Stop Losing Women Podcast

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about an scientific study that shows why men don’t listen to women – and it’s not for the reason you think!!  (Note: you can read the article by clicking .) Specifically, we go over: Why men process women’s voices differently from men’s voices The difference between how men and women talk Why I was finally able to realize the reason it can sometimes take me days to process what women say to me How to use this knowledge to instill better communication tactics with the women in your life …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, It’s ASK HARRY time, where we answer listener’s dating questions! Today, we answer a message from a guy who has been hitting up girls online, but feels he can’t date them since his life is not fully together yet! Specifically, we go over: The probability of being able to keep a relationship going when your life isn’t put together vs. when it is Why a responsible guy will feel inadequate about dating when he’s still figuring things out Logical thinking vs. emotional thinking: why women will date you at ANY stage of your life How to stop blocking yourself from dating a great girl, even if you’re still working on yourself …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about how letting a woman go after she rejects your date offer can actually help you to win her! Specifically, we go over: The mistake most guys make after asking a woman out that causes her to want to distance herself even further from him How you can make her go from rejecting you to seeking you out for a date – and why this technique works so well Key insights into a woman’s mind – what thoughts does she have about you when you ask her out and then leave her alone? What to do once she’s convinced herself she wants to go out with you …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, It’s ASK HARRY time, where we answer listener’s dating questions! Today, we answer a message from a guy who wants to know how to start talking to a girl at work! Specifically, we go over: The specific conversation technique you can use to start a conversation with ANY girl, including that hottie from work (without her thinking you’re weird or creepy) The sequence I use to go from talking at work, to taking her on dates, to hooking up with her Why it’s important to plant “seeds” with a girl at work weeks or months BEFORE you take her out What things to talk about that will have HER asking YOU to take HER out! …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, I’m introducing a “kind of” new segment that will be taking over Mailbag Mondays called… ASK HARRY! Today, we answer a comment from a listener asking about whether or not a woman who is willing to sacrifice her own goals to help you with yours is actually worth dating in the first place ! Specifically, we go over: The difference between what qualifies as being “successful” for men and women Why a woman actually PREFERS to help you with your goals Ways to make sure your woman is able to be emotionally happy by helping you, while at the same time achieving whatever goals she has “Guy Logic” vs. “Emotional Logic,” and why feeling like part of a team is more important to her than her desire for accomplishing her solo goals …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about the 6 reasons convicted murderer Charles Manson is getting married… and you’re still single! Specifically, we go over: Why I was initially upset when I first heard he was getting married The reason the things that attract women don’t always make sense The needs prisoners give to lonely women 6 reasons this guy is able to get married and you’re not – what POSITIVE character traits does he have that you can use in a less murderous way to attract women? …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, it’s ASK HARRY! We answer a message from a guy who told a girl he liked her… and now, she’s suddenly not responding to him when he asks her out or texts her! He wants to know what he needs to do to get her to go on a date with him! Specifically, we talk about: Why you should never, EVER ask a girl out by telling her you like her first The best way to get a girl to agree to go out with you where she’s comfortable with it The importance of making a girl FEEL like dating you was her idea in the first place The best course of action for gaining back the attention of a girl who’s ignoring you after you confessed your feelings …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about how your diet – specifically, the amount of processed sugar you digest – can have a HUGE effect on your dating life! Specifically, we go over: How sugars affect your hormonal balance of testosterone and estrogen Mood swings – how the wrong foods negatively impact how you act and how women see you Examples of things I did to test out my theories about poor diet & attitude Can women sense if your estrogen levels have risen? (Hint: Yes, and here’s why…) …and much more! The following sites had articles that were quoted in this podcast – click on the links for further exploration: Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, it’s MAILBAG MONDAY! We received a very special email from a guy who said these podcasts have had a very positive impact on his life! Listen to the show to hear what the message says – it was definitely appreciated!!  I also talk about: How my advice style differs from other “gurus” Why I’m so direct and straight-forward when I give my advice How my materials can best be used to help you in your dating life Important things to remember when reading/listening to my materials …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we discuss 5 instances where it may be beneficial to your dating life to move to a new location! Specifically, we go over: The importance of moving away from home How you can run out of dating options & why Why falling into a routine can affect your mood – and your dating life as a result How to continue on with your dating life after you’ve been dumped or lost a love one that you lived with …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we discuss 6 important reminders for dating during the holiday season! Specifically, we go over: Why I generally do NOT recommend you date anyone new during this time period Why you shouldn’t take it personally when she can’t spend a whole lot of time with you The importance of not contacting her everyday (or expecting her to contact you) Things you need to be understanding of during this time (i.e. not getting as many dates with her, being invited to events, etc.) The reason she’s not fawning all over you but still likes you – and why you should remember that January is right around the corner…   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, I give a rant based on a question I was asked over the weekend: how is it you can love someone and still NOT be with that person? Specifically, we go over: How people have been brainwashed into thinking of love as the band-aid to fix all their problems The differences between two people that can end up ruining a relationship, regardless of how much “love” is there Why it’s important for a guy to really vet a person before deciding if he’s in love The best way to end things with someone when you realize it isn’t going to work Why you shouldn’t take it so personally when a girl doesn’t want to be with you …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about an article I read featuring Rob Herjavec (of “Shark Tank” fame) where he talked about the 5 worse sales sins. (Read the article by clicking .) One of those sins in particular – forgetting your mission – can also be applied to your dating life when meeting girls for the first time! Specifically, we go over: The mistake many guys make when meeting women that steers their focus away from what it should be The different goals each section of the “mission” towards being the boyfriend has, and how to execute them Why it’s important to be focused in your mission vs. “seeing what happens” What things to do to make her attracted to you in a “relationship” type of way vs. “friendship” …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, it’s MAILBAG MONDAY! We answer a message from a guy who was on-and-off with a girl he worked with; she moved an hour away for a new job, and became a wishy-washy girlfriend who didn’t want to be with him… then did… then didn’t. Now she’s about to get married, and he wants to know what he should do! Specifically, we talk about: Why dating girls from work is NOT recommended Why dating girls that live far away from you is NOT recommended Why a woman would go back to you even if she doesn’t have a high level of interest in you The best course of action for dealing with an ex that’s now taken …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !

SCIENTIFIC PROOF WOMEN NEED DRAMA IN RELATIONSHIPS??! YESSSSSSS!!! On today’s super-sized episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about why women actually NEED drama to take place in their relationships, and 9 ways you can go about instilling drama so that you’re in control of it AND keeping her happy! Specifically, we go over: The emotional needs women have that cause them to create dramatic situations How fear, insecurity, threat of competition and the idea of potential loss make women feel a need for drama Could a woman be creating situations subconsciously so that she can relate to other women? The one POSITIVE reason for women to practice being in dramatic situations – one that could benefit you later in YOUR life How to determine the range/level/frequency of drama your woman needs (and the 2 things it’s based on) Why it’s better for YOU to be in control of the drama she brings to you 9 ways to create dramatic situations in ways that are positive and/or less intense than if she were to bring

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about a scientific study that PROVES a woman will like you more if she’s unsure of your level of like for her (you can read the study yourself by clicking )! Specifically, we go over: Why letting a woman know how much you like her in the beginning will turn her off Actions you can do that will leave her wondering if you like her or not, which will help to increase HER interest in you If it’s ever okay to tell a girl you like her (and if so, how often) Why it’s better to do ACTIONS that show interest moreso than being verbal about it …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, it’s MAILBAG MONDAY! We answer a message from a guy who knew a girl for 2 years and was in regular communication with her via texting/calling until 7 months ago, when she started being more distant. He now wants to know how he can win her back – but can he? Specifically, we talk about: The importance of asking a girl out within the first few meet-ups How/why her interests gets lessened the more she hears from you via phone PROOF that cutting communication can be the best way to re-stir up her feelings for you When/how the phone should be used properly when dating a girl …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about the #1 sex secret to guarantee she’s satisfied with you in bed! Specifically, we go over: Why not showing a woman a good time in bed will cause her to lose interest (and not for the reasons you think) The ONE key thing you’re not doing that’s causing her to have a bad time in bed with you How implementing this one simple secret will make her feel GRATEFUL to have you as a lover Why most guys’ take an ego hit when a woman tries to get them to do this simple little thing, and why you should be THANKFUL when she does this …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about why her dating choice often has nothing to do with you! Specifically, we go over: The reason some women chose not to date you as a result of deeply rooted issues The impact charisma can have over the type of stuff/job you have How her upbringing can determine the kind of guy she dates, and why you may not fit that image for her …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, it’s our 200th show AND it’s MAILBAG MONDAY! We answer a message from a guy who acted confident when he first met a girl, but was nervous (and sarcastic) on their first date and turned her off! He wants to know how he can be less nervous when he takes women out! Specifically, we talk about:   The reason the first date shouldn’t be longer than 45 minutes to an hour Why this girl texted him to tell him she was no longer interested – and why he should THANK her for it How having a lack of other dating choices effects a guy’s level of nervousness on a date Why it’s okay to date more than one girl at a time How to become confident enough in yourself to believe you can get other women if your current relationship doesn’t work out – and why it will actually HELP you stay in relationships longer   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !