Stop Losing Women Podcast

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about a situation many guys have faced: when they present a date idea to a woman, and she rejects it! What should you do? Do you ask her for a date suggestion, or should you not take her out at all? The answer, it turns out, depends on the situation AND the girl's personality... all of which is discussed in the podcast! MARK YOUR CALENDAR for Sunday, November 15 - that's when the NEW program, "The Girlfriend Roadmap," will be coming out! Find out more at FREE e-BOOK DOWNLOAD at the website - "The Friend Zone Escape Plan!"  

FREE Download of the Friend Zone Escape Plan e-Book at - LIMITED time only! On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about an issue that bugs most men: when they are in the mood to have sex, and their woman denies them! What does it mean? Why does it effect us and our emotions so much? Is there anything we can (or should) do about it? And what does it mean for the relationship? We go into all this and more! Got a question for me? Email me at  

FREE WEBINAR TRAINING on Sunday, October 25! Register Now at On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we discuss "Big Ticket Item" dates, i.e. those dates that either cost a lot of money or involve spending a lot of time with your date over a period of days. Many guys want to do these kinds of dates early on with a woman they've just started dating - but, is that really a good idea? Will it make her like you more or less by spending more time/money on/with her? We dive into this topic and give you the REAL thoughts on a woman's mind when you do these kinds of dates so early in the dating process! Got a question for Harry? Write me at

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we're diving into part 2 of the 2-part series, "What Club Bottle Service Taught Me About Dating!" In part 1, we talked about how my misconceived notions about the "bottle service experience" mirrors that of guys who aren't willing to date different types of women or go after the ones they want. In part 2, we explore another aspect of bottle service I found interesting: how it positions you to LOOK and stand OUT - another thing that's very important when attracting women! Got a question for me? Email me at

Aaaaaand we're back! On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we're starting a 2-part series entitled "What Club Bottle Service Taught Me About Dating!" I was in Las Vegas this past weekend for a friend's birthday, and her desire to want bottle service (and my disdain for having to pay so much just to drink in a club) ended up teaching me a few lessons that correlate with dating. So, I'm going to share them with you!

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we start a new segment called "Harry Answers Random Questions," where I give short answers to questions sent in my listeners! Today's questions are: 1. At what stage should I start giving a girl gifts?   2. Is it a good idea to surprise girl from the start (for instance by leaving a hand-made smoothie with a label "have a nice day" in front of her house in the morning so that she has a nicer day at work).   3. If a girl says "we should hang out next week again" at the end of the date, should I say "Ok, let me know when you want to do it exactly" or rather something like "OK", and then invite her for a specific date a few days later?   4. Should you respond to a text that a girl sends you immediately after the date, saying something like "Thanks for such a great meeting!"  

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast... aw, heck, you guys: I'm an Uncle now! My brother had a kid, and it is AWESOME!! In doing so, though, it reminded me to remind you guys what the purpose is of trying to get into a relationship in the first place... and so, that's what's being discussed on the show today! LIKE on Facebook @ stoplosingwomen Follow on Twitter and Periscope @ stoplosingwomen

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about a question posed by one of my girl friends on Facebook: when a guy gives a girl his number, how long should she wait to call him? Should it be right away? Should she wait a few days before hitting him up? Or, should he be the one giving up his number in the first place? We discuss this topic, and how men have been brainwashed to believe in doing certain things in dating by the media! LIKE US ON FACEBOOK @ Facebook.com/StopLosingWomen Follow on Twitter and Periscope @stoplosingwomen

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, it's our final show in our week long "ASK HARRY" marathon, where we answer listener's questions on air! Today, we have a first: a message from a guy I coached who has been using my methods... and NOT getting the results he wants! He now wants to know why it is the things I've been advising him to do have not been working - is it him? Is it the advice? Is there something he's not getting? We dive into his questions and answer them all on today's show! Like me on ! Follow me on !

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, it's another installment of ASK HARRY, where I answer a listener's question! I answer a message from a guy who wants to know how he can pull off breaking up with a girl yet still remaining friends with her! Can it be done? Is it worth trying to pull off, or is it better to just let her go? Would she ever be able to be around him without wanting him back? All these questions and more are answered in this podcast! Like us on Facebook at http://www.Facebook.com/StopLosingWomen Now on Periscope at stoplosingwomen! Twitter: @stoplosingwomen!

Like us on Facebook at http://www.Facebook.com/StopLosingWomen! On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, it's ASK HARRY time, where we answer a listener's question! Today's question comes from a guy who likes a girl he met through a mutual friend. They've known of each other for 3 years but haven't hung out much. Now, he wants to get her number and ask her out but is afraid asking her for the number might scare her off. How should he proceed with this girl? We answer that question and more on today's show!

2 Years!! That's how long this podcast has been on the air, and I couldn't be happier to have been able to help so many guys out in that time! You guys have really helped make this show what it is, and I am very grateful! Today, we're going to look back at some of the testimonials that have been sent in to me from guys whose dating lives have been transformed as a result of listening to the podcast, buying the eBooks or signing up for one-on-one coaching! We also go into some of the upcoming things that will be happening on the site to help you guys out even further with your dating lives! Everything from online programs, new eBooks, and more are on the horizon!

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we discuss the SECRET to ending up in a long-term relationship with your high school sweetheart, even if you end up going to different schools in different states! Specifically, we discuss: The importance of letting go How years-long separation from her can actually give you a better chance at marrying her later on The reason holding on to her in a "long distance relationship" situation can doom your relationship or friendship ...and much more!

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about how removing one simple word from your vocabulary when having an argument with your mate can significantly increase your chances of the fight having a better outcome! Specifically, we talk about: Why this one word can cause her to feel like you're attacking her, even if you're not trying to Sentence structure: how you can phrase your sentences in a way that will get your point across better AND make her willing to look at things your way by simply removing this one word The discussion you need to have with her about future arguments where she also removes this word so you won't feel like she's attacking you ...and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we talk about the importance of becoming more aware of the things you're doing/saying and your environment when dating new women! Specifically, we discuss: Why it's important to analyze the things you're doing on dates How your ego and old habits are out to sabotage your dating efforts What to do when you feel yourself starting to back-peddle into old habits ...and much more!

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we open up the ASK HARRY mailbag to answer a question from a guy who was in a situation where a girl who was a "friend" of his showed interest... but after starting to escalate with her, he stops short of going further with her, only to have their relationship feel "weird" now! Specifically, we talk about: What moves he did right and wrong The importance of continuing with escalation, even if she verbalizes how "weird" it feels The pitfalls of assuming you don't have a shot with a girl just 'cause she's currently a "friend" What moves you can make after a screw up to try and salvage a potential relationship   ...and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we give you guys a true life example of what can happen when you see a girl waaaaay too much during the dating phase of a budding relationship. We go over a story one of my friends told me, about a guy she recently broke up after him having spent almost a month at her house extensively! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, we discuss the various benefits of receiving one-on-one date coaching! Back when I was horrible with dating, I would have KILLED to have at least one person show me the ropes on how I could be doing dating better. I finally got it right after 10 years, and I'm sure there are others out there who would like to finally understand what improvements they could make to their dating game... without having it take 10 years, lol. I recently coached a guy, and he recently sent me an email expressing how the coaching helped him in his situation. This could be YOU! I also answer a question he asked about social media, it's impact on dating, and whether or not a girl you've started dating should have access to you on various social media platforms. Think you know what the answer will be? Tune in and see if you're right! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !      

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, it's ASK HARRY time, where I answer a listener's question! Today, we have a question from a guy who met a girl online, got sent the number, texted her a few times, and when he went to call her for a date, he got NO response! He's now wondering if he should reach out to her a 2nd time. Specifically, we talk about: Why it's better to ask for the date online vs. over the phone The effect texting a girl can have on her interest What it means when she doesn't hit you back right away Why it's important to follow the "2 Strikes" dating rule in this situation   ...and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today's episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast (courtesy of ), we discuss why it's a better idea to ask a girl out in the earlier stages of meeting her, as opposed to asking her out after having gotten to know her. Sounds backwards, right? Specifically, we talk about: The main reason women who have gotten to know you are LESS likely to want to date you How "guy logic" about the sequence of getting a girl to say "yes" to a date screws them over Why it actually benefits you to ask her out soon after meeting her The truth about "building rapport" with her - and why it doesn't increase your chances at taking her out   ...and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !