Brojo Online Podcast

Your quality of life is a direct result of the quality of your decision making. But if everyone knew how to make good decisions the world would be a much better place. It's so hard to know if what you're choosing to do right now is going to be the call you're proud of later... or sometimes it is obvious yet you don't stop long enough to think it through. In this episode, I use my experience playing chess and studying chess Grandmasters to reveal the secrets of excellent decision making. ------------------------ Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused

When asked, most successful people will tell you a story about how they became successful, but unfortunately it won't often be true. It will just be what they wished was true, like they worked hard, or were courageous, or broke the rules in some dashing way. In this podcast, we'll break down the proven strategies and tactics of success that don't require any starting advantage and actually align with scientific studies on what makes people successful. Meta learning Focus on your strengths Be lazy (efficient) Serve consistently, give freely Shoot out of your league Quality over quantity Stop at good enough Go deep on what you love Teach what you’ve learned Serve high quality people Set very long term goals Have a high failure rate Get the right coaches Create a supportive peer circle Go against the grain Get reliable feedback Make it smaller Reduce pressure Make integrity your reason Make it sustainable Measure yourself quantitatively ---------- Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful

The term "toxic masculinity" was original devised by a men's advocate group to describe the way men are raised with a skewed, macho, harmful version of what it means to be a man. However, as a term toxic masculinity has since come to basically mean that it's bad to be masculine in any way. In this podcast we aim to answer two questions: 1) What does "toxic masculinity" mean? What's the definition? 2) Is this term helpful, healthy, and worth using? Let's find out... ---------- Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through

Nice Guys and people pleasers often get exactly the opposite of what they're trying to get, and it doesn't make any sense. But there's a good reason for this. Let's explore why being nice simply does not, and cannot, work. Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships. For more personal support, contact Dan & Mike

Nothing is more destructive than working yourself to death in an unfulfilling 9-5 job simply because you think you have to. In this episode, Dan covers his theory about a conspiracy designed to control the masses into mind-numbing modern-day slavery. Some quotes from the episode: “I can’t think of a belief system that hurts the individual more than looking around and asking ‘What’s everyone else doing? That must be the right thing to do?’” There’s a huge mass of unsuccessful people, and you look around at them and go “I guess that’s what should be doing”? That doesn’t make sense’ Right now, there are government employees all around the world having meetings specifically to figure out how to waste the extra money you paid in taxes so that they can justify asking for that amount again. You get to Friday and think “Oh thank god, now I can just throw my money away on emotionally numbing activities and substances” and then you have to go back to work on Monday. Why is alcohol the only legal drug even though it’s

Finding a reason to live - a sense of purpose, a mission, a meaning - is probably the most important pursuit for any human who has already accomplished their basic survival needs. When you don't have to worry about food and shelter anymore, you'll start to ask questions like "Why am I here?" and if you don't have an answer, you can become easily depressed. In this episode, we discuss how to get in touch with your purpose (in a very practical way). Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and au

After studying and practicing honesty for more than a decade (having spent the prior period of my life being largely dishonest), I’ve come to realise that I’ve actually developed a worship of honesty. Having experimented with being more honest for such a long time, I’ve arrived at the firm conclusion that “Just be more honest” is the long-term solution to any social issue or self-confidence problem, and it’s become my go-to mantra for solving almost every difficult problem that crosses my path. Honesty acts like the tip of the arrowhead; if you just focus on being as honest as possible, all the other areas of life follow it to create long term success in a way that’s appropriate for you personally – be it health, career, relationships, and so on. You might not get what you thought you wanted, but you’ll get what you truly need. This is becoming more fact than opinion. It’s been skeptically tested by myself and hundreds of my clients, alongside many others who I have no personal connection to, and we can al

Learn how to build powerful connections, develop easy effortless charisma, and make people feel special with these advanced yet simple listening techniques and principles. Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships. For more personal support, contact Dan & Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or comp

NOTE: Sound quality is a bit poorer on this one. The "not good enough" story is a manifestation of a deeper belief that many people have: the idea that you're not "there" yet. It's a ridiculous concept and yet nearly everyone falls victim to it. In this episode, we explore the fallacy of thinking you're not already where you need to be. Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types

In this episode, I dug through the archives to bring you my top 5 pieces on building authentic relationships: - what women really want - nice guys and the women who enable them - how to create an authentic relationship - the difference between a relationship and a connection - honesty in relationships Consider it a starter pack for any nice guy or people pleaser who wants to build a good connection romantically. Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys disco

The difference between being rich and poor has very little to do with what you start with. Our guest today started literally homeless with only $1000 to his name. 6 years later, he's a millionaire with passive income. No secrets, no tricks, no bullshit scams - just the right mindset and lots of application. Today, he's telling us what he knows. Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of a

In this episode we cover the top mistakes I've seen people make as a coach in their self development journies: 1. The information trap 2. Guru worship - throwing $ at the problem 4. Materialism - attachment to outcomes 5. Chasing abundance 6. Loyalty to a single way 7. Following unscientific woo 8. Indulging in only academic philosophy 9. Trying to keep things the same and change simultaneously 10. Focus on results rather than process - too serious 11. Doing it alone 12. Doing it with the wrong people 13. Creating a new comfort zone 14. Finish line fallacy 15. Confusing responsibility with acceptance (change v tolerate) Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/joi

The BROJO Online Podcast has been going for 200 episodes! To celebrate, I look back over how I've changed since this started in terms of beliefs, behaviour and lifestyle. It's been epic! Here's to another 200 shows... Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships. For more personal support, contact Dan & Mike direc

When you start getting into valued living, it can be difficult to explore your love-life. How can you give yourself the best chances of finding a loving partner without having to resort to dishonesty and tactics? For those of you recovering from the Pick Up Artist mentality, let's talk about how to be as attractive as possible without needing to manipulate in any way. Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on support

Comparing yourself to other people is the shortest path to Hell. In this episode, we join Dan and the BROJO crew on a webinar call about how to measure yourself without comparison to other people. Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships. For more personal support, contact Dan & Mike directly with your questio

We are all judgmental, it's wired into our basic cognition. However, sometimes it's helpful (like choosing your breakfast) and other times it's not (like ignoring someone who could be a great friend). Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships. For more personal support, contact Dan & Mike directly with your que

Today we covered: - How to get over my obsession with my ex-girlfriend - Should I measure my self-worth based on how well I do with women? - Why do girls keep avoiding me after I meet them? - What daily practices are best for success? - What should I do about my partner's extensive sexual history? Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and dee

Reality is neutral. The only time it can hurt you is when you tell yourself an extra story about it; a story that makes you feel bad about being yourself. In this webinar we explore 9 of the most common negative narratives that plague your life, and how you can relieve yourself from them. Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply conn

Webinar from the BROJO archives: We tackle your limiting beliefs around money that cause you suffering and anxiety in relation to financial problems. Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confidence, integrity, and deeply connected relationships. For more personal support, contact Dan & Mike directly with your questions info@brojo.org, or complete an application f

If you're a Nice Guy or a people-pleaser, it's probably time you faced the hard truths about what's really going on. In this episode, Dan addresses the key elements to this syndrome that you'll need to work on and overcome if you ever hope to building strong self-confidence, genuine connections, and a meaningful career. Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focused on how to build confidence through living with integrity and authenticity. We help Nice Guys discover their masculinity, and we focus on supporting people-pleasers of all types to build confide