Stop Losing Women Podcast

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast (courtesy of ), we discuss what the "2 Strikes" dating policy is, and why it's important for a man to use it when asking out new women! Specifically, we talk about: Why repeatedly going after a woman that's giving you negative buying signals is for suckers Why getting rid of a woman who flakes or says "no" to a date one time can actually cause you to lose a woman who would have been good for you long term How the "2 Strikes" policy helps prevent you from getting rid of a woman too soon How the "2 Strikes" policy helps your brain to better clarify if a woman likes you or not - and why it's important in the long run   ...and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast (courtesy of ), we answer a MAJOR question many guys have when it comes to how they feel about themselves: do you have to sleep with a lot of women to be considered an "Alpha" male? Specifically, we talk about: The definition of an "Alpha" male and a "Beta" male () How men's egos are affected by acceptance or rejection from women The reason men equate # of sexual partners with their level of maleness The TRUE characteristics that define if you're an Alpha male   ...and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we reach into the mailbag and answer a listener's question in our ASK HARRY segment! Today, we respond to a guy who had a girl show him POSITIVE signals on a date, and wants to know how to respond to them without appearing over eager or needy! Specifically, we go over: How to respond when she asks you for YOUR number How to respond when she tells you she's having a good time and wants to know if you are as well How to respond when she starts asking about future dates Why it's okay for her to do/say these things (but not you)   ...and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women Pocast, we talk about a critical mistake many guys make when they're chasing after someone: namely, assuming that because they have high interest in a woman, that she must feel the same way! Specifically, we talk about: The disconnect between how fast you have interest in a woman vs. how long it takes for her to feel interested Why men are so impatient once they have high interest in a woman How/why men assume what they feel is what she must also feel - and the 5 mistakes that happen as a result of a man not monitoring his interest level before REALLY getting to know a woman How you can have an interest in her AND keep your eyes open   ...and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about why you can't hate women and try to date them at the same time. It's another important topic in our "Dual Realities" series! Specifically, we discuss: Why so many men have this "I hate women, they're all stupid" mantra going on The dating problems that arise when you say you hate women yet continue to pursue them A personal example that illustrates how your dating success is tampered with as a result of negative thinking How to break yourself free from past baggage so that you CAN be successful with women   ...and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about the 9 ways you can prevent you relationship from becoming one where your woman is withholding sex from you! Specifically, we discuss: How guys get into a sexless relationship in the first place - and how HE may be the one to blame for it Why a woman won't necessarily verbalize she's losing interest, and the #1 way you can tell it's happening What she needs to feel from you to make her more secure, comfortable, and desiring of your advances The curse of "Relationship Erosion" 9 easy things you can do to see to it that her sexual passion for you doesn't die out   ...and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about the importance of having a dating mentor in your corner! Specifically, we talk about: The years of struggling I went through before I became good at dating - and how YOU can avoid the same fate with a dating mentor The 7 ways a dating mentor/coach can help you build up your confidence, teach you what things will work, and train you to become a man ALL women will want to date How a dating coach helps to save you time AND money ...and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we disucss the importance of being detached to the dating process, and the 4 understandings you need to have about dating in general that will help you do that! Specifically, we talk about: Why it's so easy for people to take dating personally Learning not to take dating and women's acceptions OR rejections of you so personally The role your ego plays in how attached your feelings are to dating & why 4 things to remind yourself of during the dating process 1 MAJOR thing you need to start doing so that you become less needy and desperate for any one woman's affections ...and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, it's ASK HARRY time, where we answer a listener's question! Today's question comes from a guy who wants to know how to become more comfortable standing up for himself and his opinions in a relationship without feeling bad about it! Specifically, we talk about: How trying not to "rock the boat" can result in said boat getting rocked anyway The reason women actually WANT to know when you're mad or disagreeing with them Why women will lose interest in you when you're not telling them your true emotions The ways I was able to become more comfortable with letting women know when I was mad at them How to construct ways in your relationship for both of you to have respectable discussions of disagreements   ...and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

It's episode #250!!! And to celebrate, the StopLosingWomen.com website has been remodeled... and It. Looks. AMAZING!! And so, on today's show, we're talking about the new look of the site, as well as some of the NEW programs we're offering to better serve all the guys out there looking to improve results in their dating lives, including: Easier page navagation The brand new podcast player 1-on-1 coaching programs A brand new, FREE special report, "7 Steps to Get Her to Say YES to the First Date!" ...and much more!  Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about two issues: The first issue is the senseless violence that recently occurred in Charleston, South Carolina, where a 21-year old young man killed 9 people at a church. This isn't a political show, but I wanted to do a mini-commentary about the tragedy, as well as point out how the hatred this man had for a group of people correlates with how many men with a negative dating history act towards women, and why it's important to monitor those feelings before they get out of hand... After that, we talk about how to begin trusting your own instincts when it comes to the world of dating. Specifically, we talk about: The purest example of how a man should treat women in order to attract them How men are BORN with natural attracting instincts, and how they lose them The key to being able to trust your own instincts again Why men have a hard time feeling comfortable doing the things they should be naturally doing to get women   ...and much more! Got a

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, it's ASK HARRY time, where we answer a listener's question! Today, we respond to a guy who's been out with a girl at least 12 times since he first met her 3 weeks ago. Now, he feels as though she's sending mixed signals and wants to know if he should back off from seeing her a bit so that she'll come to him! Specifically, we talk about: The importance of treating dating like a marathon, not a sprint How often you should see a girl per week when you first start dating her Why women can actually become LESS interested in you the more they see you Whether or not it's okay for her to have up an online account - and how you can use this knowledge to get her to commit to you faster LESS IS MORE: How to successfully transistion into seeing her less so that your time with her is more effective ...and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we give examples of 5 different actions you need to reserve for when you're in a relationship - and how witholding said things from the woman you're in the dating phase with can result in her wanting to have "The Relationship Talk" with you sooner! Specifically, we go over: The reason most guys are ready to give a woman access to their whole world after 1 or 2 dates How to treat each dating life phase like a "membership website" Why women are actually NOT insulted when you don't initially give them access to certain parts of your life Examples of 5 things you can hold off on giving to her until she becomes the girlfriend - and why she'll feel even MORE rewarded in the long run ...and much more!   Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

In today's episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we discuss the 3 reasons why agreeing to help out a woman you just met will usually result in her NOT dating you! Specifically, we go over: Why unearned actions from you do not equate to love feelings for you from her What a woman is REALLY thinking when you agree to help her out - and it's NOT a good thing! The importance of not becoming a "valuable commodity" to her too early in the getting-to-know-you process The things you need to focus on getting better at to attract her in the beginning - it's not about ACTIONS, it's about making her FEEL certain things ...and much more!

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, It’s ASK HARRY time, where we answer listener’s dating questions! Today, we answer a question from a guy who made some “dating errors” on a previous date that have him wondering if he should cancel the next one he’s scheduled with her! Specifically, we go over: Whether or not you should ever cancel a date & why Why you need to avoid talking about your/her “issues” early in the dating process How your insecurities can ruin the relationship – even if she’s not feeling any What you need to do when setting up a date so that she won’t cancel …and much more!

In today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we discuss how a girl either likes your or doesn't, and why her having both feelings for you is impossible! Specifically, we talk about: The importance of understanding the word "BUT," and why it correlates with her lack of interest Examples of ways women verbalize a "dual reality" Examples of ways women actionize a "dual reality" The golden way of knowing which reality is the REAL one that she feels for you And much more!

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, It’s ASK HARRY time, where we answer listener’s dating questions! Today, we answer a question from a listener who wants to know if you can ever get to a point in a relationship with a woman where you can be vulnerable without chasing her off! Specifically, we go over: Why you do NOT want to talk about vulnerabilities too much, ESPECIALLY in the beginning of the dating relationship How guys misinterpret what they’re supposed to be “open” about with their girlfriends/wives How & why she views you in a certain way when you talk about the things that worry you in the relationship The truth about how your platonic girl friends feel when you tell them about your problems Who it’s okay to go to when you need to talk about insecurities, worries, and/or issues in your relationship …and much more!

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, It’s ASK HARRY time, where we answer listener’s dating questions! Today, we answer a 2nd message from a guy who has been dating a woman for 5 years and is engaged to her… but now isn’t so sure he wants to marry her! Specifically, we go over: The various reasons why it’s a BAD idea to marry someone for the WRONG reasons Why it’s not fair to the person you’re going to marry to stay with them if you’re really not interested in them The reason why men rush into relationships as they get older The importance of waiting for the RIGHT girl to come along – even if it means holding out a bit longer How to tell if you should marry the girl you’re with… or let her go …and much more!

It’s the Mother’s Day show!!! On today’s podcast, we’re talking about a topic that hasn’t been approached on this show before, and that’s how your love life is affected by the way you treated your mother growing up! As the first woman ever to appear in your life, the way in which you were taught to interact with her growing up helped to mold your viewpoint about women in general: how they deserve to be handled, talked to, etc. For those of you who find you are unable to hang on to women for a long time, or are constantly being told that you don’t treat women the right way, many of these issues could be the result of you having YEARS of practice treating the first women in your life (i.e. your Mom, Grandma, aunts, female cousins) in negative ways. If you got away with things as a kid like talking back to your Mom, throwing tantrums, or going even more extreme by hitting her or calling her ugly names, these actions, practiced over many years and ingrained into your behavior, could be things you’re bringing into

Why is it that some guys get into relationships and allow their women to either (a) dictate the rules of the house, or (b) throw sarcastic insults at them? I recently witnessed two of my guy friends deal with these issues. With the first one, I was told that, were I to come into town to visit him, I couldn’t stay at his place because his fiance didn’t approve of guest staying in their one bedroom place; with the second one, a girl my friend has been on/off seeing for 2 years said something to him that was meant to be a joke… yet it was actually disrespectful and rude, and he didn’t even stand up for himself! I saw these things happening, and I got mad. And I felt a little sad for them as well – here are 2 guys who are being taken to task by the women in their lives, and they’re just letting it happen. And it’s 2 things I don’t want to hear about happening to you guys – so, I did a podcast about the incidents and what you can do to avoid being “those” guys!