Maybe It's You

Karen Kilgariff the hilarious comic and My Favorite Murder co-host joins Greg and Amiira to discuss how self-doubt, insecurity and descending voices cripples owning your own ambition, black out dysfunctional drinking days with a crew of comedy greats and a walk down memory lane of the early low brow Los Angeles comedy scene.

In a very special Maybe It’s You, Greg and Amiira flash back to their roots when Greg was a stand-up comedian and Amiira a music business executive when they were first dating and became writing partners. Together they revisit their path to becoming relationship book authors of He’s Just Not That Into You, It’s Called A Breakup Because It’s Broken, It’s Just A F***ing Date and the upcoming How To Keep Your Marriage From Sucking.

Greg and Amiira’s favorite long time married couple, Jackie Harris and Paul Greenberg, discuss marrying above your paygrade, how your sense of self affects the health of your marriage, too much and not enough togetherness, having genuine appreciation for everything your spouse does for you, knowing how to deal with your spouse when they’re being difficult, crazy or an asshole, and the priority of resolving fights and hurt feelings.

Travis Clark joins Greg and Amiira to discuss the struggle to match viewing schedules with your mate, having your insecurities triggered by your spouse and male friendship. Long time friends,Travis and Greg were forced into an inorganic work friendship that resulted in a huge professional falling out. Years later we discuss how they came back together and were able rebuild a meaningful real friendship.

Greg and Amiira discuss modern dating and the challenge to meet people outside of social media platforms. What Tinder dating is like for an introvert like producer Yusong. Amiira is tempted to mess with the “wrapped" sports car she keeps encountering that is wrapped with the message “send nudes” and an instagram and twitter handle to send them to. Plus Coachella moments and Greg talks about competition and sensitivity among performers.

Amiira’s visit to a psychic is hijacked by Greg's energy. Laura House joins Greg and Amiira to talk about the difference between love and fear based people, her recent engagement, slow motion breakups, ignoring information to stay in unhealthy relationships and being skeptically open to all astrology and the otherworldly that pops into everyday life. It’s jam packed!

 Amiira & Greg talk to the wonderfully talented actress Tara Strong (Teen Titans Go!, My Little Pony, Fairly Odd Parents) about still crushing on your spouse after twenty years, knowing your calling at an early age, always having the hunger to learn, encouraging independence in kids, not being afraid to punch grope-y people at Coachella and disappointing the game master at the escape room.

Amiira and Greg answer emails from fabulous listeners. (Keep ‘em coming! You send them, we’ll answer them.) As if that wasn’t enough,producer Yusong finally gets dragged into the studio and giant bonus - Amiira and Greg’s daughter True takes teen emotions to a new level.

Amiira and Greg are joined by the star of Stan Against Evil, Janet Varney, to chat about reaching next level comprehension and awareness in your relationship, the personal behavior revelations from watching the Crown, and the “Pillow Incident”.

Amiira & Greg talk with Author & Comedian Mandy Stadtmiller about her new memoir “Unwifeable”, personal boundaries and lack thereof, historical triggers, the energy shifting magic of clapping and the unsung importance of directing your sexual energy and desire into strengthening your marriage instead of wasting it on strangers. 

Amiira’s best friend Actress Christine Taylor (Brady Bunch, Dodgeball, Zealander, Arrested Development) joins in the conversation about relationship intruders and the Girl’s Best Friend/Husband dynamic that challenges the modern relationships. 

Greg and Amiira discuss the pressure that marriages collapse under when the spouse is expected to be everything to each other and the weirdness of knowing your doctor just banged the pharmaceutical rep or seeing your doctor out of context in real life.

This episode Amiira gives Greg a quarterly review and reads his comment cards, change in dynamics from when the dad was the head of the family and revolved around to him to the kids being the central focus, what Greg and Amiira’s dads were like coming home from work, behavior remorse and regret and Greg’s desire to work in the relationship field stems from his empathy and understanding of how people are and feel. 

This episode we talk about Greg and his family’s dog show, Greg and Paul both have had similar shifts where they no longer like what they do but feel like they’re too far into it now, feeling antisocial in your middle age, victim of unrealistic expectations, we talk about the Grammys, revisit Moon stories that we talked about when she was guest, how similar Moon and Greg are and Amiira and Paul, the spiral of feeling too much and getting worked up internally by motivation you have assigned to someone that isn’t there.

This episode we cover Collateral damage and the butterfly effect in relationships, talk about Moon & Greg going on a date, Amiira and Greg’s first date, Moon and her ex-husband and Moon goes to a tantric sex workshop and realizes she’s a nightmare to be in a relationship with, Greg and Amiira decide they should be a throuple with Moon. 

 This episode we cover resistance and going to see Hamilton, the sliding scale of injury and resentment, butterfly effect and collateral damage in relationships.

This episode we cover writing relationship books, Being talked out of things you like, looking for validation, Amiira going to a lecture about raising kids in a porn addicted world, men’s midlife crisis, disparity between a couple in a marriage where one wants more and the other is fine as is)