Stop Losing Women Podcast

See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show - donate to my Patreon page:   Download this podcast @ Check out some of my helpful e-Books: Got a question for Harry you'd like answered on the show? Write to me at On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, I answer 5 quick questions with some quick answers!

See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show - donate to my Patreon page:   Download this podcast @ Check out some of my helpful e-Books: Got a question for Harry you'd like answered on the show? Write to me at On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about how the people around you can influence your feelings about your own relationship - in positive AND negative ways. Specifically, we touch on how it is that the negative thoughts about relationships from those closest to you (friends, family, etc.) can have you looking for problems in your own relationship that may not actually be there. We also talk about just how important it is to surround yourself with people who are in positive relationships, and how both negative and positive thoughts can drastically shape your dating reality and the results you get as a result!

See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show - donate to my Patreon page:   Download this podcast @ Check out some of my helpful e-Books: Got a question for Harry you'd like answered on the show? Write to me at On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about how to change your dating life drastically by focusing on ONE thing at a time. Why? Oftentimes, when we want to improve our dating lives, we look at the 5 to 10 things about ourselves we need to change. You may be scared or think it will take too much work, so you either (a) don't try to change anything, or (b) try to change too much at one time and end up getting mediocre results. In this show, we demonstrate how making an effort to change ONE thing - the thing that will give us the most progress - is a more effective method to getting the dating life you want!

See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show - donate to my Patreon page:   Download this podcast @ Check out some of my helpful e-Books: Got a question for Harry you'd like answered on the show? Write to me at On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about the risks involved in love, and how to better prepare for opening yourself up so you have a greater chance of success and a lesser chance of heart break!

See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show - donate to my Patreon page:   Download this podcast @ Check out some of my helpful e-Books: Got a question for Harry you'd like answered on the show? Write to me at On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about how it is a woman that's interested in you can be turned off when you move too fast! I recently heard a segment on Ryan Seacrest's morning show called "The Second Date Update" where a guy was wondering why a woman he went out with 2 days in a row was suddenly not answering his texts as much. They called the woman up, and her answer is one I've told many, many guys before: he was doing too much too soon. But what exactly is it about doing this that makes women get turned off? We delve into it and more!

See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show - donate to my Patreon page:   Download this podcast @ Check out some of my helpful e-Books: Got a question for Harry you'd like answered on the show? Write to me at On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we answer a question from a man who wants to know if all married men face the same problem: declining sex lives! He recently talked to a couple of married guys who were facing sex issues with their spouse. One of them had agreed with their wife to a weekend intimate session, only for her to back out after their date; the other man had wanted sex the night before but his wife rejected it.  Based on these two incidents, he concluded that it may be better to stay single, where the chance of having sex whenever you want is higher - in his opinion. We talk about the reasons as to why a declining sex life may occur (outside of aging or lacking of interest). We also talk about the myth of single se

See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show - donate to my Patreon page:   Download this podcast @ Check out some of my helpful e-Books: Got a question for Harry you'd like answered on the show? Write to me at On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we answer a message from a guy who's seeing two women, and he wants to know which one he should date. Specifically, he's gone on "a couple of dates" which each one, and wants to know at what point he needs to make a decision about seeing either one of them exclusively. We talk about what it means to be in the "dating phase," and how long one should realistically date before having to make any final calls!

See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show - donate to my Patreon page:   Download this podcast @ Check out some of my helpful e-Books: Got a question for Harry you'd like answered on the show? Write to me at On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about how long it takes to develop a skill like dating so that you look like a "natural." In Michael Gladwell's book "Orbiters" he states that, on average, it takes about 10,000 hours to become proficient in just about any skill. We talk about how this relates to become a good dater, and how this can be helpful - and harmful - when creating your dating life.

See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show - donate to my Patreon page:   Download this podcast @ Check out some of my helpful e-Books: Got a question for Harry you'd like answered on the show? Write to me at On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we answer a question from a guy who went on a date with a girl and - despite both him and her being a bit under the weather - went in for a kiss at the end of the date. Later on, he got a message from her saying he should have asked to kiss her first! Is this true? Should he have asked? Are the special circumstances where a guy would be better asking permission for a kiss?

See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show - donate to my Patreon page:   Download this podcast @ Check out some of my helpful e-Books: Got a question for Harry you'd like answered on the show? Write to me at On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we answer a questions from a guy who's older, divorced, and has two kids. He's just getting himself back on the dating scene via online dating, but he's worried women won't want to date him due to the baggage of a failed marriage and having children. We dive deep into what this guy should mention on his profile (and leave out altogether) and the truth about women and how they feel about dating a guy who's been married before and has kids to take care of!

See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show - donate to my Patreon page:   Download this podcast @ Check out some of my helpful e-Books: Got a question for Harry you'd like answered on the show? Write to me at On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we answer a question from a guy who is in a wheelchair, and wants to know how he can attract women and date them without his cerebral palsy handicap getting in the way. Being physically disabled can be a challenge to one's dating life - but just how much of a challenge is it? How judgmental are women about dating someone in a wheelchair? Are there other things he may be doing with his actions that are more of a deterrent than his physical handicap? We answer these questions and more!

