Stop Losing Women Podcast

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about how you can find YOUR dating process so that you treat all girls you’re dating the same (in the beginning)! Specifically, we go over:   Why all girls think they’re “different” from other women – and why they’re really NOT The process I use on every new girl I date during the 1st three months – with success! Why it’s okay to use similar tactics on each girl you date The importance of making her FEEL and BELIEVE that she’s the only person you’ve done certain things with (even if she knows it may not be true) How to add/subtract things from your process to make your dating life the most efficient   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about the importance of being respectful of her time! Specifically, we go over:   What a girl is REALLY saying when she accepts your date request, and what she has to go through to prepare for it Why it’s YOUR job to know your schedule BEFORE you ask her out Why she has every right to NOT accept your request to reschedule a date The areas of time being disrespected when you try to change plans last minute Why asking her to “just hang out” is also showing disrespect for her time   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, it’s MAILBAG MONDAY! We answer a question from a listener that wants to know how to talk to a girl and figure out where he stands with her! Specifically, we talk about:   Why there’s really no need to have the “Where Do I stand with you” speech The ACTIONS you should be doing to build her interest and make her want to be in a relationship with you Why it’s much more beneficial for HER to come to YOU with the “Where do I stand” speech Signals you should be allowing a girl to show you to better read her interest    …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about how you can brag to a girl about your successes without coming across like a douche bag! Specifically, we go over:   Why girls will NOT be impressed if you directly talk about your accomplishments The RIGHT way to bring up your successes without it looking like an act of desperation The passive ways you can let a woman know you’re well off, great in bed, blessed with a good job, etc. How NOT mentioning certain things about your impressive life will increase her interest in you even MORE when she finds about about those things for herself    …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about how to comfort a girl when she’s going through a hard time! Specifically, we go over:       A HUGE mistake most guys make when their girlfriend is going through a problem How doing “nothing” is actually doing something The REAL reason a girl dumps you during a tragedy – and it has to do with YOUR “helpful” response to her situation Why she will actually feel CLOSER to you when you simply listen to what she’s saying and “helping” her in the ways requested       …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, it’s MAILBAG MONDAY! We answer FOUR questions today, including:   Should a guy write his ex telling her how he’s changed? How can a guy get better at approaching women in public to ask them out? When is my “Online Dating Course” going to finally come out?? What can a guy do after he’s slipped back into his AFC ways of acting and is causing his girl to lose interest?    …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we have a new segment called “A Non Juan Story,” where women tell us stories about men they went out with, and the things they did to cause them to be turned off! Today, we have a girl named Destiny stop by to tell us her dating horror story – hopefully you guys will be able to use it as an example of something you should NOT be doing on dates! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, I interview comedian and entertainer Tre Luv, who also happens to be quite the ladies man! We pick his brain and ask him all about the art of the cold approach! Specifically, we go over:   A MAJOR signal a guy should look for from a girl to indicate her interest Why what you wear is so important How words and confidence play a HUGE role in her choosing to talk to you How and why women are willing to over-extend themselves to you voluntarily IF they like you Lines and words used by Tre Luv to get a girl’s number within 15 seconds of meeting her    …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, it’s MAILBAG MONDAY! I got a message from a listener who wants to date but not seriously, and is worried about leading women on! He also asks me some other questions, including:   How long have I been a dating expert, and what are my credentials? How is serial dating different from random hook ups? How do you date a girl as a half-decent person without leading her on? How do you pick up the signals early on if a girl is looking for something more serious vs a girl who is just looking for casual dating? Where do you find most of the girls that you end up dating?    …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about the 5 steps a guy should take to keep a woman interested AFTER the first date! Specifically, we go over:   The “Lather, Rinse & Repeat” dating method Why it’s CRUCIAL for you to NOT do certain things to help you gauge HER interest The importance of not contacting her immediately after the first date How waiting 3 months to make her the girlfriend not only helps you, but MOTIVATES her to think about you two as a couple   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about abundance mentality vs. scarcity mentality, and it’s effect on your dating life! Specifically, we go over:   Why it doesn’t benefit you to believe you only have a choice of ONE girl How a guy ends up with blinders in dating What happens when you allow your ego to become too involved in your dating life Why you should always keep an open mind about being able to find someone else, even if you think you’ve found the girl of your dreams   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, it’s MAILBAG MONDAY! I got an interesting message from a listener who’s having a tough time getting over a girl, and asked me what steps I took to become better with women – so, I answered his question! Specifically, we go over:   The situation I went through with a girl in college that caused me to fail my first senior year – and the HUGE lessons I took from it The 5 steps I did to start becoming better with women The importance of not allowing your ego to dictate how you feel when a woman reacts to you in a certain way (be it positively or negatively) Why having your own life together is VITAL when it comes to your self-confidence and your ability to attract – and keep – women    …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about the power of not talking so much! Specifically, we go over:   Why you can’t talk to your girl in the same way you talk to your guy friends The reason women are more sensitive to words than guys are Why it’s okay to not answer every question she asks you The importance of monitoring your side comments to her BEFORE they are said The secret guys married for 20+ years have learned about communicating with their wives   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about how a guy can help her release her desire to sleep with him without having her feel bad about it later! Specifically, we go over: The importance of helping her create a “plausible excuse” for her “yes” decision Why women do not respond with “yes” to direct pursuits of sex What to talk about during the date that will make her want to “check out” your place later How to make one date feel like 3 or more dates so she’ll become more comfortable with you quicker The ONE thing you should always have at your place – guaranteed to make her be in more of a “yes” mood! ...and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, it’s MAILBAG MONDAY! We answer a message from a listener who wants to get in contact again with a girl who dumped him 4 and a half months ago! Specifically, we go over:   The REAL purpose of going “No Contact” and why you shouldn’t expect it to make her want you back Why the chances of her taking you back are lessened if SHE did the dumping Sure she dumped you “today,” but how long was she wanting to do it? The truth about her not wanting to “risk” contacting you… especially if she thinks you’re the love of her life The best course of action this guy could take in this scenario   …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we debunk the myth about women having a LARGE number of prospects to choose from! Specifically, we go over: Why contacting her constantly in an attempt to have her remember you will NOT work in your favor Why women do not take every prospect that comes along trying to date them How LESS contact in the beginning can result in a higher probability of her going out with you    …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about 5 reasons why trying to plan a date based on her timetable will usually result in her not wanting to go out with you! Specifically, we go over:   Why being courteous and asking her to let you know her schedule is actually a BAD thing How to ask her out and allow her to give input without making it FEEL like you’re doing so Why she’s more apt to bend to date days that work for YOU vs. the other way around How being able to do a date “whenever she’s free” takes away the specialness (in her mind) of the kind of date you’re planning The positive male qualities that are displayed when you ask her out without worrying about when she’s free    …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, it’s MAILBAG MONDAY! We answer a question from a listener who has been texting a girl everyday, and wants to know why she recently stopped being the one to text him first! Specifically, we go over:   Where guys fail in texting game Why a girl would rather meet up with you in person vs. you wanting to build up comfort via the phone The time limit on how long a guy has to ask her out before she stops responding altogether   We also answer a question from ANOTHER listener about why the woman he’s dating doesn’t feel like he’s really trying to get to know her! Specifically, we go over:   How his dating schedule with this girl is making her FEEL like he’s not getting to know her (even if he is) The TRUTH about why a woman delays sex when she’s feeling like you’re not connecting with her How a guy with a busy schedule can still carve out quality time to make her feel cared for    …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d

On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about the importance of continuing to plan dates with a woman after you’ve made her the girlfriend! Specifically, we go over:   The importance of planning a date a few days out vs. the same day or next day How guys fall into the trap of inviting her over vs. asking her on a REAL date Why a girl will be wooed by you continuing to take her out Why she is likely to lose interest in you if all your “quality time” with her is spent at home How often you should try taking her out on a REAL date to keep the spark alive    …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !  

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we interview fan favorite McKenzie about the wrong – and right – ways to comfort a girl when she’s going through something! Specifically, we go over:   Is it more important to listen or give advice when she comes to you with a problem/situation? What a girl is feeling when her guy tries to bypass her feelings How not to appear insensitive to her needs – and how just listening actually CAN be helpful When is it okay for a guy to give advice or help to her situation? How you can tell if what you’re doing is helpful, or if she’s taking your advice    …and much more! Got a dating question, comment about the show or a topic you’d like discussed? Send Harry a message !