Black Millennial Marriage Podcast

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts If you’ve never listened to an episode or are trying to catch up. Stop whatever you are doing and listen to this one! How come? It’s the Black Millennial Marriage podcast’s 100TH EPISODE!! Mikey and Randie did it! They reached a monumental number in their show, and they want to share all the feels with you. That’s why in this episode, the couple play listener voicemails, read listener emails, and play snippets from their personal favorite episodes. Later, they discuss what the podcast has taught them, and then Randie brings a fight or flight–but plot twist! The Chapmans switch places and act like the other as they duel it out. Still, as usual, it’s all love when they show each other some special PDA. Randie and Mikey will be back on July 22nd, but that’s not sad news! While they’re on break, they hope you take some time to catch up and re-listen to your favorite episodes. And if you’re interested in an additional show to check out, NATAL is

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Racist white people want Black people to go back to Africa, and Black people want to go back to Africa, and Randie weighs in with her thoughts. In this episode she details things that were challenging and great about living in Cape Coast Ghana, when she studied abroad. Later, she shares tips of what to do if you travel to an African country, and finally Randie shares two book recommendations. One book by Janet Mock, in honor of Pride month and the other, if you’re into fairy tales and need to get away from the craziness of the world. Are you excited to add this millennial to your list of favorite women? Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step. Items Mentioned: Join Our Patreon Family http://bit.ly/JOINBMM Redefining Realness, Janet Mock https://amzn.to/37n5pta The Fairy Godmother, Mercedes Lackey https://amzn.to/30zAxUX Never Before Podcast, with Janet Mock https://apple.co/30F7MpZ Sponso

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Writer and activist Audre Lorde said it best, caring for oneself is a form of political warfare. That’s why, in this episode Mikey and Randie are taking a break from the heartache and instead reflecting on the joys of Blackness. Why? Because while the revolution is in progress and the pandemic is still real, they needed a reminder that Black people do more than die. Black people are masters of joy and happiness. They are compassionate, strong, and magical, so together the Chapmans reveal their favorite thing about being black and detail their favorite memories as children and adults. From college week in elementary school to attending a Bayard Rustin breakfast, the couple take a trip down memory lane for some much needed smiles. Later, Randie and Mikey discuss a time they had to choose joy and peace over fear of being harmed while Black, and then they talk about what they hope to teach Drew. Before the episode ends, the Mr. brings a fight o

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts PWHEW. Talk about a time for tough and revolutionary conversations! They are happening everywhere, including on BMM’s podcast. To begin, in this episode, Randie and Mikey sit down with Andrea and Jason–the couple that brought everyone the Cheat Code podcast and the story of an affair between one woman and one man. Together they all discuss the Chapman’s criticism of their show and reveal their first encounters with infidelity. Later, the four hosts engage in a question and answer segment with each other and the results are as moving as they are hilarious. What started off as fuckery may just end up as reconciliation, and that’s the point right? Finally, Randie and Mikey show each other some PDA and as always, they hope you enjoy. Are you excited to add these millennials to your list of relationship favorites? Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step. Items Mentioned: Join Our Patreon Family

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Mikey and Randie are in therapy . . . together! And in this episode, they discuss their experience with counseling and their latest homework assignment. Randie must consider what a fearless life looks like and show proof that Mikey supports her, and Mikey must reflect on their relationship history and reveal what he finds most valuable. The results are interesting and transformative, and they can’t wait for you to hear all about it. Never did they expect to engage in virtual therapy but it’s working and they want to spread the good word about their experience. Later, Randie brings a fight or flight that confronts Mikey about making unnecessary jokes. But, in the end it’s all love when they show each other some PDA. Now, more than ever, access to quality mental health services is important. That’s why the Chapmans offer you 20% off of your membership with BetterHelp therapy in hopes that you take a chance on individual or couple’s counseling.

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Oh the irony! This episode was supposed to be the first one of season 2, but Mikey and Randie changed their plans. Now, the couple share this episode because of another plot twist and a surprise that’s not quite ready yet–but it’s all good. Recorded back in February, when they were on break, Randie and Mikey talk about some of the things they have to radically accept. From the come up not being as linear as they hoped, to understanding that they have to live with their choices and more, the Chapmans get deep, vulnerable, and silly per usual. Later, Mikey brings a fight or flight that ends up making him look cray cray, but it’s all love when the couple show each other some PDA. While this episode is an oldie for them, they hope you find some gems and that you enjoy. Are you excited to add these millennials to your list of relationship favorites? Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step. Items M

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Mikey is back with his fourth Indie Episode of Season 2! This time Mikey discusses Fathers Day. He shares gift ideas for any kind of father out there, shouts out a basketball player you might have heard of, answers some questions, and leaves the audience with a little something extra at the end. You may have fallen short with your Fathers Day gifts in the past, but Mikey hopes his ramblings in this episode actually help you to put a smile on someone’s face. Are you excited to add this millennial to your list of relationship favorites? Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step. Items Mentioned: Join Our Patreon Family http://bit.ly/JOINBMM Follow us on Social Media Mikey’s IG: https://www.instagram.com/mikey_xxi/ Contact Email: blackmilmar@gmail.com Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098 Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts After listening to the “Rethinking Infidelity . . . a talk for anyone who has ever loved,” TED Talk, Mikey and Randie decide it may be time to start a second marriage. So, in this episode, the couple discuss what a second marriage means to them and why they think they should start anew. Next, they share pros, cons, and fears about starting this new venture, and lastly they share how they plan to manifest a second marriage. Later, Randie brings a fight or flight and confronts Mikey about a promise he broke. But, in the end it’s all love–as always–when they show each other some PDA. Are you excited to add these millennials to your list of relationship favorites? Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step. Items Mentioned: Join Our Patreon Family http://bit.ly/JOINBMM Check out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenae https://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/ Rethinking Infidelity . . . a talk f

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Mikey is back with his third Indie Episode of Season 2! This time Mikey discusses his goals for taking better care of his health. He shares his challenges, solutions, and plans, shouts out a boxer and rapper you might know, answers some questions, and leaves the audience with a little something extra at the end. It took a little liquid courage for him to share details of his body-image issues, but Mikey hopes you can take a load off and enjoy his ramblings this episode. Are you excited to add this millennial to your list of relationship favorites? Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step. Items Mentioned: Join Our Patreon Family http://bit.ly/JOINBMM Follow us on Social Media Mikey’s IG: https://www.instagram.com/mikey_xxi/ Contact Email: blackmilmar@gmail.com Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098 Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.c

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts In this episode, Mikey and Randie review the first five episodes of, “The Cheat Code,” a podcast about an affair told over ten episodes. Together, the Chapmans detail their initial reactions that ranged from–“Wtf?” to “Huh?”. Next, the couple discuss what had them in their feelings. Randie reveals the show triggered the kid in her and that she was surprised to hear cheaters cry about getting cheated on. Mikey, on the other hand was most surprised by how nonchalant and narcissistic the duo was during the time frame of the affair. There’s more. Lots more. Later, the Chapmans share lessons the show has taught them so far and detail who they think should listen. Spoiler alert– it’s everyone. Absolutely everyone should listen to “The Cheat Code”. Finally, to end the episode Mikey brings a fight or flight that questions Randie’s marital support. But, in the end the PDA saves the day. The Chapmans were instructed to give their realest reactions, an

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Come! Take a load off with Randie. In this Indie episode, featuring just herself, the more hydrated half of the Black Millennial Marriage podcast realizes she does not have the mental and emotional bandwidth to go as deep as she usually does. Quarantine be like that sometimes! Instead, Randie reflects on the little graces she’s discovered, utilized, and turned to as a source of comfort in these trying times. From binging her favorite horror podcast–Scream Queen–, to yoga, yogi tea, a podcast about murder, and the blessings that are chill Youtubers, Randie shares info that she hopes you find valuable. Later, she reads a poem she wrote years ago that feels especially relevant and necessary now. And as always, she hopes you enjoy. Are you excited to add this millennial to your list of favorite women? Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step. Items Mentioned: Join Our Patreon Family http://bit.

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts The Chapmans have been married for FOUR years, and in this episode they reflect on only the good parts. Together the couple share what they’re grateful for and detail their favorite moments of year four. Later, Mikey shares that he’s learned Randie is still deep and capable of great change and transformation, while Randie reveals she’s discovered that perhaps her husband is plagued by patriarchy too. Finally, there are two fights. The first is about Randie’s “man-hating bag,” and the other about Mikey’s inability to realize who he has married. But, in the end it’s all love when they show each other some PDA. It hasn’t been the average four years, so tune in and hear all about it. Are you excited to add these millennials to your list of relationship favorites? Do you want them to continue to stay together forever ever? Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step. Items Mentioned: Join Our Patre

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Mikey is back with his second Indie Episode of Season 2! This time Mikey discusses his goals and plans for after this quarantine ends. He shares his plans as a husband, as a father, and an individual, shouts out his all-time favorite basketball player, answers some questions, and leaves the audience with a little something extra at the end. Recorded in the late weeks of when the Coronavirus stopped the world in its tracks, Mikey hopes you can take a load off and enjoy his ramblings this episode. Are you excited to add this millennial to your list of relationship favorites? Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step. Items Mentioned: Join Our Patreon Family http://bit.ly/JOINBMM Follow us on Social Media Mikey’s IG: https://www.instagram.com/mikey_xxi/ Contact Email: blackmilmar@gmail.com Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098 Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Op

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts **RE-UPLOADED** In this episode the Chapmans share how the season 2 launch of the podcast triggered bigger concerns. Together Mikey and Randie discuss how not seeing one another on the social media feed gave truth to a bigger problem. That problem? They have not prioritized, invested time, or attempted to memorialize their relationship, on or offline, in a while. In the past year, they only wanted to survive, and the two discuss how that mentality impacted the small things that have snowballed into big things. Now, they seek to adjust, recover, and repair. Later, Mikey brings a fight or flight that questions how Randie parents, but in the end it’s all love when they show each other some PDA. Are you excited to add these millennials to your list of relationship favorites? Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step. P.S. Is that a jingle you hear? Items Mentioned: Join Our Patreon Family ht

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Randie was not going to share this episode with the public, but her intentions for herself called for real life bravery. For her first Indie back, the shorter half of the Black Millennial Marriage podcast talks about needing Mikey. But, doesn’t everyone? Yes. No? Randie details how she has shrunk her needs as a wife for fear of conflict, and then she discusses why this cannot continue. Feeling a bit ashamed, embarrassed, exposed, and silly, Randie’s uncomfortable. But, a little discomfort never killed anyone. Right? Later the Mrs. reveals one thing she has tried and will never do again, and finally she answers an age-old question: are boneless wings really wings? Are you excited to add this millennial to your list of favorite women? Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step. Items Mentioned: Join Our Patreon Family http://bit.ly/JOINBMM Get 20% off of BetterHelp Therapy https://www.betterhel

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts What a time to be alive, right? In this episode Mikey and Randie discuss the ways the Coronavirus pandemic has already changed their life. From realizing that they’re blessed to having to accept that they should have deleted some people from their social media a long time ago, the Chapmans also share what this time in isolation is teaching them about themselves and each other. The couple lastly reveal how sad social distancing is because this means they have to stay away from key family members–like Mikey’s mom. Later, Randie brings a fight to Mikey they’ve already had, but hey–when you’re on lockdown together sometimes you have to recycle old arguments. In the end, though, it’s all love when they show each other PDA. It’s a tough, weird, awkward, hard, unprecedented time right now, and together Mikey and Randie thank all the health care workers who are on the front lines working to help those who are sick. They urge everyone to stay the f**k

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Mikey is back with his first Indie Episode of Season 2! For his first episode back Mikey details a timeline of his love life and how it ultimately lead to the person he is and how seriously he takes his duties as a father and husband. He shares how his late mentor shaped his emotional maturity, shouts out some men and women he appreciates, and leaves the audience with a little something extra at the end. Recorded in the early weeks of when the Coronavirus stopped the world in its tracks, Mikey hopes you can take a load off and enjoy his ramblings this episode. Are you excited to add this millennial to your list of relationship favorites? Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step. Items Mentioned: Join Our Patreon Family http://bit.ly/JOINBMM Get 20% off of BetterHelp Therapy https://www.betterhelp.com/BMM Follow us on Social Media Mikey’s IG: https://www.instagram.com/mikey_xxi/ Contact

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts The Chapmans are BACK for Season 2! The theme? Plot twists. For their first episode back Mikey and Randie talk about sex. But wait! There’s no tears, no disgruntlement, or deep conversations, only laughs and a little shade. Together, they ask each other questions ranging from, “What’s your most embarrassing moment in bed,” “Has my rank changed?”, “What do you wish we did more of?” and that’s just the beginning. Later, Mikey brings a fight or flight questioning Randie’s hate of his favorite show, “How I Met Your Mother.” It gets heated, but as always it’s all love when the Chapmans end the episode with public displays of affection. Recorded right before the Coronavirus stopped the world in its tracks, the couple hopes you can take a load off and smile it out with this episode. Are you excited to add these millennials to your list of relationship favorites? Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first ste

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Would you rather your kid get suspended for kissing or losing a fight? In this Patreon archived episode, the Chapmans answer this question and more. The results are as silly as you’d expect. Tune in to this throwback and let them know what you think. And remember, season 2 of BMM airs April 5th, but until then the couple will share archived mini episodes about their life as parents, you haven’t heard before. Can’t stand to wait for new full length episodes? No worries. For episodes in advance OR access to extra and exclusive content. Head on over to www.patreon.com/blackmillennialmarriage Items Mentioned: Join Our Patreon Family http://bit.ly/JOINBMM   Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts When Randie was pregnant, the Chapmans didn’t celebrate too much. Fear and worry took over and they were slow to show real excitement about Drew until…the baby shower. So for this Patreon archive, the couple take it all the way back to the day their family and friends got together to acknowledge new life. The party had everything from books, to games, to drama, and whistles and you gotta tune in to hear all about it. In other news, Season 2 of the Black Millennial Marriage podcast airs April 5th, but until then Mikey and Randie will share archived mini episodes about their life as parents, you haven’t heard before. Don’t want to wait until April to hear new full-length episodes? Head on over to patreon.com.   Items Mentioned: Join Our Patreon Family http://bit.ly/JOINBMM   Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy