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The Queer Family Podcast Pride Extravaganza! | S12 Ep 11 | Claire Wasserman (aka @clairegetspaid) sat down with Jaimie while in the midst of her queer family-building journey and spoke candidly about coming out after a straight marriage, finding true love, discovering her feminist side, and embarking on the roller coaster of queer baby-making with her wife. They delve into the details of her recent sperm donor search, the inseminations, the costs involved, and the fears that arise with this unpredictable path to parenthood.  As an educator and author, Claire is passionate about helping women earn more and live better, and she leverages her platform and global community, Ladies Get Paid, to achieve that goal. Additionally, she shares her personal journey in real-time with her followers, from getting straight divorced to getting gay married, and to now embarking on the exciting journey of becoming a queer mama. Claire is living her truth, being visible, and making a difference. If you like the episode, make sur

The Queer Family Podcast Pride Extravaganza! | S12 Ep 10 | Erik and Adam (aka the @mchusbands) shifted their family-building plan from adoption to surrogacy when their sister-in-law offered to carry for them. In another turn of good fortune, their best friend selflessly agreed to be their egg donor, and their twin baby girls were created. Realizing the lack of representation for gay dads like themselves in the realm of family building, Erik and Adam embarked on a mission to document their journey on social media. Little did they know that their decision to share their story would significantly impact countless others seeking guidance and support. Fast forward seven years and Erik and Adam remain dedicated to their visibility, proudly showcasing the extraordinary joys and challenges of being a two-dad family, defying stereotypes, and shattering misconceptions along the way. If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month! “It was al

The Queer Family Podcast Pride Extravaganza! | S12 Ep 9 |Brit and Sydney Sharon (aka @thesharonmoms) share their inspiring journey as Jewish queer moms who built their family through IUI and reciprocal IVF. They also reveal a surprising discovery about Sydney's dad being a sperm donor in his youth, leading them to connect with six donor siblings. The couple discusses the profound impact of their Jewish faith and the joy they experienced in establishing relationships with their newfound biological siblings. Through their story, they serve as a shining example of the beauty and strength of queer families when faced with minimal complications. Using their platform, Brit and Sydney aim to increase visibility, challenge misconceptions about biological connections in families, redefine womanhood, and redefine traditional roles and rituals within marriage. If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month! "We definitely need to be

The Queer Family Podcast Pride Extravaganza! | S12 Ep 8 |Richard and Carlos, (aka @therealdadsofnewyork) are proud black, Jamaican dads who built their family through adoption and foster-to-adopt. Through their active presence on social media,  they have become a beacon of visibility, addressing the lack of representation they experienced growing up. Their powerful presence allows them to educate others and challenge stereotypes, demonstrating the incredible beauty and strength that a family like theirs possesses. Through their inspiring journey, Richard and Carlos are making a lasting impact and reshaping perceptions of what a family can be. If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month! “We’re busting the myths, we’re busting the stereotypes and we’re showing this is what this is, and this is only one version of what this is, and there is beauty in all the versions.” Richard Seigler-Carter  Watch Video Episodes right now on Yo

The Queer Family Podcast Pride Extravaganza! | S12 Ep 7 | Bret and Stephen (aka @broadwayhusbands) met in 2006 and began documenting their lives together on social media shortly after getting married. When they decided to go down the surrogacy path to make their family, they remained visible on their platforms as a way to inform others about the challenges and joys along the way. Taking it step by step, they saved up and paid for each stage of the process individually, making a notoriously expensive route manageable. After 4 years, a lost surrogate, a miscarriage, and a friend divinely stepping in to carry their child, they finally became dads. They continue to share their journey and showcase their adorable son, using their visibility to educate and inspire others in similar situations. If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month! "We kept trying and we just weren't getting pregnant." Stephen Hana Watch Video Episo

The Queer Family Podcast Pride Extravaganza! | S12 Ep 6 | Whitney and Megan (aka @whatwegandidnext) met on MySpace and started blogging about their lives together in 2009. What began as an effort to create a personal scrapbook of memories soon became a mission to provide the visibility they felt was lacking in mainstream media for LGBTQIA+ relationships. Fast forward 15 years, and Whitney and Megan are now happily married content creators embarking on their path to becoming two mommies. Not only do they use their lives to challenge the status quo on what love and relationships look like, but they are also now utilizing their platforms to raise awareness and drive change regarding the inequality faced by same-sex couples in accessing fertility care in the UK. Through their activism, they're shedding light on the challenges and barriers that LGBTQIA+ individuals encounter when starting a family. Their goal is to create a more inclusive and equitable landscape for all couples, regardless of sexual orientatio

The Queer Family Podcast Pride Extravaganza! | S12 Ep 5 | Brian and Alec Mazelin (aka @meetthemazelins) share their journey as a couple, starting with their online meeting during the pandemic and quick connection, leading Alec to leave Jamaica and move to Florida, where Brian and his son lived. They publicly came out to their families through a heartfelt engagement post on social media, receiving overwhelming support from countless individuals. Motivated by this love, they embraced the importance of representation and remained visible, documenting their lives together and inspiring those struggling to embrace their true selves. Amidst growing anti-LGBTQ rhetoric across both Florida and Jamaica, these two serve as a beacon of hope to many.  If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month! “If we saw this kind of love growing up we would have come to the realization of who we are as people so much earlier than we actually did. It too

The Queer Family Podcast Pride Extravaganza! | S12 Ep 4 | Meet Kayde Mason, a mother of three, whose experiences as an egg donor and gestational surrogate led her to become a passionate surrogacy professional and advocate. Kayde shares her inspiring story, highlighting her transformative journey from being a surrogate for her gay friends to becoming an advocate and educator for surrogacy, with a specific focus on its importance within the LGBTQIA+ community. As a surrogacy professional, Kayde leverages her personal experiences and expertise to empower others who are considering or involved in surrogacy. She utilizes her social media platform as a powerful tool to advocate for surrogacy, breaking down misconceptions and promoting understanding, particularly in relation to the LGBTQIA+ community. Kayde's dedication to education helps to dispel myths and prejudices surrounding surrogacy, while also highlighting its potential to create loving families, regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity. If y

The Queer Family Podcast Pride Extravaganza! | S12 Ep 3 | Today we’re diving into the remarkable story of José Rolón, aka NYC Gay Dad. To expand their family, José and his husband, Tim, opted for surrogacy with egg donation. After a tragic event during their second pregnancy threatened to derail their dreams, José showed immense strength and resilience, and with a little help from his chosen family, he ultimately became a proud single gay dad to three fabulous children. Through the power of social media, José has chosen to share his family's experiences with the world. We explore how he uses these platforms to showcase the love, joy, and everyday moments that make queer families truly extraordinary. Join us as we witness José's unwavering determination to challenge stereotypes and demonstrate the incredible awesomeness of queer families. If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month! “Who am I to raise three kids on my ow

The Queer Family Podcast Pride Extravaganza! | S12 Ep 2 | We’re kicking off Pride 2023 with Stacey Stevenson, the remarkable CEO of Family Equality! Stacey's journey is a testament to resilience and determination, including navigating through a difficult coming out process that led to dropping out of high school, battling diversity and bias as they built their family through adoption, and the difficult decision they made to leave Texas due to safety concerns, a poignant reminder of the lengths we go to protect our loved ones. But that's not all—Stacey's advocacy work has been truly impactful. We'll delve into the initiatives they've undertaken to address the challenges faced by queer families, shining a light on the realities we encounter.  This inspiring episode is a reminder of the strength and love within the LGBTQ+ community and a perfect way to kick off Pride Month and set the stage for our Pride Extravaganza! #LGBTQ+Advocate #CreatingChange #PrideMonth If you like the episode, make s

The Queer Family Podcast Pride Extravaganza!| S12 Ep 1 | Dana (AKA Mombian) and her wife Helen join us to discuss their road to motherhood via RIVF, why Dana created her Award Winning LGBTQ parenting blog, Mombian, and what it's like as empty nesters when the kid leaves home. If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month! Watch Video Episodes right now on YouTube! “I thought we’d never have kids or be married, but I was happy with her and that would have to be enough. But instead, I am so grateful to the straight people of our nation who went along with letting us marry and being more open. It’s been a wonderful change in our lifetimes. I’m just astounded really, in retrospect” Helen thequeerfamilypodcast.com / thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com IG/Twitter/FB/TikTok/YouTube: @thequeerfamilypodcast Order the #ITOCT book Amazon, IndieBound, Audible. Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: Tiffany Topol\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato

The Queer Family Podcast | S11 Ep 16 | Blu Nyle is an artist, author, healer, newlywed, and bonus mom in a new traditional family that was created by queer BFFs and former TQFP guests, Brandi J. Andrews and Lawrence Carol. Blu talks about learning how to "family,” approaching co-parenting from a place of healing and finding the many blessings that come from stepping in as a bonus mom.  Jaimie's amazing interns Nicole Jeter and Addie Griffin join Jaimie to introduce the interview and help Jaimie make some BIG ANNOUNCEMENTS that are coming up on the show.  If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month! Watch Video Episodes right now on YouTube! “As queer folks in America, we’re set up for a lot of challenges, and I have to be able to help my wife process, help my son process, help baby daddy process, and most importantly keep myself sane. So that mental health, that mental wealth, is so important.” Blu thequeerfamilypodcas

The Queer Family Podcast | S11 Ep 15 | Kathryn (Kit) shares how she and her wife Nicole created their family against all odds in South East Asia. Flights from Thailand to Cambodia, hotel stays, and keeping their queer identities incognito are all a part of their international baby-making journey.  Guest co-host, Chan, founder of Lesbian Moms Club, helps Jaimie introduce the episode. Chan tells us why she started the platform and announces something VERY exciting for queer families.  If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month! “We knew from the sperm bank that the clinic in Cambodia existed, but we didn’t know if they would treat a lesbian couple when we got there” Kit thequeerfamilypodcast.com / thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com IG/Twitter/FB/TikTok/YouTube: @thequeerfamilypodcast Order the #ITOCT book Amazon, IndieBound, Audible. Edited by Edit Audio. Theme song: Tiffany Topol\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato. Thanks to our Patreo

BONUS! I’ve got a BIG ANNOUNCEMENT that I’ve been dying to share AND I’m playing an episode from another podcast I think you’ll really like. It’s called Queer News and this episode is called Change The Pattern with host Anna DeShawn. Y’all are gonna love this podcast. Give it a listen! This is a special edition episode from the Queer News podcast. Now you may be asking why the South? The South comprises 38% of the U.S. population but it represents over half, yes over half at 52% of all new HIV diagnoses. Let me drop another stat on you. Out of the 17 states defined as being in the South by the U.S. Census; 13 of them have HIV-Specific Criminal Laws or Statutes on the books & 11 of them have actually prosecuted people for living with HIV. HIV Criminalization is still real. I’m sharing these stats because you need to know. I didn’t know and we must change the pattern. Join the QCrew & Support the Queer News podcast https://bit.ly/3L3Ng66

The Queer Family Podcast | S11 Ep 14 | Marea and Ray are queer parents, home-birth midwives, and friends, who wrote a book together about how to get pregnant if you're queer or single. They also both used known donors for their births. Guest co-host, Tom Coppola is back to help Jaimie introduce the episode and talk a little more about his experience as a known donor to three kiddos. If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month! “We are of the belief that the more people who love our child, the better.” Ray thequeerfamilypodcast.com / thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com IG/Twitter/FB/TikTok/YouTube: @thequeerfamilypodcast Order the #ITOCT book Amazon, IndieBound, Audible. Edited by Edit Audio. Theme song: Tiffany Topol\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato. Thanks to our Patreon supporters!  We want to hear from you! Email us at thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com Buy our merch here. Interested in advertising? Check out our packages here.

The Queer Family Podcast | S11 Ep 13 | Five years ago, Lauren tragically lost her wife and child in a car accident. Through her grief and healing, she reconnected with an old friend, AnneMarie. They worked through the loss side by side and ended up falling in love. Now they're married and have 2 beautiful children together. Guest co-host, Tiq Milan is back to help Jaimie introduce the episode and unpack some of the recent anti-trans rhetoric that has been spreading like wildfire throughout the country. If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month! “In one split second, I lost my family.” Lauren thequeerfamilypodcast.com / thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com IG/Twitter/FB/TikTok/YouTube: @thequeerfamilypodcast Order the #ITOCT book Amazon, IndieBound, Audible. Edited by Edit Audio. Theme song: Tiffany Topol\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato. Thanks to our Patreon supporters!  We want to hear from you! Email us at thequeerfamilypodcas

The Queer Family Podcast | S11 Ep 12 | Anonymous donor, RIVF, and donated embryos, oh my! After multiple attempts to make a baby, Carey and Angie decided to use donated embryos from a Facebook Group. Guest co-hosts, Amanda and Gab from S5 E29 join Jaimie to introduce the episode and update us on what’s been happening since they “fought the power” in their original episode. If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month! “The less control I start to realize that I have, the more open I can be to other possibilities.” Angie thequeerfamilypodcast.com / thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com IG/Twitter/FB/TikTok/YouTube: @thequeerfamilypodcast Order the #ITOCT book Amazon, IndieBound, Audible. Edited by Edit Audio. Theme song: Tiffany Topol\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato. Thanks to our Patreon supporters!  Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

The Queer Family Podcast | S11 Ep 11 | Jack is a trans person (he/they) and birth mother to a ten-year-old child who was adopted by a gay male couple in 2005. Their experience with the accidental pregnancy and subsequent adoption journey shifted their life forever. Jaimie’s wife Anne joins as guest co-host to help introduce the interview. If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month! “I just kept landing at the stability and resources that I wanted for my child. I just couldn’t do the math in a way where his life could be better if I raised him.” Jack thequeerfamilypodcast.com / thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com IG/Twitter/FB/TikTok/YouTube: @thequeerfamilypodcast Order the #ITOCT book Amazon, IndieBound, Audible.   Edited by DNR Studios. Theme song: Tiffany Topol\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato. Thanks to our Patreon supporters!  Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

The Queer Family Podcast | S11 Ep 10 | Sophia’s dad came out as a gay man when she was 16. She talks about what it was like going from a traditional family to a gay family and then losing the connection to the queer community after her father died tragically by suicide. Guest co-host Shephathia joins Jaimie to introduce the episode and share her experience of being connected to the queer community through her gay non-bio dad. If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month! “My dad, after coming out, got really good at coming down to the level of a teenager. He became more human to me.” Sophia thequeerfamilypodcast.com / thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com IG/Twitter/FB/TikTok/YouTube: @thequeerfamilypodcast Order the #ITOCT book Amazon, IndieBound, Audible. Edited by DNR Studios. Theme song: Tiffany Topol\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato. Thanks to our Patreon supporters!  Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & O

The Queer Family Podcast | S11 Ep 9 | What happens when you try every path imaginable to create a family, but it just doesn’t work out? Rebecca and Sallyann share their story and explain how the process of writing their book, Uncertain Fruit, helped them make meaning out of loss. Guest co-host Liam from S9, Ep 21 joins Jaimie to introduce the episode and give us an update on his life. If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month! “One grief touches all the grief in your life” -Rebecca thequeerfamilypodcast.com / thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com IG/Twitter/FB/TikTok/YouTube: @thequeerfamilypodcast Order the #ITOCT book Amazon, IndieBound, Audible. Edited by DNR Studios: Theme song: Tiffany Topol\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato. Thanks to our Patreon supporters!  Resources from this episode: Maia Midwifery, LGBTQ Reproductive Loss, Uncertain Fruit Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redc