Blackbeltbeauty Radio

This powerful clip is from episode 336In this raw + illuminating microsode, I sit down with Christine Hassler to explore the invisible threads between childhood wounds, creativity, + the way we show up in our adult lives.We talk about the moments when expression felt unsafe — when you learned to silence yourSELF to be accepted — and how that suppression becomes the breeding ground for suffering.We discuss what it means to meet your inner child again — not with blame, but with compassion. This episode is for anyone ready to stop repeating the same emotional cycles + start integrating the lessons they’ve already earned. Because healing isn’t about erasing your past — it’s about responding differently this time.KEY REVELATIONS:• Your suppression wasn’t protection — it was survival. But your expression? That’s your liberation.• The inner child isn’t a metaphor — it’s the map to your healing.• Familiar doesn’t mean safe. It just means known. Choose differently this time.• Integration is the practice of becoming wh

I say your emotions aren’t your enemy—they’re data. They’re messages from your body + your soul, guiding you toward your truth. This episode is your framework for learning how to feel it all without losing yourSELF in the process.Through my 5-step Emotional Agility Framework, we dive into the art of self-awareness, emotional discipline + integration—because emotional mastery isn’t about perfection, it’s about presence.Maybe you’ve been trying to stay “strong” by avoiding the mess. But what if the mess is your teacher? What if self-mastery begins where emotional honesty lives?If you’ve ever felt ruled by your emotions, consider this your invitation to transmute them into wisdom. Because when you master your inner world, the outer one starts to follow.Consider these love notes for your evolution:You can’t control life, but you can master your state. That’s real power.Emotions aren’t weakness—they’re wisdom. Learn to decode them before they own you.Self-awareness is your superpower. Without it, you’re just react

In this episode of The Roxanne Show, I sit down with the unapologetically raw Ellina Abovian — journalist, storyteller + woman in the wild process of BECOMING. Together we dive deep into the art of self-discovery, the courage to walk away from what no longer fits, + the beauty of rebuilding yourSELF from truth, not expectation.They say certainty is safety. I say uncertainty is where your SPIRIT starts breathing again.Ellina opens her heART about the moment she chose HERSELF — ending a 16-year marriage to step into the unknown + rewrite her story. We talk intuition, self-trust, + the bold act of standing in your authenticity even when the world doesn’t understand your evolution. This is a conversation for anyone standing at the edge of change — scared, curious, + ready.Take this with you:There’s no “right” path — only the one that feels most like YOU.Self-trust is built inch by inch, choice by choice, day by day.Your rebirth will ask you to let go of who you were to become who you’re meant to be.Vulnerability

In this Q&A episode, I flip the script on ambition, surrender + SELF-TRUST — showing you why letting go might be the most courageous move you’ll ever make.They say success is about pushing harder, but the truth is that vitality comes from releasing what no longer serves you + trusting your HEART to lead the way.This isn’t about settling. It’s about EVOLVING. It’s about building standards rooted in your VALUES, not in the “shoulds” society tries to sell you.So if you’ve been grinding yourself into exhaustion chasing someone else’s version of success, here’s your permission slip to stop. To trust. To surrender. To choose a life that feels FULL from the inside out.Maybe you needed to read this today:Letting go doesn’t mean giving up — it means clearing space for your DREAMS.Your values are your compass. When you honor them, your standards RISE.Self-trust is built one BRAVE decision at a time.Not everyone is your teammate. Align with those who amplify your SOUL.Your heart isn’t just emotional — it’s STRATEGIC

In this microsode, we’re breaking open the heARTwork of self-intimacy + the rebel truth about living in coherence with yourSELF.This isn’t about fluffy self-love quotes or another “be yourself” pep talk. This is about building a SAFE inner home—where you can be raw, real, + non-judgmental with yourSELF.Casey, a master at guiding people back to their core values, joins me to explore what it really means to live in alignment. We go deep into dismantling the inherited beliefs + unconscious scripts that quietly run the show in your life.We’re talking about the DEATH of false identities—the shedding of borrowed values—so you can finally organize your inner world around what’s truly yours. Because that’s where authenticity lives. That’s where peace lives. That’s where YOU live.KEY REVELATIONS:Misalignment isn’t random—it’s your soul waving the red flag.Most “shoulds” aren’t yours—they’re hand-me-down beliefs.Self-intimacy is the permission slip to meet every part of yourSELF.Coherence between your values + your act

