Abiding Together

In this episode, we continue in our Lenten series as we journey through Sister Miriam’s book Restore. It’s not too late to join us! You can find your copy today at Ave Maria Press. This week we discuss the healing that comes through almsgiving. We share our own personal experiences of tithing our time, practicing obedience in our vocations, and how almsgiving is more than giving money. We pray that God would grow your capacity to see Christ in the other through the practice of almsgiving!    Sister Miriam’s one thing - Homemade Vegetarian Chili Heather’s one thing - Heather’s Zucchini Pecan Muffins Michelle’s one thing - Once Upon a Wardrobe - Patti Callahan Michelle’s other one thing -  God is Beauty - TOB Institute    Discussion Questions:     What stood out to you from this week’s episode? In light of almsgiving, what does faithful stewardship look like in your life?  How can almsgiving work to help mature your love?  Where do you let others hold you accountable? Are there specific areas you resist accou

In this episode, we continue in our Lenten series as we journey through Sister Miriam’s book Restore. It’s not too late to join us! You can find your copy today at Ave Maria Press. This week we dive even deeper into the healing power of fasting and share the tendencies and temptations we notice when fasting. We discuss how God desires to identify, uproot, and heal the wounds exposed when we enter into this Lenten practice. We pray this week you would allow God to bring healing and wholeness through the discipline of fasting.   Sister Miriam’s one thing - The Hobbit Audiobook Heather’s one thing - Lent playlist: Songs in the Desert Michelle’s one thing - On Earth as it is Heaven - Father Josh Johnson    Discussion Questions:     What stood out to you from this week’s episode? How has your understanding of fasting changed since beginning this study?  What are the tendencies within yourself that you notice when you are fasting? How has fasting allowed you to see areas of woundedness and experience God’s heali

In this episode, we continue in our Lenten series as we journey through Sister Miriam’s book Restore. It’s not too late to join us! You can find your copy today at Ave Maria Press. This week we discuss the power of fasting and sacrifices to bring healing within ourselves and deeper communion with Jesus. We chat about how fasting can bring forth repentance and right ordered love when we remember we are saying no, so that we can say a greater yes to Jesus, our lover. We pray that your fasting would bring about healing and restoration this Lent! Sister Miriam’s one thing - French Onion Soup  Heather’s one thing - I Shall Not Want - The Worship Initiative Michelle’s one thing -  Abide: A Pathway to Transformative Healing and Intimacy with Jesus - Heather Khym Michelle’s other one thing - Sunday Bead Co.    Discussion Questions:     What stood out to you from this week’s episode? Can you recognize any disordered desires or loves in your day to day life that become more right-ordered through fasting? Is there so

In this episode, we begin our Lenten series as we journey through Sister Miriam’s book Restore. It’s not too late to join us! You can find your copy today at Ave Maria Press. We share our own perspectives entering this new season of Lent before diving into the first section on prayer. We speak about the healing power of the disciplines of Lent: prayer, almsgiving and fasting as a means to lean into our desire and God’s desire for us. We remind one another of the true goal of Lent: union with Christ. We pray that it blesses you.    Sister Miriam’s one thing - Restore the Glory Podcast episode with Archbishop Sample Heather’s one thing - Reconnecting with dear friends and community Michelle’s one thing -  Dig to the Roots - Reform    Discussion Questions:     What stood out to you from this week’s episode? What is your disposition as we enter the season of Lent? How is God inviting you to receive restoration rather than to white knuckle your way through fasting, prayer and penance?  What does God want to stri

In this episode, we conclude our conversation on motherhood focusing on the feminine genius of maternity. We speak about how to grow in spiritual maternity to allow new life and lasting fruit to come forth through us. We discuss the need to continue to allow others to mother us, as well as the importance of showing up for ourselves and tending to our own needs. We revisit the ideas of abiding in the Lord and living a right-ordered life in community in order to live our vocations as mothers. We pray this week you would bring forth the life God desires to birth in you. Sister Miriam’s one thing - Prayer from Mother Mary Francis “Our Lady is a home where people are helped to be what they can be, to grow to the maturity for which God has destined them. Like her, the family is called to be a place where someone helps me to rise when I stumble. Always a hand reaches out to sustain me, and my hand goes out to help the stumbling one. All these appellations that the Church heaps upon Our Lady show her as both homemake

In this episode, we continue our discussion on motherhood by reflecting on the gift of sensitivity. We discuss how Our Lady reveals in her motherhood how God knows us, notices us and responds to us. We chat about the temptation to conform, wall off our hearts, or see the gift of sensitivity as a liability rather than a tool for healing. We speak about the space within our hearts as mothers that allows for others to room, grow and cultivate their true humanity. We pray for you to experience healing this week!   Sister Miriam’s one thing - Christ Taking Leave of His Mother - Piotr Stachiewicz Heather’s one thing - The mothers in my life that teach me how to be a better mother. Michelle’s one thing - The Lifegiving Home - Sally Clarkson  and The Lifegiving Table - Sally Clarkson    Discussion Questions:     What stood out to you from this week’s episode? How have you experienced the gift sensitivity through mothers in your life? Is there a particular instance or memory where you experienced healing through the

In this episode, we speak about the impact of maternal wounds caused by distraction, harsh words, and abandonment. We discuss repairing relationships through time, perspective, and understanding the context of the situations our mothers experienced as women. We speak about the importance of maturity as mothers, especially when our children hurt us and how to seek healing, restoration and repair immediately. We pray this week the Lord would respond and be the healer of your wounds! Sister Miriam’s one thing - Verso Alto Coffee Heather’s one thing - On the Altar - Upperroom  Michelle’s one thing - A Mother Like You - JJ Heller  Other Books Mentioned: Sheltered Within Her Heart : 33 days to deeper entrustment to Mary - Joshua Elzner  Discussion Questions:     What stood out to you from this week’s episode? Every one of us has been born of a woman. How would you describe your relationship with your mother?  How have you seen the power of words at play with your mother, your children (if you have them) or in ot

In this episode, we begin a 4 part series on the identity of women as mother. We talk about the power of motherhood at this time in history and how we are called to cultivate, guard, and develop true humanity. This call is innate in every woman whether they are a biological mother or not. We discuss the power and need for community where we can receive and be received by others and experience deeper healing. Be sure to subscribe to the Abiding Together Podcast on YouTube to watch our video podcasts!    Sister Miriam’s one thing - Restore (also available on Amazon) Heather’s one thing - Faith of My Father album by Steffany Gretzinger Michelle’s one thing - Sheltered Within Her Heart: 33 Days to Deeper Entrustment to Mary   Other Books Mentioned: Essays on Women (Edith Stein) — also available on Amazon  Living from the Heart (E James Wilder)   Discussion Questions:     What stood out to you from this week’s episode? What are some ways that women can cultivate, guard, and develop true humanity? What ways

In this episode, we declare and claim this new year as a year of God’s favor! We discuss the power of repentance and blessing and the beautiful exchange that God wants to bestow on us as his beloved children. We continue our discussion on becoming a new creation in Christ through repentance, claiming God’s blessings, and destroying areas of idolatry in our life. We pray this week each of you would allow yourself to be found and renewed by the God of restoration! Sister Miriam’s one thing - The King of Love My Shepherd Is - Sarah Kroger Heather’s one thing - Hail O Queen - Damascus Worship Michelle’s one thing - Rhythm - Lisa Keeven Michelle’s other one thing - Crowned for Ashes. You can read more about this ministry through the following interview.   Other Books Mentioned: Deliverance Prayers for the Laity   Discussion Questions:     What stood out to you from this week’s episode? Where does God want to bestow a beautiful exchange in your life (a crown of beauty instead of ashes, the oil of joy instead of

In this episode, we reconnect after an extended winter break to continue our annual tradition, sharing our Word of the Year! Each year we each ask God to give us a theme to focus on for the new year and invite you to do the same. After personal prayer and reflection, we share our words for 2022 and how our words of the year have been connected. We discuss the importance of claiming this year for Christ and invite you to join us on the journey again!  Sister Miriam’s one thing - Christmas Cards  Heather’s one thing - Peace Vol. II - Bethel Music Michelle’s one thing - Word on Fire Bible Volume 2  Michelle’s other one thing - Born of Wonder Podcast Michelle’s other other one thing - Revelations 19 - Maverick City Music  Discussion Questions:     What stood out to you from this week’s episode? Who’s word - Heather: Increase, Michelle: Jubilee, Sister Miriam: Secure - resonated most with you and why? After prayer and reflection, what’s your word of the year?  How can you see your spiritual progress through the

In this episode, we conclude our four part Advent series revisiting the women Doctors of the Church with a discussion on peace through the life of St. Teresa of Avila. We discuss the key to peace as abiding in the love of Christ despite the storms of life. We chat about peace that comes from rightly ordered relationships and the need to cultivate peace through daily acts of trust, rest, and surrender. We pray that as we near Christmas, you would experience the peace of Christ in a new way! For further listening, check out Restore the Beauty, a five part series on the women Doctors of the Church from Season 4 and be sure to subscribe to the Abiding Together Podcast on YouTube to watch our video podcasts!    Sister Miriam’s one thing - Oh Come Let us Adore Him - Maverick City Music Michelle’s one thing - All of our Abiding Together Podcast Staff - Lizzie, Emily, Katie, Kristina - and the staff at Spirit Juice Studios  Heather’s one thing - All of our Patrons   Other Books Mentioned - The Story of a Soul: The

In this episode, we continue our four part Advent series revisiting the women Doctors of the Church with a discussion on joy through the life of St. Thérèse of Lisieux. We discuss trust, simplicity and self surrender as the keys to experiencing the beauty of Christmas and the miracle of Christ’s birth. We share our own personal stories of God bringing radical transformation in our lives, doing things for us and in us that we could not do ourselves. We pray that this Advent you would be able to joyfully accept the gifts God desires to give to you.  For further listening, check out Restore the Beauty, a five part series on the women Doctors of the Church from Season 4 and be sure to subscribe to the Abiding Together Podcast on YouTube to watch our video podcasts! Sister Miriam’s one thing - The National Shrine and Museum of Saint Thérèse - Darien, Illinois Michelle’s one thing - Behold: The Luminous Mysteries Visio Divina Book  Heather’s one thing - Forever, Amen - Steffany Gretzinger   Other Books Mentione

In this episode, we continue our four part Advent series revisiting the women Doctors of the Church with a discussion on praise through the life of St. Hildegard of Bingen. We discuss the value of praise: speaking the truth about who God is and who we are and reflect on how all creation was made to praise the Creator. We chat about Advent as a particular time to create space to hear God’s voice and the unique ways each of us enter into praise of God. We pray this week you would hear the voice of God over you and join in the joyful praise of all creation. For further listening, check out Restore the Beauty, a five part series on the women doctors of the church from Season 4 and be sure to subscribe to the Abiding Together Podcast on YouTube to watch our video podcasts!    Sister Miriam’s one thing - The Litany of Self-Love - Micole Amalu Michelle’s one thing - Breath of Heaven - Amy Grant Heather’s one thing - Deliverance Prayers: For Use by the Laity - Fr. Chad A Ripperger PhD   Discussion questions:     W

In this episode, we begin our four part Advent series revisiting the women doctors of the church with a discussion on hope through the life of St. Catherine of Siena. We discuss the virtue of hope, receiving and sharing Christ’s light in the darkness, and tips for making room for Christ this Advent season. We pray that you would receive the deep love of God as we begin this time of preparation for the birth of our Savior. For further listening, check out Restore the Beauty, a five part series on the women doctors of the church from Season 4 and be sure to subscribe to the Abiding Together Podcast on YouTube to watch our video podcasts!    Sister Miriam’s one thing - Be Restored: Healing Our Sexual Wounds through Jesus’ Merciful Love - Dr. Bob Schuchts Michelle’s one thing - Seeing Christmas - Karen Stacy Heather’s one thing - Advent Playlist on Spotify Other Books Mentioned - Unwrapping the Greatest Gift: A Family Celebration of Christmas - Ann Voskamp Discussion questions:     What stood out to you from

In this episode, we speak with Magnus MacFarlane-Barrow and hear the story of his amazing ministry Mary’s Meals. Magnus shares how a personal conversion at Medjugorje led him to helping refugees in Bosnia, and how meeting a child named Edward in Malawi was the beginning of feeding 2 million children a day. Find out more about Mary’s Meals on youtube in the video Love Reaches Everywhere and watch as they celebrate the amazing milestone of feeding 2 million children a day! We invite you to follow Mary’s Meals online at https://www.marysmeals.org and on Instagram @marysmeals.    Sister Miriam’s one thing - Through the Heart of St. Joseph - Fr. Boniface Hicks  Michelle’s one thing - Sweet Cross - Laura Phelps  Heather’s one thing - Heather’s road trip with her youngest daughter Eva Magnus’s one thing -  His Acorn Tree  Other Books Mentioned - The Shed That Fed a Million Children: The Mary’s Meals Story - Magnus MacFarlane- Barrow Give: Charity and the Art of Living Generously- Magnus MacFarlane- Barrow

In this episode, we conclude our four part series on the identity of sisterhood. This episode is now offered in video on youtube! We discuss the idea of celebrating and championing other women to live out their unique God given call and purpose. Sister Miriam ends this series with a powerful meditation inviting us each to forgive and receive forgiveness in relationships that have wounded our understanding of true sisterhood. We pray this week would bring an opportunity for you to forgive, receive forgiveness and create a place for others at the table of sisterhood. Be sure to subscribe to the Abiding Together Podcast on YouTube to watch our video podcasts!  Sister Miriam’s one thing - Ashes to Skies - Shaylee Simeone Michelle’s one thing - A Sisterhood Movie Night List Heather’s one thing - Steady Love Playlist on Spotify Other Books Mentioned -  Priestly Fatherhood - Fr. Jacques Philippe Discussion questions:     What stood out to you from this week’s episode? Take some to allow each person to answer the

In this episode, we continue our four part series on the identity of sister.  This episode is now offered in video on youtube! We discuss the unique wounds that women often inflict on one another and our own experiences of jealousy, rivalry, and competition. We look at how assumptions can damage relationships and the role of intentional communication and transparency in repairing these wounds. We pray this week God would give you courage to behold women in your heart and be a gift to others through your femininity. Be sure to subscribe to the Abiding Together Podcast on YouTube to watch our video podcasts!  Sister Miriam’s one thing - Tiny Hands Michelle’s one thing - Day Planner from Blessed Is She  Heather’s one thing - Heather’s Steak Pie recipe  Discussion questions:     What stood out to you from this week’s episode? What makes you feel safe in relationships so that you’re able to trust the other? What vows or agreements - such as “I will never trust women" or "I can’t trust women like I can men” - ha

In this episode, we continue our four part series on Sisterhood. This episode is now offered in video on youtube! We discuss what it looks like for women to form each other in community so that we can all live our dignity as daughters made in the image and likeness of God. We discuss milestone experiences in a woman’s life and the necessity of journeying through these seasons with other women. We pray this week you would continue to become the sister God created you to be! Be sure to subscribe to the Abiding Together Podcast on YouTube to watch our video podcasts! Sister Miriam’s one thing -  The Advent series Adore: A Guided Advent Journal for Prayer and Mediation with Fr. John Burns from Ave Maria Press. Check out Fr. John Burn’s video introduction to the Advent Series.  Michelle’s one thing - Shannon from Chews Life and my rosary bracelet Heather’s one thing - Debbie Herbeck of Be Love Revolution - @bloverevolution on instagram  Other Books Mentioned - Essays on Woman (The Collected Works of Edith Stein) -

In this episode, we break open the scripture of the Visitation as we begin a four part series on the identity of sister - biological and spiritual. This episode is now offered in video on youtube! We discuss the model of speaking blessing into one another’s lives as we confirm and affirm each other’s truest identity. We chat about how Mary and Elizabeth needed one another’s story and resisted the temptations of comparison and competition in choosing celebration. We pray God would be the center of your relationships and sisterhoods! Be sure to subscribe to the Abiding Together Podcast on YouTube to watch our video podcasts!  Sister Miriam’s one thing - ’Sisters’ from White Christmas  Michelle’s one thing - My front porch in Fall and the season of Fall! Heather’s one thing - Chicken Carnitas Recipe Other Books Mentioned -  Friendship in the Lord - Fr. Paul Hinnebusch  Discussion questions:     What stood out to you from this week’s episode? What does it mean to you to be a sister? What stirs in your heart as

In this episode, we complete our four part series on the identity of daughter. This episode is now offered in video on youtube! We discuss the full redemption God desires for his daughters emotionally, spiritually, sexually, and in a particular way as women, physically through our bodies and beauty. We chat about the practice of repentance and declaring the truth about ourselves, body and soul. We pray you would allow Christ to bring your whole self into communion with him in your identity as daughter so you may grow into a sister, a mother and a bride. Be sure to subscribe to the Abiding Together Podcast on YouTube to watch our video podcasts!    Sister Miriam’s one thing -  Healing Wounds Meditation with Dr. Bob Schutchts on the Hallow App. You must subscribe to Hallow to listen!  Michelle’s one thing - The Every Sacred Sunday Mass Journal Heather’s one thing - The Metanoia Series - Fr. Dave Pivonka, TOR and 4pm media   Other Books Mentioned -  The Inner Voice of Love: A Journey Through Anguish to Freedom -