Stop Losing Women Podcast

The “Hero” Moment: the moments in relationships where a woman asks for her man’s help, thus giving him a chance to be her man in shining armor. But what happens when these opportunities are presented and then mishandled? How do guys end up shooting themselves in the foot when attempting to “help” their girlfriend in the way they THINK they should vs. how they REALLY should? On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we attempt to go over these topics and others, including: Why women secretly desire to have their men rush in and “save the day,” even if they themselves could actually perform the action The positive feelings women feel when they’re men act like their heroes How man logic can ruin a perfectly good “hero” set up The correct and most effective ways to handle hero request Would your girl go to another man for help? The negative impact your “hero moment” mismanagement can have on your love life …and much more!

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, It’s ASK HARRY time, where we answer listener’s dating questions! Today, we answer a message from a guy who has been dating a woman for 5 years and is engaged to her… but wants to stop talking about mundane things and have more intellectual conversations with her! Specifically, we go over: Why women are more willing to change themselves for you The key SECRET to opening a woman up to doing the tasks you want her to do Why just telling her to change or do something without guidance will cause her to rebel against you The importance of being open to discussing whatever new things SHE wants to talk about as well …and much more!

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about the importance of not starting fights with your woman over stuff not worth fighting about! Specifically, we go over: A recent example of a situation I encountered where a close guy friend of mine started a fight over dumb stuff The importance of analyzing what you’re about to get mad about… and seeing if it’s REALLY worth fighting about How to make certain things no big deal What can happen if you become too unpredictable about what you do and don’t get mad about Why the way you want to do things isn’t always the “right” way Why the way you want to do things isn’t always the wrong way… but still shouldn’t matter if she wants to do it differently …and much more!

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we read an unread message from a guy who listened to the advice from this show, asked out a co-worker… and had a GREAT date! The listener was nice enough to send a message about how the date went, and his letter is being read to show you guys an example of what a date with a highly interested woman looks like! Specifically, we go over: The various verbal and physical cues she gave during the date that indicated strong interest How sexual tension can build without YOU having to be the one to introduce it The difference between how a man’s interest builds vs. a woman’s interest Why you ALWAYS go for the kiss on the first date – and how to pull it off! What you should focus on during the date to make her interest build Should you be worried about certain behaviors being “non-masculine”? …and much more!

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we’re talking about how to get the girl you’re seeing (or are in a relationship with) to start paying for dates and other things! Specifically, we go over: The various reasons she’s not paying for your dates How to bring up that you’d like her to pay for stuff – and why it’s important to do it on the first date How to break a girl out of the mind set of a guy having to pay for EVERYTHING you both do Bringing up the topic of her paying for stuff in a way that’s not so serious (’cause she doesn’t know you’re really, REALLY mad about it) Things to mention so it will make it easy for her to choose activities and things to take YOU out on – and pay for! …and much more!

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, It’s ASK HARRY time, where we answer listener’s dating questions! Today, we answer a message from a guy who insulted a girl he was “casually” dating, and wants to know how to win her back! Specifically, we go over: Why you’re never just “casually” dating a girl The importance of using loving words with a woman, even when you’re mad at her Why a woman has every right to NOT want to see you when you call her names How to get your point across with someone without having to use language that attacks the other person How to win a woman back after you’ve insulted her (hint: pestering her with an apology won’t do it)   …and much more!

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we’re talking about how to keep your girl “friends” in your life when you have a girlfriend! Specifically, we go over: Why men typically don’t fight back when their women give them flack about having other girls in his life The reason you should NOT agree to get rid of your female friends The conversation(s) you need to have with your girlfriend to establish that your girl “friends” aren’t going anywhere What boundaries need to be established with your girl “friends” to make sure they don’t cross the line and risk losing you as a friend The keys to making your girlfriend feel like the #1 woman in your life – do these things and she won’t have as much of a problem with you hanging out with your platonic female friends …and much more!

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we’re talking about the #1 way men get trained (by Hollywood) into screwing up their dating life! Specifically, we go over: My favorite TV show, and why it’s one of the MANY culprits that give guys a false impression of dating How TV and movies corrupt the dating ideals of men by age 13 The myth: why you don’t REALLY love that girl when you first see her, and what your feelings REALLY mean Why women don’t automatically like you once you reveal your feelings The difference between a woman’s “fantasy” ideal of dating vs. reality …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Write to me at harry@stoplosingwomen.com!

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we discuss why you should never underestimate the kind of girls that will want to date you! Specifically, we go over: How your feelings about yourself determine the WHY behind your dating choices Why you should never feel intimidated about approaching any woman, whether she’s a 5 or a 10 How the subjective nature of what we each determine as “a fine woman” can be beneficial in your feelings about a hot girl The reason many “10s” don’t have boyfriends – and how YOU could end up being him Why it’s actually easier to date “10s” than you think – especially as they get older …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send us a message !

