On The Brighter Side

In this week's episode, I'm chatting with Dr. Kim Kimberling of Awesome Marriage about 3 Things that Matter in Every Marriage. Those 3 things are communication, finances and sex. Dr. Kim talks about the most important thing to remember when communicating with your spouse, how to communicate about tough topics like finances and sex and sex the way God intended it for married couples. If you enjoyed this episode, we know you will love the Secrets of Happily Ever After Summit, where I intervew 31 other experts, including Dr. Kim about how to live happily ever after with your spouse. You can register for FREE at: www.secretsofhappilyeverafter.com/sheasummit. This is a once in a lifetime opportunity to hear from these experts and it's FREE, so what are you waiting for? Go sign up right NOW!

This week's episode is all about Spiritual Intimacy and how you and your partner can work together to find the right combination of spirituality that helps you feel close and connected to each other and a higher power. I talk about the power of prayer and the importance of praying with and for your spouse. I share some insights I've gained from working with couples who are experiencing faith transitions and how sexual intimacy can be a spiritual experience. Join us for the 5 Steps to Improve and Increase Your Intimacy Webclass: https://secretsofhappilyeverafter.com/intimacywebclass Or, if you are local to the Boise/Meridian Area, come to Ditch the Resentment Date Night on Saturday, September 17th. Learn more by searching that in Eventbrite or get your tickets HERE.

In this episode of the Secrets of Happily Ever After podcast, I share tips on how you can increase recreational intimacy with your partner. Recreational intimacy refers to the bond that is created and strengthened by having fun with your partner. What hobbies or activities do you like to do together? Do you share any inside jokes? How do you make each other laugh? I share my own answers to these questions and more.Show Highlights:[04:21] Why recreational intimacy with your partner is important[06:25] How going out to a comedy show or watching funny videos with your partner can make your marriage more fun[08:40] How you can introduce novelty to your date nights[09:51] How outdoor activities can increase recreational intimacy[11:32] How fun and laughter come into play in the bedroom[14:35] Why it’s important to share inside jokes with your partner[18:28] Why you should make time for datesLinks and Resources:Check out Secrets of Happily Ever AfterCheck out 5 Steps to Increase Intimacy in Your MarriageCheck out D

Today I'm giving you tips to super-charge your emotional intimacy, which is the workhorse of all the intimacies. Emotional intimacy includes communication and how you connect with each other on a personal level. How well do you know your partner's inner world? I'm giving you the best ways to get to know them better on a deeper level. I created a resource, which is 51 Questions You Can Ask Your Spouse to Get to Know Them Better. You can download it for FREE by going to www.secretsofhappilyeverafter.com/51questions. I'm also hosting a webclass called 5 Steps to Increase Intimacy in Your Marriage. I promise you do NOT want to miss it. You can find all the details and how to attend HERE - www.secretsofhappilyeverafter.com/intimacywebclass. See you there! If you haven't taken the Intimacy Level Quiz yet, you can do so HERE - https://www.tryinteract.com/share/quiz/62eb4e0a590de0001833745d

In this episode, I'm talking about the results of the Intimacy Level Quiz we launched a couple weeks ago. After thousands of you have taken the quiz, I was surprised and delighted at the results. I talk about each of the levels and give you two big tips for how to raise the intimacy in your marriage all by yourself. These suggestions are relationship gold. If you haven't take this 3-minute quiz to find out the level of intimacy in your marriage, you should go to: https://www.tryinteract.com/share/quiz/62eb4e0a590de0001833745d I'm also inviting you to join me for a one-hour webclass where I will reveal 5 secret ways to raise the level of intimacy in your marriage. I promise you do NOT want to miss this class. To sign up, just go to:  https://secretsofhappilyeverafter.com/intimacywebclass.

I just couldn't hold it in any longer. This podcast is getting a facelift and a brand new name! Next week's episode will be published under the name: Secrets of Happily Ever After. The cover art isn't changing much, but the name will be different. The content is new and improved and we're stepping everthing up a notch or 10 notches. In this episode, I'm talking about how and why the change came about and in future episodes, I will talk more in depth about the concepts I'm learning about that create that ever so elusive happily ever after. If you enjoyed this or any other episode, please be sure to leave a review or share this podcast (Secrets of Happily Ever After) with a friend or family member. Your reviews help others find the show and the truth is, we could all use some help strenthening and improving marriages. If you haven't already, you should take a few minutes to take the Intimacy Level Quiz available here: https://www.tryinteract.com/share/quiz/62eb4e0a590de0001833

This is my first episode back after taking a break and spending some much needed quality time with my favorite humans on the planet. I give an update on my family and make some announcements about cool things that are coming soon. My favorite announcement is that the Intimacy Level Quiz that I've been working on all summer is finally ready for you to take! Did you know that there are 4 levels of intimacy a couple can acheive in their marriage? Take this quick 3-minute quiz to find out what level you are at. You'll be so glad you did! https://www.tryinteract.com/share/quiz/62eb4e0a590de0001833745d Once you have your quiz results, come tell me on Instagram what level you are at, so I can create some fun resources to help you raise your intimacy level, even if you are at the highest level. There is always room for improvement, right? You will notice this episode has no intro or outro. It's because I started using new equipment to improve the audio quality of my episodes, and I don't know how

In today's episode, I'm chatting with my friends, Greg and Rachel Denning of Extraordinary Family Life about expectations in marriage and love. We quickly come to the conclusion that husbands don't get hints. All joking aside, unrealistic expectations are the breeding ground for lots of unnecessary disappointment and resentment. Our conversation covers how to start becoming aware of our expectations and their effects of our relationship, what to do instead and how to communicate so our partners don't have to guess what we are thinking. In honor of Valentine's Day, we are working together to bring you a very special bundle which includes the Offensive Playbook Challenge for husbands together with Greg's Be the Man Workshop for one low price. You can check out that deal here: https://offensiveplaybookchallenge.com.

In this week's episode, Eric MacDougall of the Evolved Marriage Podcast interviews me about how to create more intimacy even in the busyest seasons of life. We discuss desire differences, how to approach conversations around intimacy with your spouse and my favorite equation for creating the relationship of your dreams... Curiosity + Vulnerablility = Creation Join us for the 5-Day Seduce Your Spouse Challenge at: https://onthebrightersideofmarriage.com/syschallenge And check out the Evolved Marriage Podcast with Kate and Eric MacDougall here: https://evolvedmarriagepodcast.buzzsprout.com

In this week's episode, I'm sharing 10 tips to ensure date night increases your intimate connection with your spouse. Weekly, non-negotiable date nights are one of the very BEST ways to keep your marriage thriving and healthy through every stage. Carving out at least 3 hours each week to connect, make memories and enjoy each other's company communicates your commitment and makes life together more FUN! If you are ready to reignite intimacy and redefine sexy without spending endless hours talking or thousands of hours in therapy, join us for the Seduce Your Spouse LIVE Challenge starting January 31st. Register for FREE at https://onthebrightersideofmarriage.com/syschallenge.

In this week's episode, Coach Troy Aberle shares with us the 6 human needs and how understanding them in ourselves and our partner allows us to get the results we really want out of life and marriage. We discuss how to set goals taking our 6 human needs into consideration and how to establish high frequency habits in order to acheive our goals in every area, including health, wealth and relationships. You can learn more about Coach Troy at https://www.troyaberle.com Register for the Seduce Your Spouse live Challenge for FREE at https://onthebrightersideofmarriage.com/syschallenge

Today I'm chatting with Couplepreneurs, Kyle and Ariel Tresch who are just as passionate as I am about helping entrepreneurs achieve success in their business as well as in their relationships. Kyle and Ariel Tresch are husband-and-wife digital marketing consultants, who have built a thriving relationship AND many thriving businesses over the last 10 years. In this episode, we discuss How Entrepreneur ‘Power Couples’ Set (And Achieve) Their Goals Together with their GRR method. Listen in to learn more about this simple yet powerful framework for setting your business and your marriage up for success. Check out Kyle and Ariel's 5 day workshop at: https://www.kyleandariel.com/workshop or find them on Instagram @couplepreneurs_official.

I'm thrilled to bring you this interview with some of my favorite marriage mentors, Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo of One Extraordinary Marriage. They are the hosts of the #1 rated marriage podcast on Apple podcast and authors of several books, including the 6 Pillars of Intimacy. On today's episode, we are discussing how to strengthen all 6 pillars of intimacy even during the busiest seasons of life and marriage. The question is, do you know which of your intimacy pillars need strengthening in this season? And, are you willing to take action to ensure all 6 pillars remain strong? Listen in to learn more. Find out more about Tony and Alisa at: www.oneextraordinarymarriage.com or find them on Instagram @oneextraordinarymarriage.

While the holidays are supposed to be the happiest most magical time of the year, they can be stressful and cause strain to many couples. This doesn't have to be the case though. By putting certain safeguards into place, the business of the holidays can be used to strenthen your relationship as you prioritize the most important things. In this week's episode, I'm sharing 3 ways to lower your stress and keep your connection to your partner high. You can use these tips to strenthen emotional, physical, spiritual, recreational and sexual intimacy, even in the busiest seasons. If you are still looking for the perfect stocking stuffer for your spouse or your favorite couples, order your hard copy or digital version of the Date Night Journal HERE.

This week's episode is a conversation with my friend and colleague, Nate Bagley of Growth Marriage. Just in time for Thanksgiving, we are talking about gratitude and other great gifts we can give our spouse and our marriage. We are also revealing a BIG project we have been working on. It’s something that will help make your relationships SO much better, and your life SO much easier, so you will NOT want to miss this one! You can check out the Relationship Mastery Bundle HERE: https://www.epicmarriageclub.com/a/2147499720/cRcionoQ If you are looking for the perfect stocking stuffer or gift for a married couple in your life, be sure to order your Date Night Journals in the next couple of weeks to ensure delivery by Christmas. Order your Date Night Journals HERE: https://onthebrightersideofmarriage.com/journal

In this week's episode, I'm chatting with Seth and Melanie Studley of Anatomy of Marriage about how to stay intimately connected during the hustle and bustle of the holiday season. The Studleys began their journey 11 years ago when Melanie gave Seth a black eye for lying and looking at pornography. That was when their search for raw, helpful and authentic marriage resources came to a dead-end and they nearly gave up. After scraping and clawing their way back to marital health they decided to create the marriage resources that they wish they had had during those tough times. As the holidays approach, issues such as finances, family of origin and family roles and responsibilities come up for almost every married couple. In this interview, we talk about the importance of being proactive in setting intentions and creating a shared vision for holiday activities and events. As stress and emotions arise, these are opportunities to connect more deeply as opposed to withdrawing and disconnecting. You can lea

In this week's episode, I'm sitting down with Ryan and Bethany Lee who are known for empowering couples to become financially free in 10 years or less through a principle based approach regardless of age, income or experience. We talk about the meaning of true financial freedom, how teach your kids healthy financial habits and value-based practices. How do you address money disconnects in your marriage and with your kids? And how do you open up life conversations with your kids facilitated by money? What do you want your kids to remember about growing up in your family? Be sure to tune into this episode to answer these very important questions. For more information about the 5 Day Financial Freedom Challenge: www.cashflowtactics.com/challenge To check out Bethany's Book, Called Upon: www.bethanylee.com To get more of this interview and so many other trainings and special interviews from the worlds leading intimacy experts and entrepreneurial couples: www.onthebrightersideofmarriage.com/thevault

It this week's episode, I'm chatting with Joshua and Ashlee Latimer of Honor and Fire about How to Create a Powerful Family Culture and Empower Your Kids to Win using family systems. Their number 1 passion is helping your entrepreneurial Family build wealth, become radically generous and engineer a Family culture that changes the world. We talk about their 5 step framework for implementing family systems and how those systems have created a family culture that empowers even their young kids to look for solutions, take initiative, build businesses and navigate the crazy world we live in with honor and fire. I think you will love the way the Latimers empower and inspire you to take massive, imperfect, but intentional action to create the systems that will help your family win. Get your copy of the Kid War Plan HERE, for your kids or someone else's kids. There is so much goodness and value in these books and systems. Make sure you check it out! And husbands, if you are looking for a great gift for

In this week's episode, I'm sharing a simple, game-changing hack that will instantly increase the intimacy and connection in your marriage. I'll teach you how to override your brain's default thoughts at 3 critical times during the day in order to feel more love and appreciation for your spouse, your family and your home. I promise, you do NOT want to miss this episode! Husbands! If you are ready for more attention, affection and appreciation from your wife, make sure you check out the Offensive Playbook Challenge starting on Monday, November 1st at www.offensiveplaybookchallenge.com.

Today's episode is a special treat! Stu and Amy McLaren join me to discuss new Amy's book, Passion to Purpose and how their multiple businesses and their global charity, Village Impact has gone from a passion to a massive source of purpose, contribution and legacy.   We talk about passion, working together, family life, leveraging their strengths, challenges they faced and how they have overcome them and so much more. If you are looking to make a bigger impact, contribution and leave a legacy you can be proud of, you do NOT want to miss this interview. Stu and Amy are a powerhouse couple and they share so much value and wisdom they are learning in the trenches every single day. Remember that all proceeds from your purchase of Passion to Purpose are donated directly to Village Impact to build schools for kids in Kenya. You can get your hands on a copy of Amy's book here: https://amymclaren.com/passion-to-purpose-book. You won't regret that investment, I promise!!! Enrollment to the Offensiv