If you’ve ever felt torn between being real and being marketable, this episode is going to hit home.In this raw + unfiltered conversation, I sit down with Kyle Creek — aka The Captain — to talk about the addictive nature of writing, the tension between art + commerce, and the challenge of staying true to yourself in a world that rewards clicks over authenticity.Kyle shares what it’s really like to walk away from a comfortable career in advertising to carve out a life as a full-time writer — one that’s both liberating + brutally exposing. We dive deep into the pitfalls of personal branding, the pressure to perform online, and why Kyle refuses to bend to AI-driven content trends.This episode is for every creator, writer, or human trying to reconcile their need for self-expression with the demands of a noisy, fast-moving digital world.⭐️YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe + leave 5⭐️Star rating +review HEREEnjoy! xRxFIND ME ON:️INSTAGRAMSUBSTACKYOUTUBEXTHREADSFIND KYLE CREEK ON:IGWEBFREE RESOURCES:

This is not another pep talk about “faking it ‘til you make it.” This is about the kind of courage that moves you across the country with no safety net. The kind of self-trust that makes you leave a perfect-on-paper career to follow your SOUL.In this raw + unapologetic conversation, I’m breaking down why courage does the heavy lifting that confidence gets glorified for—and why TRUST is the bridge to both. I share the moves that scared me most, the moments my intuition screamed louder than logic, and the decisions that rewrote my entire reality.If you’ve been waiting for the confidence to show up before you make your next bold move—this is your wake-up call: choose courage first.MAYBE YOU NEEDED TO HEAR THIS TODAY:Courage is the REAL catalyst—confidence is just the proof you made it through.Your highest timeline will never be built on betraying your HEART.Intuition isn’t reckless—it’s your soul’s GPS.Every bold choice reinforces your ability to trust yourSELF.Freedom requires risk. Playing safe is the fastest

In this high-octane episode, I sit down with former Navy SEAL Commander + author Rich Diviney to dive deep into the art of thriving in UNCERTAINTY. We break down what fear really is (hint: it’s uncertainty + anxiety), how to train yourSELF to face it, + why your potential lives outside the edges of your comfort zone.Rich shares neuroscience-backed tools like Moving Horizons + DPO thinking (Duration, Pathway, Outcome) to help you navigate chaos with calm + clarity — whether you’re leading a team, pivoting in your career, or simply trying to find your next move.We also go all in on the power of IDENTITY — because how can you know who the f*ck you are if you never test yourSELF? From courage to confidence to self-leadership, this conversation is a roadmap for building unshakable trust in yourSELF + embracing the beautiful unknown.HIGHLIGHTS FROM OUR CONVERSATION:Fear = uncertainty + anxiety. Reduce one, and you reclaim your power.Your potential only reveals itself when you step beyond comfort.True confidence isn

This powerful clip is from episode 325.They’ll tell you to wait for the right time... the perfect plan... the guaranteed outcome. I say—fuck the guarantees. The right time is the moment your SOUL says go.In this microsode, I’m pulling back the curtain on what it really takes to leap into the unknown + trust yourSELF enough to fly without a net.After one of our listeners asked me how I made one of the biggest decisions of my life, I took a trip down memory lane—to the moment I walked away from a thriving career in the makeup industry to follow my dharma into creating, writing + speaking.No map. No guarantees. Just the gut-deep knowing that my future SELF needed me to say yes.And then, a conversation with another community member opened the question: Does trusting yourself mean you always make the “right” decision? Spoiler—it doesn’t. True trust is about honoring yourSELF, learning through every outcome, + never abandoning your dreams in the face of uncertainty.MAYBE YOU NEED TO HEAR THIS TODAY:Uncertainty isn’

In this new episode, I sit down with renowned Relationship Coach, Stefanos Sifandos, to unravel the truth about Masculine & Feminine energies + what it really takes to create authentic relationships.If you’ve been craving a deeper connection—within yourSELF or with someone else—this conversation is for you.STAY CONNECTED WITH ROXANNE SAFFAIE ️INSTAGRAMSUBSTACKYOUTUBEXTHREADSSTAY CONNECTED WITH STEFANOS SIFANDOS️INSTAGRAM: @stefanossifandosBOOK WAITLIST: https://www.stefanossifandos.com/waitlistCOACHING: https://coachwithstef.comDECODE THE MASCULINE: https://go.joshuawenner.com/home--decoding-the-masculine-pageComment or DM "DECODE" to Stef’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stefanossifandosFREE RESOURCES Download your FREE Decisive Woman's Playbook to learn how to trust your intuition more + make sharper decisions you feel confident makingClick HERE to join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth, Self-directed living -- laced with FEM

In this episode, I’m inviting you to come home to your Original SELF- Your Spirit—the truest, most unedited version of you. I share what it means to be on your own team and why surrounding yourself with soul-aligned “teammates” can amplify your mission, your joy, and your whole experience of being alive.From Blondie to Bruce Lee, I call on iconic spirit guides to remind us that authenticity isn’t static—it’s a living, breathing force that will evolve you if you let it. This is my rally cry to live from desire, choose hunger over comfort, and build relationships that meet you on your soul’s frequency.If you’ve been living a life that looks shiny from the outside but feels flat on the inside, here’s your permission slip to start playing full out.Some Thought Seeds I Dive Into: Why your spirit is the “OG you” and how to reconnect with it.The power of being on your own team—and what that actually looks like day-to-day.How aligned relationships can expand your vision and accelerate your evolution.The danger of cha

In this conversation with Spiritual Psychologist, Best-Selling author, and Master Coach Christine Hassler, we dive into the raw, beautiful truth of what it really means to LOVE yourSELF—to heal the inner child, to face what hurts, and to grow into the next version of your authentic spirit.Self-love isn’t about liking every part of you. It’s about accepting them. It’s about boundaries. It’s about finally doing the thing your inner child has resisted for years.Christine and I open up what true integration looks like, why safety is the gateway to freedom, and how masculine + feminine energies must move together if you want to live fully alive.If you’ve been stuck in Self-criticism, childhood wounds, or the myth that purpose equals vocation, this episode is your permission slip to rewrite the story + come back HOME to love.Maybe you needed to hear this today:SELF-love isn’t about liking yourself—it’s about accepting yourSELF, even the parts you judge.Boundaries aren’t about controlling others—they’re about regula

In this microsode from EP. 324 I’m taking you into the arena with me—blood, sweat + SOUL—showing you how to get back up when life knocks you the f*ck down.KEY POINTS: Vulnerability isn’t weakness—it’s your access point to real strength.Your morning routine is your launchpad for energy, focus + getting sh*t DONE.Self-awareness is the sharp edge that cuts through negativity.Perimenopause, challenges, pressure—it’s all part of the training ground for your next level.The second you stop comparing yourSELF to others, your worth becomes unbreakable.CHAPTERS:0:00 Authenticity and Resilience in Overcoming Daily Challenges1:54 Embracing My Dharma as a Communication Wake Up Artist2:49 Embracing Vulnerability and Resilience Amidst Life's Challenges7:41 Harnessing Morning Brainwaves for Success10:04 Embracing Imperfection and Resilience Through Self-AwarenessWant to ask a question and have it answered in an episode? DM @roxylook on Instagram with it! Enjoy!xRxYOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe +5 leave us 5⭐️Sta

In this solo episode, I’m getting into what it really means to go all in—not just in one area, but in how you show up everywhere.I share the mindset that shaped me—from my early days as an athlete to what I’ve learned walking alongside my best friend, 3x Olympic Gold Medalist Kerri Walsh Jennings. These are the inner codes that build real confidence, Self-trust, and power that doesn't break.Inside, I get into:What full-spectrum commitment actually looks likeWhy clarity is the prerequisite to excellenceHow courage kicks the door open (and confidence walks through)The power of conviction—and how to sharpen itHow curiosity keeps you in the gameAnd why resilience rooted in compassion will always outlast egoIf you’re ready to stop negotiating with your greatness and start leading yourself like you mean it—this episode is your ignition.Want to ask a question and have it answered in an episode? DM @roxylook on Instagram with it! Enjoy!xRxYOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe +5 leave us 5⭐️Star rating + review HER

In this episode, I sit down with the AWESOME Justin Andrews from the top-rated health + fitness podcast, Mind Pump (one of my long-time favorite shows), to talk about what it really takes to live, work, + create from a place of unapologetic authenticity.Justin and I rip open the truth about the vital importance of integrity and the courage it takes to lean into challenges instead of running from them, + how Self-expression isn’t just art—it’s a requirement to thrive. From the behind-the-scenes dynamics at Mind Pump to the personal storms that shaped his philosophy, Justin shares why hardship is inevitable, but hiding from it will kill your spirit. We go deep into why real collaboration only works when everyone’s anchored in truth. Justin and I are MASSIVE music lovers, so we had fun getting into some music talks too :)I love this talk and everything Justin and the rest of the Mind Pump Crew are about!Highlights From This Conversation :Why leaning into discomfort is the REAL training ground for personal growth

Behind who? Behind what? Based on whose rules? In this clip from episode 299, I go deep into the illusion of time pressure—and how it’s robbing you of your real journey. Because the truth is: you’re not late, you’re right on time for your alignment.IF YOU ARE FEELING LOST OR BEHIND THIS IS FOR YOUCHAPTERS:0:00 Embracing Messy Moments for Wisdom and Growth3:21 Embracing Life's Uncertainty and Finding Personal Alignment7:07 Embracing Life's Journey and Trusting Everything Works Out9:14 Embracing Energy and Alignment for a Fulfilled LifeMissed the Full Episode? Check it out here: https://youtu.be/oW2iL_kTQRI-------------------------STAY CONNECTED WITH ROXANNE SAFFAIEwww.instagram.com/roxylook https://roxanneroxysaffaie.substack.com/www.x.com/roxylookwww.roxannesaffaie.com YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe +5 leave us 5⭐️Star rating + review HERE: https://lovethepodcast.com/theroxanneshow--------------------------------------FREE RESOURCES

In this new episode of The Roxanne Show, I share a recent experience with one of my beloved plants – a moment that unexpectedly turned into a lesson on resilience, love, and the invisible threads that hold us together.I take you into a deeper exploration of time – drawing on the Greek concepts of Chronos (linear time) and Kairos (sacred time) – to reflect on how we can create more meaningful moments in our lives by being present, not just productive.This episode is a meditation on what I frame as a delicious life—life that’s not just measured by milestones, but one soaked in joy, depth, and genuine connection.This episode is for you if you’ve ever:Felt disconnected from the deeper purpose behind your routinesWanted to live slower, fuller, and with more intentionalityStruggled to find joy in the success of others (no shame – just awareness)Needed a reminder that love – real love – is an energy that transforms everything it touchesWant to ask a question and have it answered in an episode? DM @roxylook on Instag

Real leadership isn’t about being perfect.It’s about being true to yourself and others.In this episode of The Roxanne Show, I answer your powerful questions about self-respect, emotional leadership, and the courage to show up authentically, even when it’s messy. I dive into the realities of maintaining high standards in relationships, the truth about being perceived as “strong,” and how to lead with compassion without losing yourself in the process.This episode is for you if you ever felt guilty for raising your standards or walking away, struggles with being seen as “the strong one”, wanted to lead without abandoning your softness, or wondered how to connect with a powerful, secure woman from a place of truth and integrity.

This powerful clip is from episode 298 with Dene Logan—therapist, truth-teller, + author of the incredible book, Sovereign Love.We flip the script on what we’ve been taught about love, power, + personal wholeness.We discuss the wounded Masculine paradigm, the reclamation of your Feminine intelligence, + the one radical truth sovereignty in love starts with.Love doesn’t come to complete you – it comes to mirror you.We’re not here to play out power dynamics. We’re here to heal them.Masculine + feminine are sacred energies – waiting to be remembered, balanced, and embodied.Self-trust isn’t optional. It’s the assignment.True connection begins with the courage to be fully seen – first, by yourSELF.HIGHLIGHTS OF OUR TALK: How love doesn’t come to complete you – it comes to mirror you.We’re not here to play out power dynamics. We’re here to heal them.Masculine + feminine are sacred energies – waiting to be remembered, balanced, and embodied.Self-trust isn’t optional. It’s the assignment.True connection begins with t

Manifestation isn’t about faking positivity. It’s about owning your frequency and trusting your power.It isn’t about bypassing hard emotions. It’s about becoming fluent in your energy. It’s about integrity – between what you say you want and what you’re actually resonating with, because your frequency doesn’t lie. And when you learn to own it... Everything changes.In this episode of The Roxanne Show, I talk about the real mechanics of manifestation.I debunk some myths and zone in on what manifesting was always meant to be: a practice of Self-leadership, a dance with energy, resonance, and belief, a return to trusting yourself.EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:Why “thinking positive” isn’t the key to manifesting (and what actually is)The truth about emotional frequency and personal responsibilityHow belief shapes reality – and what it means to see it when you believe itThe critical role of self-trust in magnetizing your desiresWhy manifesting gets to feel playful, intuitive, and powerful------------------------CHAPTERS:0:00