Stop Losing Women Podcast

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about the impact having a negative attitude towards women can have on your dating success! Specifically, we go over:   Why complaining to a woman about how “all women are scum” won’t cause her to date you (duh!) Attitude shift: how to view failed relationships and/or dates as “positives” Why the Universe won’t bring you someone to date that’s right for you if you’re constantly spewing negative stuff about dating Learning how to not take dating so personally so you’ll remain upbeat and positive about your dating future   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we discuss the SECRET to making a woman laugh naturally! Specifically, we go over:   Why canned openers typically do NOT work The misconception guys have about how to make women laugh How her attraction towards you determines whether or not she laughs at what you’re saying Why she’ll laugh at what you’re saying, even if you’re NOT trying to be funny   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, it’s MAILBAG MONDAY! Today, we answer from a guy who wanted to go after girls in his church and wants to know if he should approach them differently than non-church girls! Specifically, we talk about:   How much of your game – if any – you need to change up to attract church girls How you should REALLY be viewing these church girls The myth about the kinds of women who are “high quality” – and they’re not necessarily in the church How church girls will justify doing the things they want to do with a guy – including sleep with him   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about what you can ask a girl to get the conversation ball rolling when you can’t think of anything to ask her! Specifically, we go over:   Why this question is so effective How talking is used by women to bond with others (including – hopefully – you) Taking her answer and using it to branch off into other conversations       …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about how to know when to make certain moves at right time for maximum effectiveness during the dating progression with a woman! Specifically, we go over:   How to tell when it’s the right/wrong time to make a certain move Asking for her number when you first meet her vs. waiting for later Going in for that first kiss – what date number should it occur on (and when is it too soon/late?) The timing of actually getting into a relationship with her How long to wait before meeting friends and/or family   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, it’s MAILBAG MONDAY! Today’s question comes from a guy who got rid of a girl who wanted to be his girlfriend after seeing flirty Instagram comments from another guy! Specifically, we talk about:   Why it’s rude to lead a girl on when you know she wants to be more serious with you How your own insecurities can cause you to read a situation in the WRONG way What can happen when baggage from previous relationships aren’t resolved How to tell if a girl you dumped still wants to see you (and is trying to be loyal to you)   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we discuss some of the small tweaks you can make to your dating game to have a BIG impact on your success with women! Specifically, we go over:   How changing the words you use when asking her out or for her number can be the difference between forward movement and the end of communications The importance of keeping your first date with her under 90 minutes Limiting how many compliments you give her – and what you should be complimenting her about The ONE thing you MUST remember to do – it’s small, but it’s a BIG deal to her (and something a lot of other guys probably aren’t doing these days)   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, I talk about something I rarely talk about: how to get a girl you once had a crush on (but turned off) to be interested in you after you’ve learned the RIGHT things to do! Specifically, we go over:   Why I generally do NOT agree with guys trying to go after old prospects How to get HER to reach out to YOU Why time away from her is the best thing you could do before trying to attract her How to indirectly tell her about improvements you’ve made to your life since you last saw her The right way to push-and-pull so she’ll be ready to hook up with you when it’s time   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, it’s MAILBAG MONDAY! Today’s question comes from a guy who’s ex hit him up with a phone call! He didn’t want to answer the call, but his buddy insisted he do so! Specifically, we talk about:   Why you shouldn’t always listen to your friends when they give you advice about dealing with your ex Why it’s okay to NOT have a girl in your life after you’ve broken up The conflict that can arise with your new girl if you’re still friends with your ex   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, I give my younger self some advice with 10 things I wish I had known when I was trying to date back in the day! Specifically, we go over:   The misconceptions I had that girls wouldn’t want to date me The importance of understanding what a date is… and isn’t Why all girls who flake on you should be sent packing The one and only way a woman’s actions can REALLY affect you Why you should kiss all girls at the end of the 1st or 2nd date, even if you think they may not like you   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, Harry goes to various dating forums to answer post questions placed up by other members! Specifically, we go over:   How to respond when a girl you’re talking to online doesn’t want to give you her number (but wants yours) Why a girl may continue to hang out/flirt with you after she’s rejected your date offer The importance of carrying a condom on you at all times – even if you don’t think you’ll run into a situation that requires one The effect of gaining muscles & learning to look better on women… and why it often doesn’t work Why guys flock towards cute girls (despite not being 10s)       …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, it’s MAILBAG MONDAY! Today’s question comes from a guy who met a woman online, and in the course of a week’s time they went out everyday, talked to each other on the phone all the time, started a few fights, had sex (him for the first time), had some more fights, and eventually she dumped him! He now wants to know where he went wrong.  Specifically, we talk about:   The mistake of assuming you’re in a relationship just because she has sex with you Why you shouldn’t see a girl every single day when you first start dating her How you should react when she tells you things that indicate she’s flirting with other guys Why you need to apply the “3-month” rule to dating Ultimatums, and why they don’t work Jealousy, and why it doesn’t work How a girl who REALLY likes you treats you vs. one with lowering interest Why a girl will leave you even if you have great sex with her   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like d

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about why you shouldn’t throw a hissy fit just because a girl’s not wanting to sleep with you on a date! Specifically, we go over:   The reason I used to get upset when sex was taken off the table The numerous reasons a woman may not want to have sex that night after the date – and it has NOTHING to do with her losing interest in you What can happen when you don’t let a lack of sex on a date get to you – and why she may end up initiating MORE sex with you as a result Why it’s not a bad idea for YOU to take sex off the plate for the evening every once in a while, especially when you’re still getting to know her   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about the importance of becoming the kind of guy a woman would want to align herself with! Specifically, we go over:   What Jennifer Lopez’s previous relationships can teach you about how a woman aligns herself with men she likes The qualities women look for that help them to decide if they’re going to date you Why it’s harder for women to choose you if you don’t have certain parts of your life together The importance of allowing her to align herself with you WITHOUT losing the person she is – and why YOU have to monitor it for her   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, it’s MAILBAG MONDAY! Today’s question comes from a guy who has a woman from school he meets up regularly with at the gym. He wants to take her out, but she keeps flaking, despite the flirty signals and gym invitation she gave to him, and wants to know how to move forward with her! Specifically, we talk about:   Why you must NEVER accept a woman’s invitation to be part of her routine early on What a woman is subconsciously thinking when you show up to her requested activity – and why it does NOT bode well for you The importance of seeing her on an actual DATE vs. hanging with her at her regular spot   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about why you MUST be okay with paying for those first dates with a new woman! Specifically, we go over:   How it is that the woman is actually paying MORE than you are for that first date (and not in the way you think) The importance of planning dates that don’t cost much, yet can still impress Why it’s okay to take a girl out to dinner and pay for it The importance of showing her you care about her by paying for her good time The REAL cost of that first date for her, and where all the money goes   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, it’s MAILBAG MONDAY! Today’s questions both have the same theme: guys who texted too much, started to lose the woman’s interest and now want to know how to cut back on their message-sending in an attempt to rebuild her interest! Specifically, we talk about:   Can it be done? Can you scale back on texting once you’ve been established as a serial texter? Why you shouldn’t believe the myth that “texting more attracts them more” Why it’s important for her to EARN the right to hear from you on a more consistent basis   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we have another segment in our series of videos called “A Non Juan Story,” where women tell us stories about men they went out with, and the things they did to cause them to be turned off! Today, we have a girl named Magdalene stop by to tell us all about a guy that wanted to date her, but had too many attitude, wardrobe, and emotional issues to make it happen! Hopefully you guys will be able to use it as an example of something you should NOT be doing on dates! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, I interview musician and close friend T. Whistle, a man who is one of the 3% with “Natural” game! We pick his brain and ask him about his secret to making attracting women to him look so easy! Specifically, we go over:   Mistakes he made early in the game, and the importance of NOT ignoring “red flags” The importance of detachment and not being so eager for her to like you How to get your mind into the right place so you won’t talk about depressing stuff on date What to talk about when you can’t think of what to say (Hint: ALL people like talking about this subject) The “Three-Second Rule” and what judgements are being made about you during that time       …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, it’s MAILBAG MONDAY! We answer a comment left by a loyal listener on a previous podcast about whether or not a statement I made on that podcast goes against what I’ve preached in various other podcast! Specifically, we talk about:   His issue with me saying it’s okay to talk to dates about exes in while saying it’s NOT okay in many other podcast – and why he’s right to bring it up! Clarification: when it’s okay to bring up your dating experiences at certain times The reason passively mentioning other girls’ attraction towards you (in the past or present) can sway girls that may be undecided about you   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !