Marriage Radio: Helping Your Marriage

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!In this episode of Relationship Radio, Dr. Joe Beam talks to a couple who have overcome a controlling relationship and build a stronger marriage than ever before.At some point, you learn that no marriage is ever perfect. Vanessa believed that marriage would be like a fairy tale, and when she and Ryan got married, it would be happily ever after and all their problems would vanish. In his teens, Ryan struggled with his "raging male hormones" and pornography addiction. He thought marriage would be a sexual buffet and that he would be in control of his home. Listen to how they found Marriage Helper in a moment of desperation and how they survived the controlling relationship that was dooming them both to a future neither wanted. Mentions:Schedule a call with a Client Representative hereSubmit your marriage question here!Watch our free videos on YouTube hereRead free marriage articles on our websiteRequest to join our Save My Marriage Facebook Community GroupLearn more a

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!If your spouse has left you and you’ve been working on becoming the best version of yourself, you may wonder, “What can I do to show my spouse that I have changed?”“How do I get them to see I’ve changed and come back home?”You want to change the trajectory of where your marriage is headed and bring your spouse back. But here’s the thing: Marriage difficulties typically do not occur overnight. And saving your marriage doesn’t either.If you want to solve your marriage issues, you must remember two key words: CONSISTENCY and TIME.Tune into this episode of Relationship Radio where Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Holmes share three key tips to drawing your spouse back and rebuilding love in your relationship.Mentions:Marriage Helper CoachingAsk Us Your Marriage Questions Here

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!Has your spouse had an affair? Do you feel like all hope for saving your marriage is lost?Jordan also felt like his marriage was over after he found out his wife, Priscilla, was having an affair. After years of sweeping marriage problems under the rug, Jordan and Priscilla found themselves at a point of crisis. Listen to this episode to learn how Jordan and Priscilla were able to overcome a limerent affair and achieve a marriage stronger than ever before.No matter what has happened in your marriage, there is hope. There is a way forward. We will show you how.Mentions:Learn more about our Online Couples Workshop here: https://marriagehelper.com/couples-workshop/Access our PIES course & SMART Contact Toolkit here: https://marriagehelper.com/product/smart-contact-toolkit-product/You can also find out more about PIES in "It Start with Attraction Podcast": https://piesuniversity.com/piescast/

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!Do you feel sexually rejected by your spouse?Maybe you've been feeling unhappy with your sex life for a long-period of time, or maybe you've just started feeling rejected...Your spouse seems uninterested in having sex and you don't know why. Here's the thing... Men and women are different when it comes to sex. But THIS is true for both spouses:Everything that happens outside the bedroom affects what happens inside the bedroom. And everything that happens inside the bedroom affects what happens outside the bedroom.Even if your sex life isn't where you want it to be right now, the spark in your marriage CAN be re-lit.In this episode of Relationship Radio, marriage experts Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Holmes share how to achieve marital satisfaction through sexual satisfaction. Links Mentioned:The Spark CourseCouples WorkshopSave My Marriage Course

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!Are you feeling stuck in your marriage? Do you feel like you cannot overcome the struggles that started the day you said "I Do"? In today's episode of Relationship Radio, Dr. Joe Beam interviews Karson and Ashley, a couple who overcame years of communication obstacles as well as an affair. If you're feeling like there is no hope for your marriage, listen to this testimony from a couple who experienced marriage troubles first-hand.Marriage CAN be brought back to life after years of hopelessness. Tune into this episode to learn how. Mentions:Learn more about our Save My Marriage Course here: https://marriagehelper.com/product/save-my-marriage/Find our PIES Bootcamp here: https://marriagehelper.com/product/pies-bootcamp/"Three Prayers About Love That God Won't Answer" Podcast Episode: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/relationship-radio-marriage-sex-limerence-avoiding/id978519992?i=1000376905577Request to join our Save My Marriage Community

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!Are you struggling to trust your spouse after they were unfaithful to you? They broke your trust by having an affair, but they want to make your marriage work now. They are telling you that they've changed, but you're worried they might hurt you all over again.You may be asking yourself..."Is it possible to ever trust my spouse again?" "How can I make sure they don't hurt me this time?"The good news is... Trust CAN be rebuilt. It's not easy.  But it IS possible. There is a path and a way to move forward.+ AND it is worth it.Listen to this 1 hour episode of Relationship Radio where Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Holmes share specific steps for how to rebuild trust after an affair.Links Mentioned:Submit Your Marriage Question HereSchedule a Call With a Client RepresentativeMarriage Helper's YouTube ChannelPIES University: It Starts With AttractionThe Art of Falling In Love BookFree Mini CourseXXX Church Sex Help Sexaholics Anonymous Samso

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!Sometimes you may wonder, "What's the story of real people that you guys at Marriage Helper help?" We've given countless illustrations of marriages saved, but in this episode, you can hear from a couple first-hand about how they were able to save their marriage.In this episode, Dr. Joe Beam interviews Ren & Adelé, a couple whose marriage was impacted by multiple affairs as well as addictions. Listen to this episode for an incredible testimony of reconciliation and redemption filled with lessons of communication, forgiveness, hope, and more.Mentions:Access our SMART Contact and PIES courses here: https://marriagehelper.com/product/smart-contact-toolkit-product/You can also find out more about PIES in "It Start with Attraction Podcast": https://piesuniversity.com/piescast/Learn more about our Online Couples Workshop here: https://marriagehelper.com/couples-workshop/Find our question topic of the week and submit your question here: https://marri

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!You want to save your marriage, but your spouse has made it clear that he/she wants out. Maybe they’ve already filed for divorce.Maybe you are separated and living in separate places. Maybe they’re still living with you but are saying they’re done.But you want the marriage to work. So what do you do?You may be asking yourself…“Is it even possible to save a marriage when my spouse wants out?” “Can a failing marriage be saved? If so, how?” “Can it be saved even if there’s been an affair?”On this episode of Relationship Radio, Dr. Joe Beam & Kimberly Holmes talk about how to save a marriage in turmoil. Even if your spouse has already made up their mind about wanting to separate, there IS hope. One spouse CAN save the marriage. We will show you how in today’s episode of Relationship Radio.Links Mentioned:Save My Marriage CourseIntervention ToolsPIES University: It Starts With Attraction"What Is Love?" EpisodeFree Mini Course

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!We hear from people who say things like, "My spouse is involved with another person, but also seems interested in me. Is this something other people face?"The answer is... Absolutely. As a matter of fact, we have a name for it. We call it "The Valley."Your spouse is having a good relationship with the affair partner as well as with the spouse that is being abandoned. This double life has pros and cons. The pro can be that he or she is spending time with you, and if it appears to be working well. As long as you can tolerate this, it may well be to your advantage. It can with time bring him home. The con is that he is still with the other woman or man, and that relationship may be going well also. If so, he won’t feel any need to change anything.If your spouse is in The Valley, you may be feeling confused.Your spouse is doing things that lead you to believe your marriage is going to end. Yet, at the same time, they may be showing signs they don't want t

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!All the time people come to us saying, "We tried to reconcile, but it's just impossible. We got back together thinking we can do it, then it didn't work.”You know why? Because they didn't know how.Think about it like this… Imagine you want to replace the spark plugs in your car. You can have every intention of doing it. But if you don’t know how or where the spark plugs even are... You’re gonna fail.People are blindsided because they think they’re reconciling when they're not. So how can you know if you’re actually reconciling or not? Or how to make it happen?These people struggled but figured it out with our help:“We had been to three different marriage counselors in the first 10 years of our marriage. We got like one decent takeaway. There was just so much pain, so much hurt. It just seemed impossible.”“We're sitting here seven years later, and it is a daily impact on our marriage, on our children, regardless  of how lost, how broken, how hopel

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!If you are looking to fall in love, grow in love, or fall in love again with your spouse, then this is the podcast for you.This is Relationship Radio. It is an interactive podcast where relationship expert, Dr. Joe Beam, and Kimberly Holmes, will answer your questions  about how to make your marriage even better.No matter what stage of life your marriage is in, this is the show for you.Every week, we take callers' questions and answer those questions with real, actionable tips that you can take away and begin to implement in your own life.Be sure to subscribe to be updated every week when  a brand new show drops. Also, leave a review because we love to hear from you!

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!If you think your spouse is cheating, but you're not sure, this podcast is for you. You may be thinking, "Is there any way to determine if my spouse is cheating on me?" In this episode, Dr. Beam shares 5 things to consider when assessing whether or not your spouse is cheating.*Dr. Joe Beam will be taking a temporary break from the live call show as he and the MH team are working on some new (and exciting!) endeavors.

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!If you are married to someone who has fallen “madly in love” with another, this program is for you. If you wish to save your marriage but think it impossible because your husband or wife is in limerence with another, Dr. Beam’s explanations of limerence, especially understanding the three phases, can guide you in the process of saving your marriage. As he says, “If anything works, this will work.” In today's podcast, we will be talking about the final stage of limerence: Deterioration. *Dr. Joe Beam will be taking a temporary break from the live call show as he and the MH team are working on some new (and exciting!) endeavors.

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!In today's podcast, we are going to be talking about the second phase of limerence. If you are madly in love with someone else or your spouse is madly in love with someone else, tune into this podcast. Dr. Joe Beam is going to help you understand limerence to a deep degree.*Dr. Joe Beam will be taking a temporary break from the live call show as he and the MH team are working on some new (and exciting!) endeavors.

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!Have you found out that your spouse is madly in love with someone else? You may be wondering, "Why?!" In today's podcast, learn all about the first stage of limerence: Infatuation. If you want to know why limerence occurs, how long it lasts, and how to identify it, tune into this episode.

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!You accept responsibility for what you did. You're sorry that you hurt your spouse. You want to put things back together. Not just like it was before but better. The hurt you see in their eyes hurts you. At times their pain explodes in anger. Sometimes toward you; sometimes toward other things. You asked your spouse to forgive you. You told them how sorry you are that it happened. Yet your mate isn't reacting as you had hoped. Maybe they said that they can't forgive what you did. Maybe they haven't made a decision but their actions lead you to believe that when they do it isn't going to be good.Is there something you can do? Are there magic words? Actions? Will you have to live like this for years to come? Or are you already thinking that if they can't forgive, you can't stay because the pain you feel is too great? You don't want to live with a person in perpetual misery. Or everlasting anger. You accept that there are consequences to w

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!Your spouse left you for another person.But now the affair partner is gone. You thought that they were the problem. You expected your spouse to try to make amends with you. To come back sorry for what they had done. Instead, your mate has indicated little to no interest in restoring a relationship with you or trying to rescue your marriage. Why?Is it you? Are you so unlovely and unlovable that they have no desire to be with you ever again?Is it your mate? Have they become so selfish or hardened toward you that they won't ever care about you again?It's quite a blow to your self-esteem. The hope you had for reconciliation is fading quickly into cynical resignation that what was will never be again.Is there hope? Can someone explain what's happening? Give you direction for maybe making it work?In this program, Dr. Joe Beam explains why spouses don't come back right away. He gives you an understanding of what's happening and how to use that knowledge to y

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!Your spouse cheated on you.Now they're back. Say they want to make the marriage work.You want to get beyond the pain, to have a better marriage than it was before. At times you think you're well on your way. Sometimes you think you'll never heal.Although you're trying to get past it and make your marriage good again, you hurt. Some days more than others. You find yourself reliving the lies, the devastating sense of loss, the violation of your trust. What do you do?End it and go your own way? Swallow the pain and do the best you can? Or find a way to heal your relationship and your heart.In this program, Dr. Joe Beam explains a pathway to healing from the deep hurt caused by your spouse's infidelity and deception. It takes time but you can find peace during the progress. If you don't progress, you'll live in pain much longer. That pain may lead to some very poor decisions or actions. Dr. Beam also takes live calls about dealing with healing f

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!Having in-law problems?Some in-laws are awesome. Loved. Respected. Helpful.Some are not. WAY not!Difficult in-laws can cause major trouble. They can be very critical, demeaning you if you say or do anything they don't like. Not just to you but to others about you including your spouse and your children. They can influence your spouse's other relatives against you. They may even try to convince your spouse to divorce you. In short, they can make your life miserable.If you have in-laws like that, what do you do? Grin and bear it? Complain bitterly to your spouse? Fight back? Move to a different country?It's time to stop living in misery because of problem relatives. In this live call-in program, Dr. Joe Beam gives practical advice about how to deal with terrible in-laws, explaining what TO DO and what NOT to do.Dr. Beam also takes live calls about dealing with in-laws as well as other relationship issues or advice you wish to ask about.This program begins at 12:3

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!Marriage in trouble? Love your spouse? Looking for solutions to save your marriage?If so, do NOT do the wrong thing that so many people do. The very things they do to salvage the relationship become the very things that help destroy it.In this live call-in program, Relationship Radio host Dr. Joe Beam explains which efforts to rescue your marriage work and, more importantly, which ones DON'T work. Our organization hears these words regularly, "I knew what I was doing was pushing my spouse away, but didn't understand why or how."In his work with couples in crisis over the last 26 years, Dr. Beam has guided thousands to understand why focusing on saving their marriage was the wrong thing to do and what they should be doing instead. In this program, he spends the first section explaining what you shouldn't do and what to do instead if you desire restoring your marriage and having a loving home again. Then, he takes live callers for the remainder of the p