Brojo Online Podcast

There appears to be a war going on around the world, and fought through social media. On one side we have Political Correctness - the campaign for equality and the end of prejudice. On the other we have Free Speech - the campaign for individuals rights of expression and opinion. And, for some inexplicable reason, these two factions are fighting each other. Let's try figure out what's going on here...

In this personal episode, I explore the key differences between how I live now versus how I used to live. I look at the practical changes I've made that give me daily confidence, and why those changes have helped.. This episode is for anyone looking to make confidence a way of life rather than a brief feeling of accomplishment.

Paul Ames knows more about creating a powerful, meaningful and satisfying career than just about anyone.. In this interview Paul generously shares his secrets on designing an awesome career, plus his top practical tips for moving up the career ladder.

If you find that trying to be honest doesn't always go well for you, and you think maybe full honesty is NOT the best policy, have a listen to this. There's a very good chance that you being truthful is not the problem, but perhaps your delivery of the truth is not as good as it could be. In this podcast, we discuss the 3 principles of powerful honesty: Bold, Vulnerable and Playful, and how these will make your truth easier to swallow and accept.

Struggling against reality is the only cause of suffering. You want more purpose, wealth, health, popularity, love and power. You WISH for it. You compare your current life to one that has all these things and come to believe your current life is 'not good enough'. You even believe that YOU are not good enough, incomplete and failing at life. If you can change this perspective, to realise that here and now is the only thing that's real and controllable, your suffering can come to an end.

Nice Guy Syndrome affects millions of men around the world. But not every Nice Guy is the same, and knowing how you're different to other Nice Guys will help focus you on your pathway to rediscovering authentic masculinity and confidence. This podcast is for all Nice Guys, and their partners, to help you figure out the best next step for you, personally. Skip ahead to your type here: The Performer (extroverted approval seeker) - 4:30 The Controller (extroverted manipulator) - 13:57 The Observer (shy wallflower) - 29:17 The Critic (overthinking self-defeater) - 39:20

John Cooper, former Pick Up Artist (PUA) dating coach turned "Social Heartistry" teacher and philosopher shares his experience in the PUA industry and other related perspectives on dating, and reveals some of the darker secrets about what goes on behind the scenes. Together we explore what it means to bring healthy masculinity into a connection with a woman, and how the PUA industry conditions men into a never-ending death-spiral of seeking validation from women. If putting on a manipulative performance to make women like you isn't quite bringing you the satisfaction and meaning you'd hoped for, you need to hear this one.

Life Coach and creator of "The Grass Gets Greener" podcast Melissa Wilson shares her vulnerable and inspirational story about how she survived horrific bullying to become self-confident and in control of her life. If you've ever struggled with bullies, social anxiety or trauma, listen to what Melissa has to say.

Imagine if you had the power to control how much suffering you experienced in life, and how much control you had over what happened to you? Wouldn't that be awesome?! Well good news: You DO control your suffering. Only, you're not doing it as well as you could be, and you're probably not even aware of how you do it. Let's look at it, shall we?

We often beat ourselves for getting "too emotional" and we blame our emotions for bad decisions and poor behaviour. This leads us to try to become "more rational". Yet, without emotions, we are not human. So why do we fight them? And is it truly irrational to be emotional? Or, perhaps, there's a way to make valuable decisions and live a great life being both rational and emotional at the same time.

Are you someone who has a history of being bullied? Have you ever stopped and wondered "Why me?!" In this podcast, we explore the social and psychological dynamics of bullying, and I share the dark truth about being a bullying victim, developed from years of working with psychopaths and narcissists. Bullying may be in your past and even present, but it does not need to be in your future... as long as you're willing to change yourself.

Yup, life is unfair. No, you're not a victim. Many of us suffer simply because we fail to accept an obvious truth: life sucks. It doesn't suck because it's unfair, however, it sucks because as humans we are incapable of long-term satisfaction. You will always have pain. How you deal with it will determine your quality of life. So, if you think life sucks and is unfair on you, listen to this...

We all get stuck sometimes. Whether it's overthinking and being unable to commit to a decision; or burning out from being too busy without making much progress; or getting lost in information overload and not knowing where to start. The 3X Model of Confidence was designed to help you remain unstuck and make constant progress with your self-confidence. It's simple and easy to use, and applies to any situation. In this episode, Dan explains how to identify where you're stuck and what you must do next to free yourself.

In this first of this series, I pick 4 beliefs that I see people commonly subscribing too (and beliefs I used to have myself) and do my best to tear them to pieces 1) "I need to be liked by others" 2) "Other people think the same way I do" 3) "The universe is fair, or should be fair" 4) "Success means winning and positive results" Do you believe any of these? See if you still do after listening to this...

In Winter, we face the depressing truth about ourselves and decide what needs to change, while simultaneously being kind to ourselves. In Spring we clean it all up and make the necessary changes. In Summer, we enjoy our abundance while carefully maintaining the changes. And in Autumn, we deal with the tests and frustrations of real-life drama. Listen to this podcast to figure out what season you're in currently, and how best to deal with it.

Are you ready to learn this simple trick to becoming financially free? What if you could do it WITHOUT EARNING MORE MONEY??? Is that something you'd be interested in? OK, maybe not. But check out this podcast if you've been chasing money under the guise of pursuing financial freedom, because there's a slight chance that you're on the wrong track completely.

You were born into a world full of rules that you had no hand in creating. And yet these rules completely dominate your life, and much of your decision-making. But are these rules even real? Inspired by the book Sapiens (Yuval Harari, in this episode I explore the rules you've been following your whole life, and why you need to break at least some of them.

We've all felt loneliness at some point in our lives. Some people even experience it on a frequent, long-term basis. What we all have in common is the unhelpful belief that loneliness somehow relates to how many other people love us. But what if there's another reason...

Have you been consistently mistreated or had negative experiences with women? Are you starting to feel resentful and bitter about your love and dating life so far? Are you finding it hard to respect women or see them as equals? I know how you feel, and I understand. In this special episode, we explore where this comes from, how it holds you back, and what you can do about it (without any feminism required!)

You hold back and avoid taking risks because you're scared of losing something, aren't you? Approval and friendship. Money and property. Status and reputation. Muscles and fitness. These are all things that you might sacrifice your integrity just to hold onto a little longer. If that might be you.. listen to this.