Stop Losing Women Podcast

It's Mother's Day! And on today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about the influence your Mom - i.e. the first woman you're in contact with during your formative years - has on your dating choices subconsciously! Got a question for Harry? Write to me at

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast... we talk about the finality of time, and how wasting time on women who don't like you, or dating women you like but not treating them right, is a bad idea in the long run. Dedicated to the memory of my uncle, who passed away last night, and whose marriage was a definite example of how a woman's love for her man should be. Got a question for Harry? Write me at .

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we discuss what lessons can be learned from watching Beyonce' air her and husband Jay-Z's dirty laundry in public form. We discuss why people do this, what other people actually think about you and your mate when you do this, and why it should be avoided at all cost! Got a question for Harry? Write to me at

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about a big mistake guys make when starting to date a woman - i.e. assuming her positive actions on previous dates are indicative of how they'll respond to him in the future! We tackle the reasons behind WHY a girl that shows you positive signals on a few dates may not yet be ready to claim you as the "boyfriend" - and what to do when they start giving you signs of low interest! Got a question for Harry? Write to me at  

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we're talking about sex! Specifically, we discuss this phenomenon of women who are willing to have sex with you after a few dates, yet aren't ready to commit. Why do they feel this way? What is the truth about women getting physical vs. wanting a relationship? And how can you prevent yourself from feeling the need to rush into a relationship with a woman you just hooked up with? We discuss this and more! Got a question for Harry? Write me at

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we're talking about a recent audio snippet of actress Olivia Wilde gushing over her fiance Jason Sudeikis and how he won her over! Upon hearing her talk about the methods he used, it became clear to me that what he was doing were some pretty advanced PUA (pick up artist) moves! We take a listen to the audio snippet and break down 3 key things Jason did that you can implement into your own dating game! Got a question for Harry? Write to me at

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we have an interview with Myke Macapinlac, founder of TheSocialManProject.com and a former member of the Pick Up Artist community! Myke is here to graciously share some of his insights with us about how to become the kind of man women would want to date. He also goes into depth about what is means to be an "Alpha" male, why he decided to re-define the terms, and the 4 specific traits all men should have in order to transform his own life into one that women find attractive! Got a question for Harry? Write to me at Want more information from Myke? Visit his website at  

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about women who flake, and the guys that fall for their excuses! This program has had a few discussions about the low amount of interest a woman has in a guy she's flaking on, yet men will still buy into the excuses he's being given. So, on today's show, I give examples from my own dating life of women I dated who were busy, had a lot on their plate... yet still managed to find the time to date me AND show up for these dates on time (and never, ever cancel last minute for any reason)! Got a question for Harry? Write me at

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we analyze a situation where a guy started dating a woman who was highly interested, but ended up losing interest in him after 2.5 dates. What did he do wrong? Where did her interest start to turn? What should he have done to keep her from ignoring his calls?? Got a question for Harry? Write me at harry@stoplosingwomen.com!

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we discuss ways to avoid becoming the guy a girl treats "like" a boyfriend in between relationships, i.e. the "Placeholder Boyfriend," and what to do to have a shot at dating her instead! We also go over the brand new FREE special report available exclusively at the website - the top 5 resources any man can use to turn his dating life around! Got a question? Write me at

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we discuss 5 areas of conversation you want to avoid if you want to keep the peace in your relationship! Oh sure, she may SAAAAAY "you can tell me anything..." BUT, if you bring up any of these 5 subjects, you are bound to have her mad at your... or WORSE. Got a question for Harry? Write to me at  

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about how to plan the perfect Valentine's Day for your sweetheart! Got a question? Write me at

Wanna win back your ex? After years of guys requesting info from me on how to do this, I have finally released an e-Book - "10 Steps to Win Back Your Ex" - that gives you every single strategy you'll need to get her back in your life for good! And so, on today's show, we're giving you a few tips to help start you on the right path towards ex reconciliation, including: A key secret to winning her back that most guys aren't able to do (but YOU should) 3 Rookie mistakes all guys make after she breaks up with them The emotional triggers you need to hit so she'll do a mind re-set about her feelings for you Ready to check out the e-Book? Go to and get your copy today!

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about a brand new e-Book from me that's coming out on February 1st called "7 Steps to Winning Back Your Ex!" It's my new step-by-step guide to re-connecting with an ex, regardless of if she broke up with you or your broke up with her! We then talk about a situation many guys face, where a woman that once showed interest starts doing things like communicating less or flaking on dates. When these things happen, should a man call her out on it? Why is she doing these things in the first place? Are they tests? Does she really like you anymore? Or, is there something else going on, and how can you combat it? Got a question for Harry? Write today!

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about the concept of "time," time management, and how to use your time more wisely when it comes to your dating life. Specifically, we discuss a few things: How bad dating habits and mistakes prolongs your chances at being able to get the women you truly want - and how to fix them A few examples of people who didn't value who they were or have a focus about the kind of people they wanted to date - and the tragedies that occurred as a result The 3 Things you need to need to know about yourself to date most effectively Why you need to date with purpose and intent, and examples of how to do it Got a question for me? Write to harry@stoplosingwomen.com!

Happy New Year! It's 2016, and there are lots of exciting changes coming to the Stop Losing Women website and podcast! We discuss a few of those things in this podcast, including: - The new show schedule - What's being created as we come into the new year - When I'll be holding webinars - And much more! As for today's show, I read a message from a guy who has been helped significantly by listening to my various eBooks and podcasts! I also read a message from a guy who's girlfriend of 6.5. months broke up with him by saying she just didn't love him. He wants to know if he should give her a few months of no contact to increase her interest and hit her up again, and I give him the straight up, no-filtered advice you've come to love hearing from me! By the way, if you've got a question for me, you can write to me at Be sure to register for this week's upcoming webinar at

It's episode 300!! Woo-hoo!! In today's episode, we talk about the future of this show, and how you can show your support by way of my newly set up Patreon page! We also answer a message from a guy who recently went on a first date, and had the girl ask him to kiss her at the end of it! Why did she do this? What does this mean? Should he be worried? Support this show - go to and make a contribution (and a FREE gift as well)! Got a question? Write me at

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we answer a wide variety of questions from various guys going through different situations. In the first question, a guy learned his girlfriend kissed her ex, and he wants to know if he should forgive her and take her back, or be broken up with her for good. In the second question, a guy sets up a 3rd date with a woman, yet she cancels 24 hours before the date due to a cold. The guy is now wondering (a) if it was an excuse, or (b) if it was genuine, and (c) if she should stop trying to see her altogether. In the third question, a guy has a situation with his girlfriend where she wants him to come see her everyday (even after spending all day at school and an hour on the train to get home). He's having a hard time figuring out how to be able to let her know that he sometimes wants to stay home instead of coming to visit her, but is afraid he'll hurt her feelings. Got a question you'd like to ask me? Write me at harry@stoplosingwomen.com!

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about Charlie Sheen's recent announcement about his HIV status. As sad as it is to hear, it wasn't all that surprising given his lifestyle choices. And yet, there are men who are wanting to follow a similar lifestyle, one that is promoted time and time again by various Pick-up Artists and dating gurus, and aren't being mindful of the TRUE health hazards that can arise from it. So, we go over that in today's podcast! GET THE GIRLFRIEND ROADMAP program, available at until Sunday, November 22 at 11:59 PM PST! Got a question? Write to me at

In part 12 of our 12 part series "The Girlfriend Roadmap Prep," we talk about why women actually WILL date a man that "plays games." What does she mean when she says she won't? Why do they fall for these type of game-playing guys again and again? The answer isn't as obvious as you think it is... more importantly, though, we show YOU what it is about these guys that she's ACTUALLY falling for, and how you can play the right kind of "games" to score a date with her! THE GIRLFRIEND ROADMAP program is now available, but only until Sunday, November 22 at 11:59 PM PST! Go to to see what the program has to offer! Got a question? Write to me at