See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show - donate to my Patreon page:   Download this podcast @ Check out some of my helpful e-Books: Got a question for Harry you'd like answered on the show? Write to me at On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we answer a question from a guy that many other men have asked as well: why would anyone want to get into a long-term relationship? What are the benefits? How is it better than being single and leaving yourself open to a wide option of women vs. just one woman for the rest of your life? We actually talk about 6 benefits being in a long-term relationship has, some of which you may have never considered before!

See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show - donate to my Patreon page:   Download this podcast @ Check out some of my helpful e-Books: Got a question for Harry you'd like answered on the show? Write to me at On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we answer a question from a guy who wants to know how he can set up hook-ups with women without having to make them think he wants a relationship! Just because you're not at a point in your life where you want a commitment from a woman doesn't mean you won't have physical needs you'd like met. The question, though, is if THEY can ever also be on the same page. We delve into if all women want relationships, what they expect from you during the dating phase, and whether or not it's fair or unfair to go about having sex with them should they be seeking out a relationship!

See if you qualify for a FREE one-on-one dating plan phone consultation with Harry:  Support the show - donate to my Patreon page:   Download this podcast @ Check out some of my helpful e-Books: Subscribe to my YouTube Channel:   Got a question for Harry you'd like answered on the show? Write to me at On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we answer a question from a guy who is really down in the dumps about his dating life. Despite having all the things most guys would want to have as a way of attracting women (i.e. good looks, cars, social status, etc.) he can't muster up the confidence to approach women. His self-doubt is causing him to overthink things when he sees someone he likes, and he needs help on figuring out how to change his dating mindset. We give him some tips on how he can narrow his short-term focus to get long-term results!    

I want to help YOU plan your new dating strategy in a one-on-one FREE phone call - sign up at On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we answer a question from a guy who is worried that he's lost a woman's interest because he didn't respond to her Snapchat message right away. Is she really mad at him? What should her response tell him about her? And, what can he do to make sure this doesn't happen again in the future? Got a question for Harry? Write to me at  

 Sign up for a FREE one-on-one phone consultation with me, where we map out a working strategy for your dating life! On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we answer a question from a guy who went on a first date with a woman who initially agreed to go back to his place... only to change her mind after the date! She sent him a text saying she wasn't comfortable going back with him, and he wants to know if this means she's no longer interested and - more importantly - why she would change her mind in the first place! Got a question for Harry? Write to me at Subscribe to my videocast at

 Sign up for a FREE one-on-one phone consultation with me, where we map out a working strategy for your dating life! On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we answer a question from a guy who's live-in girlfriend/soon-to-be-baby's-mom has been following and liking her ex's pictures on Instagram and Facebook! He wants to know why she is doing this, and what he should do to stop it.  During this show, we also talk about some of the various bad decisions this guy has made in terms of choosing a mate - specifically: What red flags he ignored that he should have paid attention to Why it's a BAD decision to live with someone before marrying them Why it's an even WORSE decision to get a woman pregnant before commitment Her level of interest based on her current actions Got a question for Harry? Write to me at Subscribe to my videocast at  

Sign up for a FREE one-on-one coaching call with Harry Wilmington: On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we answer a question from a guy who had a non-relationship with a woman who wanted to be his girlfriend. Once her feelings went away he started liking her, but has found it difficult to get her on a date. She recently told him they should no longer speak to each other, and he was shocked! Why did she do this? Is she trying to make him jealous? And what can he do to win her back (if anything)? Got a question for Harry? Write to me at  

Need help creating a dating plan that will boost your self-confidence and have women chasing after YOU? Sign up for a FREE one-on-one phone coaching call - for more info go to  today! On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we answer a question from a guy who wants to know why a woman won't have sex with him, despite having already gone on three whole dates! It can mess with your head when a girl you really like - and want to show you like by way of having sex with her - rejects your offer to get physical, right? What does it mean? Why might she be doing this? Is she one of those girls that has "rules" she makes her dates follow before having sex with them? The answer to these questions may shock you... Got a question for Harry? Write to me at  

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about why we continuously make bad dating decisions, and what you can do to remedy the situation! If you're currently single, in a bad relationship, are shy, or just can't seem to attract women, guess what? It's all because of the way in which you go about making decisions you deem correct - even if they are the wrong ones. This normally happens because how one gets to success vs. how one is taught to think about success can be drastically different. Oftentimes, the things we've learned we SHOULD do to get the things we want aren't actually the most effective way to go about doing it. Why/how does this happen? We delve into that today, and show you the first important step you MUST do if you want to correct course and start making the RIGHT decisions to better you dating life! Got a question for Harry? Write to me at Also, would you like me to help you create an effective dating plan for your life? Check out  and sign up for a FREE one-on-one coach