Stop Losing Women Podcast

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about how certain habits you may have could actually be a mask for the undealt with loneliness of being single. Sometimes when we are in pain... instead of dealing with that pain, uncovering the underlying root of it or doing something to fix it, we turn to habits that are meant to make us feel good in the moment, even if we know they won't ultimately fix the problem.  When we feel as though no women will ever love us, it can feel like the worse kind of pain. As a result, there are 3 habits that men, in particular, often turn to as a way of getting rid of that feeling - and yet, these habits can actually increase or prolong this painful feeling. Learn what these habits are AND how to avoid them and deal with your true issues in today's podcast! See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show – donate to my Patreon page:  Check out some of my helpful e-Books:  Got a question for Harry you’d like a

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we answer a question from a guy who wants to know if he handled a situation in the right way by giving a woman an ultimatum about "wasting his time." Specifically, he had been on a date with this woman twice and was disappointed with how quickly she was texting him back one night (every 15 to 20 min). When he asked if he could call her instead, she didn't respond until the next morning - at which point, he sent her the text about how she needed to be more respectful of his time. Did he handle this the right way? Should he have been more patient? And when is it ok to give women ultimatums like this? See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show – donate to my Patreon page:  Check out some of my helpful e-Books:  Got a question for Harry you’d like answered on the show? Write to me at 

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we answer a question from a guy who met a woman online dating, and his having a hard time determining her interest level! Why? Because despite having gone on 4 dates together, having an amazing hook-up session and her always saying "yes" to dates, she (a) hasn't been texting or calling him, and (b) still has her online dating profile up. What does this say about her interest level? Should she be calling him, or is he supposed to be the only one reaching out? And how do you get a girl to take down her online profile - and, more importantly, WHEN should she do it? See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show – donate to my Patreon page:  Check out some of my helpful e-Books:  Got a question for Harry you’d like answered on the show? Write to me at 

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we answer the question: Does constant access age your relationship faster? I recently watched Chris Rock's new Netflix comedy special, "Tambourine." In it, he does a bit talking about how, because of cell phones and other recent technologies, the constant access we have to each other can result in relationships (a) feeling a lot longer than back in his parents' days, and (b) deteriorating faster. Is this true? Is the ability to communicate with someone all the time hindering how long we hold affection for each other? And if so, what can be done to prevent this from happening in YOUR relationship? See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show - donate to my Patreon page:   Check out some of my helpful e-Books: Got a question for Harry you'd like answered on the show? Write to me at

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we answer a question men have been asking for dozens of years: how long does a man need to last in bed to satisfy a woman, and how can he make it last longer? See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show – donate to my Patreon page:  Check out some of my helpful e-Books:  Got a question for Harry you’d like answered on the show? Write to me at 

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we answer a question from a guy who met an older lady online that insists he call her up for a date instead of asking for one via text messaging! Is this an example of a woman trying to see who truly would hold the power in this relationship? Is it better to call a woman for a date vs. texting her? Is this an issue he should stand up for himself in, or is it no big deal? And, are there other indicators here of the kind of person this woman is and how she would be to date? See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show – donate to my Patreon page:  Check out some of my helpful e-Books:  Got a question for Harry you’d like answered on the show? Write to me at 

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we're starting a new series called "Interview with a Married Man!" In this series, I interview men who have been in a committed long term relationship for some time (like 5 years or more) to get their insights on various relationship topics, including: - How they met their now wife - What their dating process was like - How they knew their wife was the one they wanted to commit to long-term - Conflict resolution tactics they use to handle disagreements - How they continue to spend quality time with each other when kids and other life events come into play - And much, much more! See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show - donate to my Patreon page:   Check out some of my helpful e-Books: Got a question for Harry you'd like answered on the show? Write to me at

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, I talk about a conversation I had recently with an atheist friend of mine with a girlfriend who's baptist. She told him recently that they wouldn't ever get married because he doesn't believe in God, and asked me if this was an issue that could ever be overcome. Indeed, this is a subject I'm sure many other couples face as it pertains to religion, God, and the pondering of just how serious a factor it would play in a long-term relationship. I discuss these points, and give a straight answer to the question: "Can people of two different religious belief systems make it work?" See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show - donate to my Patreon page:   Check out some of my helpful e-Books: Got a question for Harry you'd like answered on the show? Write to me at

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we interview Marni the Wing Girl!  Marni has been the right-hand woman a guy needs out in the dating field when it comes to approaching women in any situation. Her website,  has great articles and videos with blunt, honest advice for men on how to attract, date, seduce and get the girl every time! In this eye-opening interview, we talk about: - Why women aren't always aware of what they REALLY find attractive  - How to feel more comfortable when approaching women - Simple ways to create conversations that increase attraction - The #1 issue men face when dating, and how to conquer it - Subtle signs women use to indicate a desire for your attention, and how to be more aware of what they are - A secret about women and dating you may not have known before - And much more! --- Check out some of my helpful e-Books: Got a question for Harry you'd like answered on the show? Write to me at See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation wit

See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show - donate to my Patreon page:   Download this podcast @ Check out some of my helpful e-Books: Got a question for Harry you'd like answered on the show? Write to me at On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we answer a question from a man who wants to win back his ex-girlfriend. His ex-wife was constantly coming in between them (either by his doing or by hers) so she's having a hard time forgiving him; meanwhile, he's been texting her and telling her his feelings, but she's been avoiding seeing him in person. This is one of the longer shows, in part because I asked him for a lot of details to give him a more thorough answer. Take a listen, and learn how to avoid making some of the mistakes guys commonly make when dealing with exes and new love.

See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show - donate to my Patreon page:   Download this podcast @ Check out some of my helpful e-Books: Got a question for Harry you'd like answered on the show? Write to me at On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we answer the question "does honesty REALLY attract women?" What you'll be hearing today is a complete chapter from my best-selling eBook for men, "No Girls 4 U: The Ultimate Guide to LOSING the Girl of Your Dreams!"

See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show - donate to my Patreon page:   Download this podcast @ Check out some of my helpful e-Books: Got a question for Harry you'd like answered on the show? Write to me at On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we read an excerpt from my eBook "The Friend Zone Escape Plan," which can help YOU figure out a strategy for dating that female friend you've always secretly wanted to date!

See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show - donate to my Patreon page:   Download this podcast @ Check out some of my helpful e-Books: Got a question for Harry you'd like answered on the show? Write to me at On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we read an excerpt from my eBook "Texting Like a Boss! 21 Text Messaging Commandments for Attracting Women with Your Phone!" You'll learn the answer to the question: can you build rapport with a woman simply by using text messaging?

See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show - donate to my Patreon page:   Download this podcast @ Check out some of my helpful e-Books: Got a question for Harry you'd like answered on the show? Write to me at On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we read an excerpt from my eBook "10 Steps to Winning Back Your Ex" about how to respond to an ex when she sends you a text message if you want to win her back!

See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show - donate to my Patreon page:   Download this podcast @ Check out some of my helpful e-Books: Got a question for Harry you'd like answered on the show? Write to me at On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we answer a question from a college guy who's been trying to plan multiple dates with a girl that keeps canceling last minute. After not talking to him for a month, she reached out to him via text, only to continue being distant after he responded back. He wants to know why it is she would show interest yet constantly flake on him - and I have the answer!

See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show - donate to my Patreon page:   Download this podcast @ Check out some of my helpful e-Books: Got a question for Harry you'd like answered on the show? Write to me at It's the 400th episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast!  On today's show, I give insights about dating that I got while talking to a KID today at an amusement park. As he rambled on about his new girlfriend, I couldn't help but realize just how important it is to have a child-like look at relationships from time to time (in a mature way, of course) I also answer the question I'm sure many men have: how long does a man need to study about relationships before he finally gets good at dating? The answer may SHOCK you...

Check out Kyle Ingham's awesome website,   See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show - donate to my Patreon page:   Download this podcast @ Check out some of my helpful e-Books: Got a question for Harry you'd like answered on the show? Write to me at On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we interview Kyle Ingham, creator of the website The Distilled Man! Kyle gives us some great insights into the importance of small talk and how to use it effectively to create attraction from women!

See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show - donate to my Patreon page:   Download this podcast @ Check out some of my helpful e-Books: Got a question for Harry you'd like answered on the show? Write to me at On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about whether or not it's necessary to see a woman all the time in order to build and/or keep her interest, using my own parents' love story as an example.

See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show - donate to my Patreon page:   Download this podcast @ Check out some of my helpful e-Books: Got a question for Harry you'd like answered on the show? Write to me at On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we interview Marcus Awakuni, founder of AGL Lifestyles.com and a member of the Real Social Dynamics team, which helps men become more comfortable in their interactions with women. We talk about some of his earlier dating struggles, his dealings with social anxiety, and what men need to do in order to become their best selves so they can be more attractive to women!

See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show - donate to my Patreon page:   Download this podcast @ Check out some of my helpful e-Books: Got a question for Harry you'd like answered on the show? Write to me at   Soooo I didn't really want to talk about the sexual harassment situation with Aziz Ansari... but it's a dating show, and the situation happened with him and a girl he was on a date with sooo... we're talkin' about it! I didn't want to have the usual back-and-forth banter of who did what or who was in the wrong and should have done what. Instead, I wanted to take this incident as an opportunity to talk to you guys about why it's so important to be aware of what your date's sexual agenda is. I feel as though, because as men we have testosterone and are prone to want to have sex with a woman before appetizers are served, we often forget that, while sex may be our main agenda, it's not always that way for the woman. This can result in unread sig