, and emotional safety in today’s dating landscape.In this episode:Why it’s important to redefine commitment in today’s modern relationshipsWhat tends to go off course in relationships when there aren’t clear definitions of commitmentSome early signs people often miss that a relationship is going off courseHow to rebuild trust when people don’t follow through on commitmentsHow to find out early on in dating if you’re compatibleFollow Jeffrey and Dana:Websites: www.sdrelationshipplace.com  and www.danamcneil.com  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrDanaMcNeil IG: @sdrelationshipplace and @drdanamcneil►Please subscribe/rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts http://bit.ly/lastfirstdateradio or Spotify https://tinyurl.co

Dysfunctional family patterns impact the way we love. When we excavate and change those patterns, we’re on the road to our last first date. Here are five ways to get started.►Please subscribe/rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts http://bit.ly/lastfirstdateradio or Spotify https://tinyurl.com/lfdradio ►If you’re feeling stuck in dating and relationships and would like to find your last first date, sign up for a complimentary 45-minute breakthrough session with mey https://lastfirstdate.com/application ►Join my free Facebook for women https://facebook.com/groups/yourlastfirstdate ►Get my books, Becoming a Woman of Value; How to Thrive in Life and Love https://bit.ly/womanofvaluebook , Choice Points in Dating https://amzn.to/3jTFQe9 and Love at Last https://amzn.to/4erpj7C ►Apply for FREE coaching on the podcast! https://bit.ly/LFDradiocoaching ►Submit your dating dilemma to be answered on my podcast https://tinyurl.com/datingdilemma ►FREE download: “The Green Light Guide to Dating After 50” https://las

What are the three key fears that sabotage relationships? That was the topic of discussion with Dr. Maria-Elena Lukeides. She is a Sydney-based Clinical Psychologist, meditation teacher, and pioneer in psychedelic-assisted therapy in Australia. With nearly 30 years in mental health, she integrates clinical psychology, neuroscience, mindfulness, and psychedelic therapy to explore trauma, healing, and human connection, drawing from both professional expertise and lived experience.In this episode, we covered:The three key fears that hold us back in life and loveWhat happens in relationships when people are unaware of the fears they carryHow to begin to overcome our fears and have better relationships with ourselves and othersConnect With Dr. Maria-ElenaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/maria-elena-lukeides-270379a5/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thewellnessfountain/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thewellnessfountain/ Website: https://www.drmariaelenalukeides.com.au/►Please subscribe/rate and revie

Do you know your 5 non-negotiables in a partner? If you want a partnership that lasts, you have to look deeper than chemistry. This is where your must-haves come in; what you need in order to feel emotionally safe, respected, and fulfilled. Here are the top five must-haves to help you move out of confusion and into clarity.►Please subscribe/rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts http://bit.ly/lastfirstdateradio or Spotify https://tinyurl.com/lfdradio ►If you’re feeling stuck in dating and relationships and would like to find your last first date, apply for a complimentary 30-minute breakthrough session with Sandy https://lastfirstdate.com/application ►Join Your Last First Date on Facebook https://facebook.com/groups/yourlastfirstdate ►Get Sandy’s books, Becoming a Woman of Value; How to Thrive in Life and Love https://bit.ly/womanofvaluebook , Choice Points in Dating https://amzn.to/3jTFQe9 and Love at Last https://amzn.to/4erpj7C ►Get FREE coaching on the podcast! https://bit.ly/LFDradiocoaching ►Subm

Have you ever felt like trading your so-called perfect life for a more authentic one? That’s exactly what Jane Garnett did. She is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with nearly 20 years in practice and the author of the memoir, This Time with Feeling (May 2026). Her work focuses on helping people get unstuck, particularly during life transitions where things look “right” on the outside but don’t feel aligned internally.In this episode:That moment when you realize you need to let go of the "perfect life" to have an authentic lifeWhy so many people feel stuck, even when they’ve done everything “right”How to tell the difference between a phase of discomfort and a life that truly needs to changeOur “inherited scripts” and how they shape the lives and relationships we end up inConnect with JaneWebsite: https://jane-garnett.comBook landing page: https://thistimewithfeeling.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thebananajane/YouTube: https://m.youtube.com/@thebananajane►Please subscribe/rate and r

People-pleasing often looks like kindness on the surface. You’re agreeable, generous, and easy to be with. You’re “cool” and don’t complain much. But underneath, there’s often a fear: “If I disappoint someone, I might lose them.”Whether you’re a people-pleaser or you’re dating one, here are five ways people-pleasing may be sabotaging your love life.►Please subscribe/rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts http://bit.ly/lastfirstdateradio ►If you’re feeling stuck in dating and relationships and would like to find your last first date, sign up for a complimentary 45-minute breakthrough session with Sandy https://lastfirstdate.com/application ►Join Your Last First Date on Facebook https://facebook.com/groups/yourlastfirstdate ►Get Sandy’s books, Becoming a Woman of Value; How to Thrive in Life and Love https://bit.ly/womanofvaluebook , Choice Points in Dating https://amzn.to/3jTFQe9 and Love at Last https://amzn.to/4erpj7C ►Get FREE coaching on the podcast! https://bit.ly/LFDradiocoaching ►FREE download: “

How is the alpha male mindset sabotaging dating and relationships? Listen to Dave Rossi, a recovering alpha male who remarried after changing from alpha male to a sovereign vulnerable man.In this episode:Why the alpha male mindset is sabotaging dating and relationshipsHow to date with more discernmentThe importance of defining your values and boundaries when datingWhy difficult conversations are crucial to intimate relationshipsConnect with DaveFB: https://www.facebook.com/daverossiglobal/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCWSsEcaN1g8FmnoNbMMLlwwIG and TikTok: @daverossiglobalWebsite: DaveRossiGlobal.com►Please subscribe/rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts http://bit.ly/lastfirstdateradio or Spotify https://tinyurl.com/lfdradio ►If you’re feeling stuck in dating and relationships and would like to find your last first date, sign up for a complimentary 45-minute breakthrough session with me https://lastfirstdate.com/application ►Join my free Facebook for women https://facebook.com/groups/yourl

How do you know when your relationship is over? It’s often challenging to decide when to walk away for good. Here are 5 signs to help you figure out if you should stay or go.►Please subscribe/rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts http://bit.ly/lastfirstdateradio ►If you’re feeling stuck in dating and relationships and would like to find your last first date, sign up for a complimentary 45-minute breakthrough session with Sandy https://lastfirstdate.com/application ►Join Your Last First Date on Facebook https://facebook.com/groups/yourlastfirstdate ►Get Sandy’s books, Becoming a Woman of Value; How to Thrive in Life and Love https://bit.ly/womanofvaluebook , Choice Points in Dating https://amzn.to/3jTFQe9 and Love at Last https://amzn.to/4erpj7C ►Get FREE coaching on the podcast! https://bit.ly/LFDradiocoaching ►FREE download: “Top 10 Reasons Why Men Suddenly Pull Away” http://bit.ly/whymendisappear ►FREE download: “The Green Light Guide to Dating After 50” https://lastfirstdate.com/green-light-guide/ 

Do you want to overcome limerence and finally have a healthy relationship? My podcast guest, Amanda McCracken, wrote the book on how to stop infatuation to find authentic love. She’s a journalist passionate about experiences that highlight the intersection of wellness, travel, and relationships. Her work has appeared in The New York Times, Washington Post, Guardian, Vogue, and many others. She is considered a “limerence expert” and intimacy advocate. Her 2023 TED Talk, “How Longing Keeps Us From Healthy Relationships,” and her podcast, The Longing Lab, highlight how longing can become self sabotaging and shares how to change our patterns of longing. McCracken is also a part-time university instructor, massage therapist, triathlon coach, and competitive athlete. In this episode:The key characteristics of limerenceWho’s most likely to be affected by limerence?How limerence affects your everyday lifeHow limerence and love addiction are alike and differentHow having ADHD predisposes one to having limerenceHow the

