She Gets It...

Everyone's definition of the truth isn't the same.Women ask for things they think they should all the time it doesn't mean they want it. To ask for the truth and swallow it is "big woman" type shit. Strong, confident, sure of yourself type shit.Chan & PodsThis podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someone they can trust and express deep thoughts, who can provide you with mental tools at a click of the button, try this. If you are feeling overwhelmed and need someone to talk to professionally reach out to the therapist at BetterHelp https://betterhelp.com/shegetsitEnjoy Chan on the mic and supporting sponsors: TableTopics.com use code: CHANBEPODDINhttps://www.bonfire.com/store/the-chanbepoddin-spot/~~~Follow us for more information:IG & X: @chanbepoddin Visit chanbepoddin.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/she-gets-it-pod/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.

This one is a multi layered one:Why do women leave a man who cares for and supports them for cheating? Why get a new man or several men smash her without any commitment ? Why support all of them still being able to keep the other women they smashing?Different women care about different things in cheating.I wouldn't want to keep a man who cheats because Gemini women don't forget, they tuck thoughts. I might wake up one day decades later and choke you out because my rage kicked back in from that one day in 2001. So me not keeping you is me saving yo life. You are welcome, go be great giving out Costco sample wang.Chan & PodsThis podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someone they can trust and express deep thoughts, who can provide you with mental tools at a click of the button, try this. If you are feeling overwhelmed and need someone to talk to professionally reach out to the therapist at BetterHelp https://bett

This goes back to that saying " Happy Wife, Happy Life" thats lopsided or make sure you find a man that loves you more... Ummmm thats stank ass energy to me.#womenaintalwaysrightChan & PodsThis podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someone they can trust and express deep thoughts, who can provide you with mental tools at a click of the button, try this. If you are feeling overwhelmed and need someone to talk to professionally reach out to the therapist at BetterHelp https://betterhelp.com/shegetsitEnjoy Chan on the mic and supporting sponsors: TableTopics.com use code: CHANBEPODDINhttps://www.bonfire.com/store/the-chanbepoddin-spot/~~~Follow us for more information:IG & X: @chanbepoddin Visit chanbepoddin.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/she-gets-it-pod/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Some women cannot read the room and every mans threshold for ya BS isn't that strong. Some women saw women in their family annoy men for decades and those men still showed up and stayed in the relationships. These new men understand their worth, they have found out that they too deserve peace and happiness as they provide.Surprise Big Gotcha!!!!It’s season 24.Its Chan and SHE Gets It Pod~~~Chan & PodsThis podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someone they can trust and express deep thoughts, who can provide you with mental tools at a click of the button, try this. If you are feeling overwhelmed and need someone to talk to professionally reach out to the therapist at BetterHelp https://betterhelp.com/shegetsitEnjoy Chan on the mic and supporting sponsors: TableTopics.com use code: CHANBEPODDINhttps://www.bonfire.com/store/the-chanbepoddin-spot/~~~Follow us for more information:IG & X: @chanbepoddin Visit chanbep

This is clearly a personal opinion from a man, but I'm still going to answer it.In my opinion, Men with big wallets and a consistent money flow never clocking what a woman has or brings, other than love, peace and a good attitude.It’s season 24.Its Chan and SHE Gets It Pod~~~Chan & PodsThis podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someone they can trust and express deep thoughts, who can provide you with mental tools at a click of the button, try this. If you are feeling overwhelmed and need someone to talk to professionally reach out to the therapist at BetterHelp https://betterhelp.com/shegetsitEnjoy Chan on the mic and supporting sponsors: TableTopics.com use code: CHANBEPODDINhttps://www.bonfire.com/store/the-chanbepoddin-spot/~~~Follow us for more information:IG & X: @chanbepoddin Visit chanbepoddin.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/she-gets-it-pod/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: htt

Its not always us its the propaganda painted visually about all of us...I truly believe that this man versus woman conversation that keeps happening with different situations is rooted in self hate. If we don't truly begin to love ourselves as Black people, we're going to have these distracting discussions that bring no progress to where we need to be as a people. We need black women and black men to love each other, love themselves and show up in life 100% to create the next generation. And we cannot do that by putting down each other and expecting happy prosperous families. Just press play so I can explain what I'm talking about.~~~Chan & PodsThis podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someone they can trust and express deep thoughts, who can provide you with mental tools at a click of the button, try this. If you are feeling overwhelmed and need someone to talk to professionally reach out to the therapist

I promise yall, you ain't mad at women... its Men yall mad at.Its them society pressures !!!~~~Chan & PodsThis podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someone they can trust and express deep thoughts, who can provide you with mental tools at a click of the button, try this. If you are feeling overwhelmed and need someone to talk to professionally reach out to the therapist at BetterHelp https://betterhelp.com/shegetsitEnjoy Chan on the mic and supporting sponsors: TableTopics.com use code: CHANBEPODDINhttps://www.bonfire.com/store/the-chanbepoddin-spot/~~~Follow us for more information:IG & X: @chanbepoddin Visit chanbepoddin.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/she-gets-it-pod/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Some women are told straight up, if you have a man and he doesn't do x,y,z, he aint it.~~~Chan & PodsThis podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someone they can trust and express deep thoughts, who can provide you with mental tools at a click of the button, try this. If you are feeling overwhelmed and need someone to talk to professionally reach out to the therapist at BetterHelp https://betterhelp.com/shegetsitEnjoy Chan on the mic and supporting sponsors: TableTopics.com use code: CHANBEPODDINhttps://www.bonfire.com/store/the-chanbepoddin-spot/~~~Follow us for more information:IG & X: @chanbepoddin Visit chanbepoddin.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/she-gets-it-pod/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

See now, this is where women say " what did ya mama have to offer yo daddy other than..." But we not gonna do that. Let me list attributes of a good woman on this.~~~Chan & PodsThis podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someone they can trust and express deep thoughts, who can provide you with mental tools at a click of the button, try this. If you are feeling overwhelmed and need someone to talk to professionally reach out to the therapist at BetterHelp https://betterhelp.com/shegetsitEnjoy Chan on the mic and supporting sponsors: TableTopics.com use code: CHANBEPODDINhttps://www.bonfire.com/store/the-chanbepoddin-spot/~~~Follow us for more information:IG & X: @chanbepoddin Visit chanbepoddin.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/she-gets-it-pod/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Sustaining a relationship falls on two people. Who are willing to drop that pride and ego.Men and women struggle with this and if you need clarity and you don't have it, work on that asap.~~~Chan & PodsThis podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someone they can trust and express deep thoughts, who can provide you with mental tools at a click of the button, try this. If you are feeling overwhelmed and need someone to talk to professionally reach out to the therapist at BetterHelp https://betterhelp.com/shegetsitEnjoy Chan on the mic and supporting sponsors: TableTopics.com use code: CHANBEPODDINhttps://www.bonfire.com/store/the-chanbepoddin-spot/~~~Follow us for more information:IG & X: @chanbepoddin Visit chanbepoddin.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/she-gets-it-pod/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

This is the trickery: I believe women are trained from little girls to want everything good from a man. What the biggest and the best all the time. Weddings in my opinion are overly costly and audacious. Those who like big, elaborate parties and attention probably love them. Personally I never wanted one. I never looked at a wedding dress like " this is what I would want"... I don't even know my ring size. Lowkey me please. Lets spend that green on something else.~~~Chan & PodsThis podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someone they can trust and express deep thoughts, who can provide you with mental tools at a click of the button, try this. If you are feeling overwhelmed and need someone to talk to professionally reach out to the therapist at BetterHelp https://betterhelp.com/shegetsitEnjoy Chan on the mic and supporting sponsors: TableTopics.com use code: CHANBEPODDINhttps://www.bonfire.com/store/the-chanb

Women do not always think that they're right we just hope that you stop trying to correct us and just let us be. So the pushback that most men get is because you're setting a boundary. A lot of women are not used to men setting boundaries but letting them feel right when they're wrong. I'll tell you more. I just press play.Sorry, Ladies.~~~Chan & PodsThis podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someone they can trust and express deep thoughts, who can provide you with mental tools at a click of the button, try this. If you are feeling overwhelmed and need someone to talk to professionally reach out to the therapist at BetterHelp https://betterhelp.com/shegetsitEnjoy Chan on the mic and supporting sponsors: TableTopics.com use code: CHANBEPODDINhttps://www.bonfire.com/store/the-chanbepoddin-spot/~~~Follow us for more information:IG & X: @chanbepoddin Visit chanbepoddin.com Support this podcast at — htt

Its not a diss... Don't be offended, men just want to know if you can recognize a good man or one thats not good for you. Dad's are so essential for women and little girls.It’s season 24.Its Chan and SHE Gets It Pod~~~Chan & PodsThis podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someone they can trust and express deep thoughts, who can provide you with mental tools at a click of the button, try this. If you are feeling overwhelmed and need someone to talk to professionally reach out to the therapist at BetterHelp https://betterhelp.com/shegetsitEnjoy Chan on the mic and supporting sponsors: TableTopics.com use code: CHANBEPODDINhttps://www.bonfire.com/store/the-chanbepoddin-spot/~~~Follow us for more information:IG & X: @chanbepoddin Visit chanbepoddin.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/she-gets-it-pod/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https:

Mental abuse with anyone isn't good.Free yourself and let me be honest... too many get women get away with manipulating men in relationships for their own selfish reasons.Im talking about it.It’s season 24.Its Chan and SHE Gets It Pod~~~Chan & PodsThis podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someone they can trust and express deep thoughts, who can provide you with mental tools at a click of the button, try this. If you are feeling overwhelmed and need someone to talk to professionally reach out to the therapist at BetterHelp https://betterhelp.com/shegetsitEnjoy Chan on the mic and supporting sponsors: TableTopics.com use code: CHANBEPODDINhttps://www.bonfire.com/store/the-chanbepoddin-spot/~~~Follow us for more information:IG & X: @chanbepoddin Visit chanbepoddin.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/she-gets-it-pod/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy &

Do not beat me up. I'm just a messenger.I think society has become a leaning " agreed contributor" towards women on most things where it isn't fair. Now as a woman, I'm going to be in the middle of explaining answers to a lot of different men's questions. A lot of men want to have some understanding of why women do what they do, why do they think how they think, and why do they feel how they feel?Nobody is picking on women, nobody is in favor for everything that men think. But sometimes women make men feel like they can't ask certain things that they should be able to get understanding on. So I chose to create a whole season on questions men have that need answers from a woman's point of view. I don't expect everybody to agree with me, but as a woman, I'm going to answer a lot of questions from my perspective.I expect a lot of upset people by the season and I'm OK with that because you're free to think how you think. Likewise. I ready...Today is just the questio

The Men had questions and I gave answers.https://www.bonfire.com/store/the-chanbepoddin-spot/https://www.chanbepoddin.com/Starts Sept 1st- Jan 2026Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/she-gets-it-pod/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

All friendships aren't forever, if I end one I had a good reason. Those friendships you walk away from... don't look back.I can't be phony for you. I keep it direct.I won't ever be okay with anyone being disrespectful so you can stick around.For what?Emotionally not being aware, being messy and not caring what connects you ruin because your in ya feelings, is a "you" issue. Your emotions dictate your moods... thats bad biz.Work on that.Enjoyed that time. Move on.~~~Chan & PodsThis podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someone they can trust and express deep thoughts, who can provide you with mental tools at a click of the button, try this. If you are feeling overwhelmed and need someone to talk to professionally reach out to the therapist at BetterHelp https://betterhelp.com/shegetsitEnjoy Chan on the mic and supporting sponsors: TableTopics.com use code: CHANBEPODDINBetter Help: https://betterh

Rest doesn't always mean sleep.Today would have been my dads 102 b dayRest could be, no social media, no calls, no emails, no leaving the house and no driving. Go in your back yard, put your feet in grass without shoes.We are always on the go and rest is always needed in order for us to be our best selves.Now I'm not saying you cannot sleep or nap... do what ya body needs.In today’s wild world, where endless tasks seem to never stop, many overlook the value of quality rest. Quality rest goes far beyond just sleeping well at night or taking brief pauses during the day. That I talked about:Declutter Your SpaceIs The Place where you rest for comfort ?There Are Different Types of RestPhysical RestMental / Emotional RestSensory RestMake Restful RoutinesEstablish a Prepare for Good RestPower NapsJust Be ConsistentQuality Rest Matters To YouChan & PodsThis podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someone they can trust a

This is why I say there is no happy ending.Press play~~~Chan & PodsThis podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someone they can trust and express deep thoughts, who can provide you with mental tools at a click of the button, try this. If you are feeling overwhelmed and need someone to talk to professionally reach out to the therapist at BetterHelp https://betterhelp.com/shegetsitEnjoy Chan on the mic and supporting sponsors: TableTopics.com use code: CHANBEPODDINBetter Help: https://betterhelp.com/shegetsit~~~Follow us for more information:IG & X: @chanbepoddin Visit chanbepoddin.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/she-gets-it/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

You don't have to be the most religious person in the world either.Prayers are powerful expressions of our hopes, desires, and dreams. They connect us to a higher power and serve as a gateway to divine guidance. A lot of us find ourselves receiving answers to our prayers but still choosing to ignore them. Understanding Your PrayersWhy Do We Avoid Those Answers to what we asked for?Fear of ChangeDoubt and Second GuessingStop Overthinking the ProcessCultivate AwarenessJournal Your JourneySeek Community SupportTake Action and Still PrayAffirm Your BeliefEmbracing Your JourneyChan & PodsThis podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someone they can trust and express deep thoughts, who can provide you with mental tools at a click of the button, try this. If you are feeling overwhelmed and need someone to talk to professionally reach out to the therapist at BetterHelp https://betterhelp.com/shegetsit.Enjoy Chan on the mic a