Bourbon & Boyshorts

Listen as we sit down with Krissy and she shares the history of why she never wears underwear. Kyle gives a story of being used for a dinner date and we examine if you should talk to someone on the phone before going out on the first date? We hear examples of a "baby melt down"? Apparently it's passive aggressive behavior. Question of the night: "Black Men, why have you forsaken Black Women..." Answer: "It's easier to fall into a Trend and not a Tradition"

*** Today's life lesson: "The less conversation you have, the more of a past you think you had" Listen to this after cookout group conversation where we hear women's views on "The Glass Ceiling" and corporate America. We debate if Tupac would still be relevant today, and what it means to be "Halfway Single".

On this episode of Bourbon & Boyshorts we sit down with Stephanie and Avaa. We explain why Stephanie flirts for sport and puts guys in her "Friend-bin." We debate the current state of African American groups and their fight to recruit white collar vs. blue collar professionals. And we also discuss "350" the last guy Avaa dated...

Listen as we sit down and discuss double dates and what happens when someone gets stood up on a double date. We realize "Pretty Girl Privilege" is in full effect and debate who is prettier Beyoncé, Chaka Khan, or Angela Bassett. We wrap up the episode discussing the Roots Picnic.... what type of human being tries to start a fight while H.E.R. is performing?

Listen as we sit down with graduates from class 52 of Freestate Challenge Academy. You'll hear the cadets describe the behaviors that landed them in this 6 month program, they describe what life is like at Freestate, and their plans after graduation. Imagine this..... A hamburger with one packet of ketchup is the highlight of your meals for the week.

www.sarahmcurnoles.com Listen as we sit down with Sarah Curnoles, a professional dating coah. Today we breakdown why we shouldn't hold our cards close on first dates, how to connect with someone, and why Horror Movies are the perfect first date!!!

***Audio gets better at 27:10*** Listen as we sit down with the sultry voiced Tiarra listen to her talk about everything from Teach for America, to dating men without cars. We get into a interesting discussion about how Friday nights after 30 are calmer, teaching students who don't speak English, and matching wealth with family when dating.

Listen as we sit down with Wayne Watts and learn about his Dream. Create. Inspire tour (https://www.dreamcreateinspiretour.com/). Discover how Wayne works with schools to facilitate song writing workshops for kids. We breakdown how there are no more gate keepers but rather butlers at the door. Finally we breakdown his lyrics and determine how Denver changed the sound of his music.

Mama we made it! Episode 100!!!! Thank you to everyone for your support throughout this journey. We couldn't have done it without you. We truly appreciate you. Listen as we celebrate our 100th episode with our cousins. We tell the story of how Kyle met this side of the family and realized his father wasn't his biological. You get to hear how we became best friends at the Bad Boy Reunion Concert, and more secrets we'll never share again. (54:50) Jeremy shuts down the entire podcast over pizza. smh.......

Listen as we talk about the recent gala we attended and how we got kicked out for wearing kicks instead of dress shoes. We breakdown the idea of 30 day dating and all of the possible ramifications. We ask the question "Are good night text the new 'Good morning' text,? We end with "Are you in love with yourself, and do you accept your own flaws?"

Listen as we sit down with Keyona the founder of Femininity and Womanhood, and Masculinity and Manhood. We have have a great conversation of submission, the job of the black woman, and how holding on to someone who is gone will hinder your life. "What is a Man's role in a Woman's life...? Suit & Sneakers Party May 18th https://www.eventbrite.com/e/suits-sneakers-tickets-60836888772?aff=ebdssbdestsearch

Suits & Sneaker Party Saturday May 18th (https://www.eventbrite.com/e/suits-sneakers-tickets-60836888772?aff=ebdssbdestsearch) Listen as we sit down with appealing Tasha of Noir Restaurant and Lounge. We start with Tasha's origins as a military brat and the time she spent overseas. We hear the story of her father meeting her mother while station in Italy and dating her even though she didn't speak English. We move on to her 6 year relationship and how that drove her to becoming celibate. Finally laugh at her first experience post celibacy

