Bourbon & Boyshorts

Listen as we sit down with Julius and Julian, the tap dancing duo of the Money Takers. We hear their new song “New New” and get a lesson on booking “Bad Mamas”. More than tapping the Twins are In two upcoming movies, “Time Matters” and “Color Blind” Did you Know: Their first drama teacher was Shemar Moore Their First instrument was the steel drum Their first tap instructor was Savion glover Closing Question: “Are you Ready for greatness?”

Getting to the sweet spot of a marriage or relationship... Are you comfortable in the struggles of a relationship and uncomfortable in the peace. Listen as we discuss relationships and ask the tough question, “Can you love me when I’m unloveable?” Should your wife get in the backseat of your car when your mother is around? Is that a metaphor for a deeper issue you may be having..... “You need to be a man”, what does that mean when a woman says it and why is the relationship at stake when a women is upset? It’s not my job to make you happy. If I don’t make you happy, you’re not happy. “If you’re not doing for your, why should I?” Do you agree or disagree? Can you romantically love someone and not like them. We thinks so, do you?

“Dating isn’t a tradition, it’s a culture; more then a necessity...” Listen as we discuss our quarantine eating bits and what happens when you eat 4 McChickens and a 20 piece. We reach back to “Entanglements” and ask the question, Are you entangled if you agree to it?

Listen as we sit down with Ernest Third as he describes how his music has grown as he did. Ernest ask an introspective question that makes the room stop and think ....”Is happiness obtainable?” “What verse changed your life...? If you could write one verse that a million black woman would here, what would it be? “Know your worth/ Even is it’s empty in your skirts” -Ernest Third

Do you have a certain.... how do you say, "je ne sais quoi". Listen as we discuss the idea that "everyone at the bar is equal" (6:17). How can you break through a person's representative and meet who they really are? What steps do you tale? (21:15). What are appropriate first date questions? What do you do during those awkward moments? Coupons on the first date, yes or no? (26:08). Vice Versa: what are your vices and what do they say about you? (31:30) Soooo a young lady shot her shot in our DM's. Is shooting a shot in the DM, but not having pictures posted a problem? When a stranger shoots their shot, what should you do? (35:40). [Warning]: This episode got us in a lot of trouble.

Listen as we sit down with the family and welcome first time Cousin Bri! We touch on the The levels of women’s friendships and if it’s possible for a woman to reduce the access others have to her without throwing also ruining a friendship. We touch on what does it mean to “have it all together” and is it fair/possible to date someone who doesn’t have their life figured out. We talk about the “Cocaine feeling” love can bring and how to navigate that into a true dating experience and see a person for who they fully are and not just through Rose colored glasses.

Listen as we has a in depth dialogue about the sitcoms we watched growing up. We breakdown the role Carl played in his house hold as the Father in "Family Matters" and compare it to Bill Cosby's character Heathcliff. We analyze the dynamic between Will and Carlton in "Fresh Prince" while asking the questioning the emasculation in the depiction of the black father on TV.

Listen as we laugh the night away with the lovely Ms. Ajay. We talk on the role her father played in her life and how that has manifested in her dating life. We learn about being raised by a father and if he has liked any of her boyfriends. Finally we get into "Pretty Girl Problems vs. Pretty Girl Privilege."

Listen as we give roses while we still smell them. Kyle shares why he's naturally introverted and how he manages to be outgoing? Jeremy shares how he as attended church more during the quarantine then prior. We walk into a conversation geared towards holding your friends accountable for their dreams.

Listen as we breakdown the Jordan documentary and what it means for dating. "The Last Dance" knowing the relationship is over. "Bad Front Offices", she having friends that hate. "Trips to Vegas" would you take advantage of the proverbial "Hall Passes".

Listen as we sit down with "The Tax Lady" Sakinah Tillman of Tillman LLC. We discuss the stimulus, what it is and what it means for next year's tax return. Later we transition into the disparities in healthcare and the impact it's having

How everyone is safe out there. Please continue to practice social distancing. This episode we self reflect to determine "what does love feel like?" We both reminisce on the joys of being the side dude. We end the same with our favorite game, "Name that Sample."

Listen as we record our first quarantined episode over Instagram Live. We shout out the teachers during this quarantine period and acknowledge why they are the best to be quarantined with. Have you been checked on during the quarantine... Who's checking your temperature? Dope Chicks of the Week: Ava (@Avaa81) and Chyna (@_Msffg_)

Listen as we sit down pre-quarantine and discuss what it means to give maximum effort, the greatest or highest degree of energy used in producing a desired result. Are you giving your Maximum Effort in all areas of your life? This lead us directly into determining what we are willing to commit too. Dope Chick of the Week: Chef Catina (Cat) Smith, found of Just Call Me Chef.

Listen as we share our thoughts, condolences, and prayers for our Friend Graham W. Blake II (Blake)after his untimely passing... We recap the Suits & Sneakers Party, we discuss the "Rachet Chicks & Wings" we had during the after party, and what happens when married women shot their shot with you...

Listen as we sit down and hash out our business partnership issues live on air. 37:50 “Beauty in the struggle” we discuss the struggles to success. 48:40: “Band-aids create more scars” Sometimes 20% of a person can out weight another's 80%.... That's when representative is all a person wants. 53:35: "Amazon Priming your Love" accepting love in small doses. Seeking it how I want to receive it.

Happy Birthday Kyle!!! Listen as we celebrate Kyle's Birthday. We have a very special guest, the original "Perfect Gentleman" himself.... Kyle's father! He breaks down the joys of fathering Kyle, advice, and the 3 Bs: Beauty Brains and Booty

Listen as we sit down with Crystal of She Fit Lifestyle and talk all thing health. Crystal breaks down how to achieve your fitness goals, how to squat your way to a big booty, and why you should put the french fries down. We transition from health to the heart as we talk love Languages, expressing emotions, and how Crystal's husband forgot her birthday.

Leaving all Kiki’s in 2019.... Listen ad we sit down with Kiea, owner of Pink xoxo Lips. Kiea and Kyle get right to it as they share their stories being taken to a secret sex party, and the self esteem shower needed after. We breakdown why threesomes don’t work and the steps to initiate one. We change topics and get into the hypocrisy of dating standards we give young adults and how it contradicts adult expectations in the black community. We finish with what happens when someone breaks the rules of a friends with benefits relations,

Did you make it into 2020.... Listen as we sit down on New Year's Day and recap NYE, New Year's Day, and 2019 as a whole. We touch on The best moments of the Podcast, Best Drinks of 2019, and of course the best Parties of 2019.