One of the biggest fears I hear in dating is, “I don’t want to come across as needy.”So we stay quiet. We downplay what matters, and we tolerate less than we deserve.Having needs doesn’t make you needy. It makes you human.Here are five key differences between having needs and being needy, so you can show up with confidence instead of fear.►Please subscribe/rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts http://bit.ly/lastfirstdateradio ►If you’re feeling stuck in dating and relationships and would like to find your last first date, sign up for a complimentary 45-minute breakthrough session with Sandy https://lastfirstdate.com/application ►Join Your Last First Date on Facebook https://facebook.com/groups/yourlastfirstdate ►Get Sandy’s books, Becoming a Woman of Value; How to Thrive in Life and Love https://bit.ly/womanofvaluebook , Choice Points in Dating https://amzn.to/3jTFQe9 and Love at Last https://amzn.to/4erpj7C ►Get FREE coaching on the podcast! https://bit.ly/LFDradiocoaching ►FREE download: “Top 10 Rea

Why do so many men think being the “nice guy” is a good thing? Meet the Therapy Brothers,  licensed clinicians and brothers Brannon and Tyler Patrick, redefining mental health and modern masculinity. Through their popular podcast and clinical work, they break down complex psychological barriers into actionable advice on trust, betrayal, addiction, and emotional resilience. They help people build healthy relationships, and master the mindset shifts needed for lasting change.In this episode:How “Mr. Nice Guy” isn’t actually niceWhy men become the “nice guy”How the nice guys can break the pattern of people-pleasingThe connection between nice guy syndrome and addictionConnect with the Therapy BrothersWebsite: https://therapybrothers.org/last-first-date-radioFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/therapy.bros/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therapy.brothers/   YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@therapy.brothers ►Please subscribe/rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts http://bit.ly/lastfirstdateradio ►If y

In the early stages of dating, it can be confusing when someone pulls away, sends mixed signals, or struggles with emotional closeness. Two patterns that often get mistaken for each other are narcissism and avoidant attachment. Here are five ways to tell the difference.►Please subscribe/rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts http://bit.ly/lastfirstdateradio ►If you’re feeling stuck in dating and relationships and would like to find your last first date, sign up for a complimentary 45-minute breakthrough session with Sandy https://lastfirstdate.com/application ►Join Your Last First Date on Facebook https://facebook.com/groups/yourlastfirstdate ►Get Sandy’s books, Becoming a Woman of Value; How to Thrive in Life and Love https://bit.ly/womanofvaluebook , Choice Points in Dating https://amzn.to/3jTFQe9 and Love at Last https://amzn.to/4erpj7C ►Get FREE coaching on the podcast! https://bit.ly/LFDradiocoaching ►FREE download: “Top 10 Reasons Why Men Suddenly Pull Away” http://bit.ly/whymendisappear ►FREE do

How are women redefining intimacy and dating standards? That’s what we’re talking about on this episode with my guest, Morgan Hewett. She is a second-time founder and Harvard Business School MBA building Devin, an AI powered vibrator + erotic audio experience for women. She previously founded and sold a generative-AI health tech startup and now focuses on modern dating, female desire, and why women are rewriting the rules of relationships in the AI era.In this episode: Why so many successful women opt out of conventional datingHow to tell the difference between loneliness and desire for a partnerThe role of AI and technology in emotional and sexual fulfillmentConnect with MorganTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@morgan.pink.founder  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/morgan.pink.founderLearn more about Devin, the escape you’ve been waiting for: https://devintoys.com/►Please subscribe/rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts http://bit.ly/lastfirstdateradio ►If you’re feeling stuck in dating and relationsh

When it comes to dating, especially later in life, many people default to one rule: “keep it local.” It makes sense. You want ease, consistency, and someone who fits neatly into your existing life.But keeping it local can prevent you from meeting your match. Often, expanding your distance helps you meet that special person, and with the right connection, the distance can be overcome.If you’ve been hesitant to explore a connection with someone who doesn’t live nearby, here are five reasons to reconsider.►Please subscribe/rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts http://bit.ly/lastfirstdateradio ►If you’re feeling stuck in dating and relationships and would like to find your last first date, sign up for a complimentary 45-minute breakthrough session with Sandy https://lastfirstdate.com/application ►Join Your Last First Date on Facebook https://facebook.com/groups/yourlastfirstdate ►Get Sandy’s books, Becoming a Woman of Value; How to Thrive in Life and Love https://bit.ly/womanofvaluebook , Choice Points in