Fund Friday, April 19th 7-11pm. https://www.eventbrite.com/e/fund-friday-tickets-59442550268?aff=eprofsaved Listen as we sit down with the wonderful Raye of Noir Restaurant & Lounge. (5:39) We talk about dating like Caucasians and why datinig is the new networking. (40:25) Why don’t women apologize when they are wrong? Finally we end with (91:10) "Love More, Fear Less"

Please purchase your tickets for Fund Friday supporting the Be. Org. https://www.eventbrite.com/e/fund-friday-tickets-59442550268 Listen as we sit down with the lovely ladies of the Bougie by Association Podcast. Listen as we discuss feminism and where black women fit within the movement. We ask the question, "Do women reinforce toxic masculinity?". Finally the ladies describe what "care" looks like.

Listen as we sit down (3:25) and discuss why having multiple women is difficult sexually. (7:50) Jeremy tells the story of getting kicked out of a young lady's house for not having sex with her, and Kyle (9:00) shares his experience being celibate for 8 months. We finish with Chef Rose (57:10) breaking down why she separates her sexuality from her profession, "Chefs have been freaks since the Greeks" Dope azz chicks: Caitlyn Davis: https://empowergirlsincorporated.org/team/caitlyn-davis/ Chef Catina "Cat" Smith: https://www.justcallmechef.co/ Kim "KSAL" Salley

(Fund Friday) https://www.eventbrite.com/e/fund-friday-tickets-59442550268?aff=ehomesaved Listen as we sit down with "Pam" to discuss her recent break-up after knowing him from 10 years. (29:25) Kyle explains how a woman fresh off a breakup is dangerous... (35:59) Jeremy states why a man wants to know if a woman can live without him,... (64:63) Pam explains why you should address someone only at the level you see them romantically.

Listen as we discuss the surprise dinner that turned into a Kid & Play house party at Noir lounge(4:49). (8:35) Crust and Cocktails Shout out (11:00) Do men and women have the same flexibility in their dating range? (20:30) Why haven't you proposed again? (28:31) After 30 men typically don't settle down. True or False? (51:47) "Treat me like I'm Instagram"

Listen as we sit down with local artist Ernest Third and discuss his journey chasing football to discovering his true passion for music. We breakdown the lyrics to several of his songs and he shares his inspiration for each. Itunes: https://itunes.apple.com/us/artist/ernest-third/1192853568

https://www.treasontoting.com/ Social Treason - /ˈsōSHəl/ /ˈtrēzən/ (so·cial trea·son): The act of betraying ones social circle, network, or cultural upbringing for the purposes of self growth and exploration. Social Treason is often the result of being placed outside of your comfort zone for extended periods of time (months, weeks, years, etc.) and enjoying it. Listen as we sit down with Aaron Jones, CEO of Treason Toting Co and Master Tailor at Busheler's of Baltimore. Listen (18:00) as we discuss what committing treason means and how the name came about. (44:10) He explains why his girlfriend is his biggest fan and (62:30) and how “she thinks about me when I’m not thinking about my self”. We end the conversations with (84:35) explaining why “the best feeling you have in a crowd of people is at a concert” and (86:16) “I lead with my heart, but my brain is my sniper”

https://www.treasontoting.com/ Social Treason - /ˈsōSHəl/ /ˈtrēzən/ (so·cial trea·son): The act of betraying ones social circle, network, or cultural upbringing for the purposes of self growth and exploration. Social Treason is often the result of being placed outside of your comfort zone for extended periods of time (months, weeks, years, etc.) and enjoying it. Listen as we sit down with Aaron Jones, CEO of Treason Toting Co and Master Tailor at Busheler's of Baltimore. Listen (18:00) as we discuss what committing treason means and how the name came about. (44:10) He explains why his girlfriend is his biggest fan and (62:30) and how “she thinks about me when I’m not thinking about my self”. We end the conversations with (84:35) explaining why “the best feeling you have in a crowd of people is at a concert” and (86:16) “I lead with my heart, but my brain is my sniper”