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we discuss how to recognize the “growing pains” phase of the relationship, and why it’s important to NOT get rid of her during these annoying times! Specifically, we go over: What the “Growing Pains” phase is Why a woman may upset you without knowing she’s doing so during this phase Learning how to not take certain actions personally Learning the difference between a woman hurting you unintentionally vs. a woman showing your major red flags Why getting rid of a woman who upsets you once or twice could be a HORRIBLE decision The advantages of sticking with  her after the “growing pains” phase Why even a girl that is right for you will still do things that annoy you – and why they become more tolerable over time …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send me a message !

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, It’s ASK HARRY time, where we answer listener’s dating questions! Today, we answer a message from a guy who wants to know (a) how to tell a girl he’s been dating for a month that he likes her, and (b) what he should do about Valentine’s! Specifically, we go over: How (and why) to let a girl know you like her without verbalizing it The reason men feel they have to tell a girl he likes her – and why it’s actually KILLING your chances with women What to do about Valentine’s day with a woman you’ve only been seeing for a short time How to use upcoming holidays to get her mad enough at you… to help her decide to date you?!?? …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send us a message !

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about how to decrease your time on the phone with your girlfriend without hurting her feelings! Specifically, we go over: An article I typed up talking about why the phone should only be used to set up dates The quandary: what to do when the girl is your girlfriend and she calls you a lot How women become LESS attracted to you the more they talk to you on the phone and why (even if they don’t understand it themselves) What a girl is REALLY trying to do when she calls you The nice way to let her know you want to talk to her but have limited time (in a way that won’t  hurt her feelings) The move you need to do at the end of the call that will make feel excited about the near future with you …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send us a message !

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about what you need to be doing during the dating phase to avoid getting divorced later! Specifically, we go over: The importance of seeing a woman as she is when she first presents herself to her Examples/stories of people who got divorced within a year – and what they all have in common Why men are willing to overlook a woman’s behavior How to tell if she has hidden behaviors that could come out to harm you later Not letting her feminine ways blind you from seeing her as she really is …and much more! Article mentioned in this podcast: Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send us a message !

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about how to emotionally deal with your woman telling you about her sexual past! Specifically, we go over: Why her past is so unimportant to your present relationship with her Why being judgmental of her sexual past is a No-No Hypocrisy: How not to be upset with her sexual past when you yourself have one The reason women tell you about her past – and no, it’s not to make you jealous How to have a talk with her about NOT divulging past sexual partners with each other …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send us a message !

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, It’s ASK HARRY time, where we answer listener’s dating questions! Today, we answer a message from a guy who wants to know if he should forgo being his goofy, joking self in exchange for being a man that’s silent and aloof! Specifically, we go over: The problem with being Mr. Goofy – and it’s not what you think The 3 reasons your humor may be causing you to fail with women Why a woman that likes you will laugh at what you’re saying WITHOUT you having to force it Learning to “read the room”  so you’ll know when to be joking and when to be more serious and/or neutral in attitude …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send us a message !

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about how to respond when your girlfriend says “It’s getting too serious, too fast!” Specifically, we go over: What makes a girl want to say that statement in the first place Mistakes most guys make that cause a woman to feel like things are moving too fast How to pace out the relationship so she NEVER has this speech with you – and has HER chasing after time with YOU How routine and lack of effort on your part can cause a woman to feel like you two are already an old married couple, and how this contributes to her feeling like things are “too serious” …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we discuss how you can become “The Body Whisperer” that REALLY turns her out in the bedroom and will make her want to keep seeing you! Specifically, we go over: The seemingly “duh” secret to having a GREAT sex session with any woman – and why most guys still don’t seem to get it How to become “The Body Whisperer” that can totally satisfy her in the sack How to pace yourself at her various erogenous zones for maximum pleasure Why she will invite you back over and over again to hook up with her even if the first time was just “okay” (simply because you looked like you were trying) …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, It’s ASK HARRY time, where we answer listener’s dating questions! Today, we answer a message from a guy who has insecurities about women and dating based on certain self-esteem issues from his childhood/early dating years, and wants to know how to get past them! Specifically, we go over: The concept of “time” and how it effects the way we see ourselves Why the version of you today is NOT the version of you from earlier in your life – and why you can’t allow “past” you to dictate your present and/or future with women How to trick your subconscious into accepting the great guy you are NOW vs. seeing you as the way you felt about yourself in the past How to realize that women will date you as you currently are (and why it’s important to REALLY assess your life as it actually is vs. how you THINK it is) …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about the SECRET to getting a new girl you take out to want to come back to your place (or hers) – and it’s not the way you think! Specifically, we go over: The #1 mistake most guys make that deters a woman from wanting to go back to his place How focusing on her COMFORT – not YOUR chances of laying her – can get her in the mood The things you need to be doing on dates to make HER suggest going to your place The art of patience, and how appearing to be that way can actually expedite the “getting laid” process …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about how the release of the movie “The Interview” parallels with a concept in dating that I’ve talked about before on this program, and really helps to hammer it home!! Specifically, we go over: How what should have been a very unimportant movie became the most in-demand comedy “Free will” and the lesson to learn about being told you can or can’t experience something The correlation between the release of this movie and how much control guys try to have over certain friends in their girlfriends’ life Why YOUR actions towards her guy friends can result in her wanting to hang out with them MORE, or even hook up with them …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !