Stop Losing Women Podcast

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about why you should stop watching porn! Specifically, we go over: The effect porn can have on your expectations from the opposite sex The effect porn can have on your stamina in the bedroom The effect porn can have on being able to relate to women in the real world The effect having “fun time” with yourself consistently can have on your ability to bond with women   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we answer a letter from a listener who took a girl on a date, followed the stuff he learned from the podcast, and got the girl to ask HIM for another date! Specifically, we go over: Why not talking “future speak” forces her to bring up the idea of more dates What to do when the girl is showing interest in seeing you again – how soon do you see her? Do you set up something right away or do you make her wait, and if so for how long? How to respond when a girl texts you after a date – is it even okay to respond in the first place?   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, I answer a guy’s message about over-texting a girl and calling her to ask her out! In addition, I issue a challenge to ALL guys out there who are constantly texting women (and occasionally argue with me about my “Texting KILLS relationships” mantra). The challenge? To see if you can go ONE week without texting a girl, and see what results you get? Think you can handle the challenge? If so, write to me and let me know (a) that you’re participating, and (b) what your results are in 7 days! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about why there’s no need to fear that a girl you’ve met and made a good impression on will forget you! Specifically, we go over: How having the fear of her forgetting you causes you to make CRITICAL mistakes in your dating game Why a woman can not forget about you if you’ve made a GREAT first impression The only reasons a woman would forget about having talked to you in the first place …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about why it’s bad to believe having sex with a woman will automatically make her want to get in a relationship with you! Specifically, we go over: The frustration most guys show on dating message boards when they have sex with a girl and she STILL wants to leave them Why sex is a horrible foundation to build a relationship on The advantages of delaying sex   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about why it’s actually a BAD idea to avoid feelings of hurt when a girl leaves you! Specifically, we go over: How jumping into a new situation immediately after a break up can make the new relationship work out The main reason guys try to act like they’re not hurt when a girl leaves them The advantages of giving yourself a specific time limit to grieve or be upset about a break up, and how it can benefit you for future relationships   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about why you should stop defending yourself when a woman makes silly accusations against you! Specifically, we go over: How defending yourself can actually dig you into a deeper hole How NOT defending yourself can cause her to take a second look at you… in a positive way 5 accusations girls may throw at you, and how to “not” defend them   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we read some letters and messages from loyal podcast listeners! Specifically, we: Read a comment from a loyal listener of the podcast who went against what he learned and did a big “no-no” on a date with a girl Read an email from a listener who’s used advice from the podcast to get closer to a girl he thought he didn’t have a chance with Answer a listener’s question about what possessed me to take a girl to see “Passion of the Christ” on a first date   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about why you need to stop hating on “Bad Boys” if you want to get anywhere with women! Specifically, we go over: The reasons women fall for “Bad Boys” – and it’s not the reasons you think What Bad Boys do right that turn girls on – and how YOU can add them to your dating routine 7 POSITIVE characteristics Bad Boys have that Nice Guys don’t   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about why you should do all you can to avoid asking her only safe questions on dates! Specifically, we go over: The impression you give when you ask her the same questions every other guy has asked her on dates Why you shouldn’t be afraid to rock the boat when coming up with questions to ask her Resources and/or games you can suggest to her that will give you a safe avenue to ask her “dangerous” questions   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, I answer a bunch of survey questions about myself left by someone on a dating forum! Specifically, I talk about: The best/worst advice I ever received about dating How I handle myself during times when I have no women to date My “shining moment,” or the moment I knew I had this dating thing down to a science   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about why you shouldn’t be offended when a woman wants to talk to you about a decision you’re trying to make! Specifically, we go over: An important lesson I learned from one of my previous exes about why talking with women about decisions is important – even if you think you’ve already made your mind up Why it’s not such a bad idea to get an outsider’s opinion about what you’re planning to do 5 reasons women want to talk to you about your decision – and it has nothing to do with them trying to change your mind   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk how necessary it is to NOT show attraction in the ways that women do! Specifically, we go over: The myth that tapping into your feminine side will help women respond to you better (it won’t) Why it’s important, even in the 21st century, to allow both sexes to display the traits nature has given to them when trying to attract the other sex 7 things you should NOT be doing to attract her, i.e. actions that should be reserved for HER to show YOU, not the other way around   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about why need to know when to stop pushing a girl to talk about or do things she’s not wanting to do! Specifically, we go over: The myth that talking to her about previous pain in her life will make her bond with you faster The myth that forcing her to face one of her fears or do something she’s not comfortable with will increase her interest Topics you should never force a girl to talk about when going on those first dates   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about why should not be bringing up the idea of future activities when on a date with a girl! Specifically, we go over: How you’re hurting your chances of having future dates with women by bringing up the idea of future dates Why it’s actually better for her to NOT know if you want to see her again 5 reasons you should never do future speak ever again (including why it’s okay for HER to do it to you)   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about why should not let past bad experiences scare you away from getting into a relationship! Specifically, we go over: The reason guys tend to act like they only want one thing from a girl The REAL reason you may be afraid to open yourself up to a relationship Tips on how you can get past being afraid to get in a relationship   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about why you should stop trying to change a girl! Specifically, we go over: Why trying to be “helpful” to a girl by making her change things about herself can cause her to resent you Why it’s important to notice how she is from the beginning and determine what things you can and cannot deal with 5 reasons she will eventually leave you despite you trying to help her better herself   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about why you should stop reassuring women that you like them! Specifically, we go over: The reason women will react negatively to you reminding them over and over again how much you like them Why it’s actually a GOOD thing for women to not be 100% sure about your feelings for them How to let women know you like them without talking about it so much   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about why you need not bring up relationship conversations that cause her to doubt getting into a relationship with you! Specifically, we go over: How a girl that’s building up interest in you can LOSE interest by bringing up YOUR doubts about the relationship How self-doubt can creep in even when the girl is showing POSITIVE signals, and how to combat it Why you should never make her tell you how she feels about you, especially if she’s not your girlfriend yet   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk why you shouldn’t give girlfriend privileges to girls who are just your friend! Specifically, we go over: Why guys try to do relationship-type things for girls they aren’t dating or they’re just friends with 5 reasons your efforts to do girlfriend-like things for your girl “friend” aren’t working 5 ways to break the bad habit of over-extending yourself to girls you aren’t dating   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !