Stop Losing Women Podcast

Greetings! Today's podcast is the final "Stop Losing Women" podcast... sort of. In this episode, I talk about the future of me giving guys dating advice, why I'm making the change, and how this changes the way the Stop Losing Women podcast gets made. I've been doing this show for 5 years now, and I feel as though it's time to really zero in on the kind of guys I want to help in order to better get my message across and help the most amount of guys possible. To that end, I'm taking a break from doing this podcast so I can work on developing a new one. I'm still available to give answers to any questions you have, and can be reached at harry@stoplosingwomen.com.

FREE Training Reveals: the 5 Dating App Mistakes to Avoid to Attract Hot Women:  So, in episode 433 I talked about how men need to stop making excuses about their dating life sucking due to various reasons. One of the listeners of that show heard what I said and it struck a chord with him. He reached out to me to tell me about his dating difficulties and why he's lost all hope about being happy in his life. And so, in this episode I respond to his message, and in the process try to give insight and hope to all the guys out there who, like this guy, have felt like the dating game is hopeless. It CAN get better, but it means having to do some very important work, which I point out in this episode. Got a question for Harry? Write to me at  

FREE Training Reveals: the 5 Dating App Mistakes to Avoid to Attract Hot Women:  On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about why you need to stop blaming various things for their bad dating life, whether it be the city they live in, different methods of dating, women, etc.! Got a question for Harry? Write to me at  

FREE Training Reveals: the 5 Dating App Mistakes to Avoid to Attract Hot Women:  On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we answer a question from a guy who went on a few dates with a woman (4 in the same week) and had a few hookups with her... but now he's getting excuses from her when he tries to ask her on a date and wants to know why! Got a question for Harry? Write to me at  

FREE Training Reveals: the 5 Dating App Mistakes to Avoid to Attract Hot Women: On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we answer a question from a guy who wants to know if his reaction to a rejected date request from a woman he met on a dating app was the right way to handle it. We also touch briefly on why it is a woman would go from matching with a guy to suddenly not wanting to interact with or meet him in person. Got a question for Harry? Write to me at  

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we answer a question from a guy who was recently dumped by his girlfriend. After meeting her parents one weekend, she broke up with him the very next day, the excuse being she wanted someone with a similar passion for the religion she practice. Is this a valid excuse, or is there more reasons behind her decision to leave? Like the advice here and want to send a monetary “thank you?” Go here:  See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Check out some of my helpful e-Books:  Got a question for Harry you’d like answered on the show? Write to me at If your questions is featured, you will receive a free gift from me!

Get FREE 1-on-1 date coaching - go to the website for more details! On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we discuss why it's better for a man to send the first message to a woman he matches with when doing digital dating. Specifically, we go into all the various reasons why having the woman start the conversation can actually be a roadblock to upping her interest level. We talk about the kinds of openers they often use, why they suck, and what to do to turn your fortunes around should this ever happen to you! Like the advice here and want to send a monetary “thank you?” Go here:  See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Check out some of my helpful e-Books:  Got a question for Harry you’d like answered on the show? Write to me at If your questions is featured, you will receive a free gift from me!

Get FREE date coaching - go to the website for more info! On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, I read a message from a guy who goes into detail about a situation he had with a long-time girl "friend" where he finally made a move on her and felt relieved... even though she turned him down. From there, we go into a conversation that highlights the difference between what a woman being emotionally open to a man signals for men vs. what it actually MEANS for women, and how this creates confusion for us when trying to get a read on women's desires for us.  Like the advice here and want to send a monetary "thank you?" Go here: See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Check out some of my helpful e-Books:  Got a question for Harry you’d like answered on the show? Write to me at If your questions is featured, you will receive a free gift from me!

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, I answer a question from another guy who wants to know how to get his ex-girlfriend back. I give out my standard advice on this subject; in addition to that, I also discuss the anatomy of a person's decision to break up with someone - when they start thinking about it, how long the decision usually takes, the things they consider before doing it - and how it makes that person less likely to want to re-connect with you in the future! See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show – donate to my Patreon page:  Check out some of my helpful e-Books:  Got a question for Harry you’d like answered on the show? Write to me at If your questions is featured, you will receive a free gift from me!

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about the pros and cons of being in control of your sexual urges! Is it possible to be able to go on a date with a girl, have a good time... and turn DOWN her request for sex? What are the consequences that can arise, and what is the best way to handle this situation? See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show – donate to my Patreon page:  Check out some of my helpful e-Books:  Got a question for Harry you’d like answered on the show? Write to me at If your questions is featured, you will receive a free gift from me!

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we discuss a 6th type of first message you can send to women online that will get a positive response! See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show – donate to my Patreon page:  Check out some of my helpful e-Books:  Got a question for Harry you’d like answered on the show? Write to me at If your questions is featured, you will receive a free gift from me!

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we answer a question from a guy who wants to know how he should answer women on dates when they ask why he's still single and never been married! See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show – donate to my Patreon page:  Check out some of my helpful e-Books:  Got a question for Harry you’d like answered on the show? Write to me at If your questions is featured, you will receive a free gift from me!

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we answer a question from a guy who wants to know how to bond with a woman on a first date when the two of them don't seem to have anything in common! See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show – donate to my Patreon page:  Check out some of my helpful e-Books:  Got a question for Harry you’d like answered on the show? Write to me at If your questions is featured, you will receive a free gift from me!

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we answer a question from a guy who wants to know if he should dump a woman he's been dating for 2 months because she got mad at him for suggesting she pay a portion of the tab during a weekend date. See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show – donate to my Patreon page:  Check out some of my helpful e-Books:  Got a question for Harry you’d like answered on the show? Write to me at If your questions is featured, you will receive a free gift from me!

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about how long you should wait after a break up to start dating again. Is there really a set amount of time? If not, how can you know when it's good for you to wait verses jump right into something new? We discuss these issues, as well as what you should be doing during your time of singleness to make sure you're prepared for the next woman that comes your way! See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show – donate to my Patreon page:  Check out some of my helpful e-Books:  Got a question for Harry you’d like answered on the show? Write to me at If your questions is featured, you will receive a free gift from me!

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, I tell you all the story of how (and why) I recently broke off my engagement to my now ex-fiancé. I decided to tell this story because I think it's important for you all to understand that, sometimes, relationship success can mean different things, including the realization that the relationship you're in may not be one that's designed to last long term for a variety of factors. I also wanted to use it to give encouragement to you guys out there who are in situations with women that aren't the most desirable for you, and give insights into what needs to be considered before you decide to make permanent plans with any one. See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show – donate to my Patreon page:  Check out some of my helpful e-Books:  Got a question for Harry you’d like answered on the show? Write to me at If your questions is featured, you will receive a free gift from me!

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we answer a question from a guy who wants to know the difference between being persistent in going after a woman vs. harassing her.  To answer this question, I reached out to film maker and author Jasmine Andrews. She has written a book, "Sullied Bride," which delves deep into how historical portrayals and treatment of women, from the Bible to the present, affect men's interactions with women to this day. On this show, Jasmine and I discuss: What it feels like for women when a guy they don't want to get with keeps trying to hit on them A key trait that defines the difference between persistence and harassment The effect of a man's ego on his viewpoint of what actions he finds acceptable when pursuing How the story of Adam & Eve has had a lasting negative effect on women's treatment in society What men can do to be better allies with women And much, much more! See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about how you can improved your PERCEIVED value to women. Often, when a man meets a woman, he does everything he can to try and explain to a woman why he's a GREAT catch, right? The problem, though, is that you can't really try to convince a woman verbally that she should fall for you.  In order for women to like you, they have to feel like you have the kind of high value she's looking for in a guy... even if that value, in your head, isn't actually there. It's all about knowing how to present yourself in a way that she perceives you to have a certain kind of value that's important to her. How do you do that? We talk about that in the podcast today! See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show – donate to my Patreon page:  Check out some of my helpful e-Books:  Got a question for Harry you’d like answered on the show? Write to me at If your questions is featured, you will receive a free gift f

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we answer a question from a guy who wants to know at what point during his interaction with a new girl should he ask her for her phone number! He also inquires about how he can prevent himself from putting a certain race of women on a pedestal, which results in him being too nervous to ask them out! See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show – donate to my Patreon page:  Check out some of my helpful e-Books:  Got a question for Harry you’d like answered on the show? Write to me at If your questions is featured, you will receive a free gift from me!

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about why it is men have such a hard time getting back into the dating game after being heartbroken so many times. We also talk about 6 key things I did in order to bypass any past heartbreak I had, so that I could leave myself open to finding Mrs. Right in the future. Use these 6 tips to prevent yourself from avoiding potential love! See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show – donate to my Patreon page:  Check out some of my helpful e-Books:  Got a question for Harry you’d like answered on the show? Write to me at