Are You Being Real? | The One & Only Podcast

Listen & Subscribe on iTunes   Imagine a world that's a cross between Disneyland and Willy Wonka where you can be whoever you want to be, do what you want to do, dance how you want to dance, and just express yourself as you please with 69,999 other for an entire week. This place exists for one week a year and it's called Burning Man. For Mark, Burning Man almost serves as New Years. He uses it as a time to assess where his life has taken him since the last Burn and where he is at emotionally, spiritually, physically, and romantically. Even though this past year has been challenging, it's also been full of immense growth. In Episode 187, Mark shares what made this year's Burn particularly special. Stay tuned to the end of the episode for a list of special affirmations that help Mark through his challenges and could be of service to you as well.   Connect with Mark:  AreYouBeingReal.com | Instagram   Show Notes: -What is Burning Man? -Why Burning Man is like New Years. -Common challenges you encounter at Bu

Listen & Subscribe on iTunes   We’ve all heard of the importance of ‘trusting our gut’ and, If you’re like most, it’s often times easier said than done. The world is full of so much noise and distraction trying to compete for our attention.  Sometimes, our own logical thoughts paralyze us to the point where we become overwhelmed and don’t take any action. Whether these stumbling blocks are self-imposed or not, it’s important for us to get acquainted with the tool that the Universe has given each and every one of us: our intuition. In Episode 186, Mark sits down with Kirra Sherman, the host of The Deeper Spark Podcast and a fearless intuition coach. She has been helping others get familiar with and trust their gut and live more in tune with the deeper spark inside us all. Whether your struggling to trust your intuition when it comes to your business, your relationships, or just struggling to let go and allowing your inner-self to deviate from your plans, you’re sure to find unique insights and takeaways on

Listen & Subscribe on iTunes   Some of life's biggest regrets revolve around our authenticity and our relationships. The choice of what and who we choose to give our time, attention, and love to can profoundly affect us and have long-lasting consequences, which is why it's a good idea to assess where you at and where you want to go. It's time to have the courage to free yourself of any relationship that isn't meeting your expectation or inspiring you to live your 'higher game.' Adam Gilad has had to do just that many time in his life in order to live inspired and to truly be supported in his great vision.  He's an inspiring speaker, writer, producer, and relationship expert that embodies the word 'boldness,' especially when it comes to finding and cultivating the relationships of his dreams. If you want to learn how to live the 'higher game' and live more boldly in your life, tune in to this episode!   Connect with Adam:  AdamGilad.com   Show Notes: -How Adam came up with the name for his hot tub. -An imp

Listen & Subscribe on iTunes   There are moments in our life when we feel disconnected from others and want to meet new people to help breath new life into our day-to-day. Whether it's for business connections, dating, or just new potential friendships, we all experience insecurities, especially when it comes to connecting with random strangers. Even though he had a comfortable job straight out of college as a consultant for Deloitte, Rob Lawless decided to get rid of his insecurities and work on becoming world-class at connecting with random strangers. He's currently on a mission to connect with 10,000 new friends to see what kind of possibilities open up for them and for himself. It's what he's dedicating his life to at the moment and it's where his personal satisfaction and passion lies. In this episode, Mark sits down with Rob to discuss how the project came to be, the lessons he's learned along the way, and what the future holds. You're sure to find some inspiration for finding your own unique path,

Listen & Subscribe on iTunes   Ben Morrison describes himself as a comedian, writer, actor, and director. But he is so much more than that.  He's also an internationally celebrated (by few) photographer of sheep and the self-proclaimed Michael Phelps of poop jokes.  Most importantly, he is a hilariously outspoken advocate for Crohn's Disease education and a dear friend of Mark. While most comedians decided to pull back on their craft just after 9/11, Ben decided to double down and use it as a method of healing his own emotional wounds as well as his audience's.  His courage to write material on difficult subjects has helped many cope with their own stigmas, especially around Crohn's Disease (something Ben has had since his youth).  Tune in to see for yourself how Ben's incredible example shows us how to laugh in the face of adversity and help others find their laughter along the way as well.   Connect with Ben: Instagram | Twitter | BenTheMorrison.com   Show Notes: -How 9/11 affected the comedy scene. -Be

  Kyle Kesterson comes back for a bonus episode of his discussion with Mark on fear.  Over the course of his life, Kyle has developed the ability to quickly identify a fear and then take massive action to push back on it, all thanks to his analysis of The Four Dimensions of Fear. He first shared it with Mark on their trip to Israel.  Mark liked it so much that he had to have him share it with us during their interview. Mark also shares a time where he had to face one of his own fears, which oddly enough, was the same experience that led to the creation of the 'Are You Being Real' name for the podcast!  Do yourself a favor and tune in for a second helping of Kyle and his wisdom! Connect with Kyle: Instagram | Twitter | KyleKesterson.com   Show Notes: -What does F.E.A.R. stand for? -The Four Dimensions of Fear -How fear relates to excitement. -How Kyle uses changes in his physiology when facing a fear. -How Mark faced a personal fear on the dance floor and came up with 'Are You Being Real.'   Books mentioned: T

Kyle Kesterson can easily be labeled as an adventurer, an entrepreneur, a digital nomad, a storyteller, and fearless.  However, he prefers to be "Unlabeled," as his Instagram shows.  If he had a mantra to guide his life by, it would be "I wonder where this road goes..."  He is wise, well-traveled, and a unique example of true fearless.  I had the privilege of meeting him on my recent trip to Israel and I absolutely had to have him on to share his wisdom with all of you. In this episode, I sit down with Kyle in his van (aka "The Bromfmobile") and discuss his childhood, life as a founder and entrepreneur and how becoming self-aware of his own fear propelled him to a TEDx talk (among many other speaking engagements) and a radically awesome, fearless life.   This is a hefty episode full of many insights and realizations you'll not want to miss.   Connect with Kyle: Instagram | Twitter | KyleKesterson.com   Show Notes: -Kyle's past and how he learned to lean into his fears. -How sharing his past has allowed him to

  Franco Acosta is a name you may have heard Mark shoutout at the end of some past episodes. He's the current producer/editor of the Are You Being Real Podcast and a behind-the-scenes ninja on a lot of Mark's projects.  But what you don't know is that Franco and Mark met just barely a year ago thanks to some serendipitous events that made their paths cross (or were they? Franco believes there are no such things as coincidences). In this episode, Franco shares what it took for him to finally make the leap and move to Los Angeles to pursue his dream of acting (a goal many in this town can relate to). The lessons and insights he's picked up along the way can be of value to anyone, no matter what goals they have.  Past guest Jake Greene said: "Everyone wants to be a part of a great story" and stories like Franco's show us that we all have the potential to be the protagonist of our own great story if we're bold enough to begin it.   Learn more about Are You Being Real at AreYouBeingReal.com/180 Connect with Franc

Mark Shapiro is a self-proclaimed 'self-help dork' and loves to read.  Sometimes it's to prep for an upcoming guest on the podcast. Sometimes it's for fun. Regardless of the reason, he's put in his time to seek growth from many books.  It doesn't matter if it's printed on pages, scrolling on his phone, or listening to the audiobook, Mark is always taking something in.   On today's episode, Mark shares his top five books for personal development that anyone can jump into and find value for themselves and their vision.  These are definitely game changers and should be looked at if you haven't done so already.   Let us know what you think of Mark's list and what books you would have included if we had to make a longer list!   Connect with Mark: Instagram  | Email | TEDx Talk      Books Featured: The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz The Artist's Way by Julia Cameron The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle The ONE Thing by Gary Keller How To Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie Other books worthy che

Tommy Sobel has a unique resume: he was a published student of neuroscience, he's been Steven Spielberg's right-hand man on set, and he became the top executive at Amblin Partner's New Media division (formally DreamWorks Studios). He knows very well just how enticing our phones can be (it was his job to keep us glued to them through his company's content).  Now, he's left that all behind to help us have a healthier relationship with our phone and technology.  He's founded GoBrickNow.com, which shows us how through one simple phone hack, we can reclaim some of our time back and truly connect with the world and the people in it. In this episode, I sit down with Tommy to talk about lessons he's learned along the way going from student, to set assistant, to new media executive, to social entrepreneur.  We talk about how his new phone usage habits affect his relationships, his business, and how we can benefit from the same.  You'll also see how a simple object as a pen can make all the difference in your life. Lea

On this episode, Mark shares some thoughts he's had recently as he's traveled to Greece and Israel in search of his next big move to further his vision, his understanding of the Israeli/Palestinian conflict and how it relates to us, and his top ten tips to rely on when we ask ourselves the following question: What are we supposed to do when we find ourselves in a really tough situation where we feel defeated, like we've tried everything, and just don't know where to turn next?  We're excited to bring you more valuable content and to create more opportunities for you, the listener, to contribute and participate with the Are You Being Real team.  Stay subscribed and be on the lookout for exciting news in the coming weeks.      Learn more about The Schusterman FoundationLearn more about Are You Being Real at AreYouBeingReal.com/177

On this episode, Mark shared with you his appearance on an episode of "The One You Feed" podcast.  We all have two 'wolves' inside of us: one is good and the other bad.  Our energy and focus is what provides nourishment and there is only so much to go around.  Do you feed the good wolf or the bad wolf? Mark goes into how these wolves show up in his life and how he deals with them.  Also, the team at AreYouBeingReal.com have put together a musical montage of some of the most stand-out moments of the past few weeks on the podcast.  Our hope is that you'll see yourself in these guests in knowing that EVERYONE goes through challenges and has felt the struggle.  You're not alone and you're in good company.    Guests featured in the montage: Matty Mo aka "The Most Famous Artist" Ricki Lake Andrew Horn Amber Rae Preston Smiles Caitlin Turner Amber Valdez Alex Banayan Learn more about Are You Being Real at AreYouBeingReal.com/176

On this week’s episode, we continue our four-part Group Podcast series with our third episode where my guests discuss what that 'thing' about themselves is that they still struggle to love about themselves.  Not only do they get real about what they really dislike, but one of my guests reveals that they have deep, unresolved beef from years ago with another guest. It gets a little heated. It's definitely an episode you will not want to miss. This week’s guests are: Caitlin Turner: an empowering Instagram influencer (@gypsetgoddess). Zach Puchtel: a musician and  transformational author of the upcoming book “The American.” Amber Valdez: The "Life Purpose Cheerleader" coach and author of Stickie Affirmations. Preston Smiles: a popular transformational YouTuber, and founder of ‘Man Cave,’ an online brotherhood of conscious men. This concept was conceived from the positive feedback we received on Episode 149 where I brought in 5 of my friends and just sat around and talked about life and what’s real for us. If

Jake Greene is a speaker, author, new media expert, and former business consultant to top companies such as Allstate, Hilton, and GameStop (among others).  His newest book, Create Great Videos, was recently published this past April and is packed with inspiring examples of creatives making a difference with their content.  It definitely worth picking up and giving yourself the opportunity to learn from his many interviews. In this episode, I sit down with Jake and discuss what it takes to make impactful content, what it takes to get started and make a big idea grow, and our differences in how we use social media to connect with others.  He's an incredibly intelligent guy with a vault of knowledge that you'll be sure to learn from.  Give this episode a listen and share it with the creatives in your life! Learn more about Are You Being Real at AreYouBeingReal.com/174   Links Mentioned: -Get your copy of Create Great Videos by Jake Greene and Reza Izad -Get your copy of Whoa, My Boss Is Naked!  by Jake Greene -J

On this week’s episode, we continue our four-part Group Podcast series with our second episode touching on the topic of Racism. This is a delicate, sensitive, and hot-button topic and I'm delighted with the bold, inspiring, and honest answers our guests answered on the spot. It's a topic that definitely doesn't get address nearly enough and I'm happy to share this with you. This week’s guests are: Caitlin Turner: an empowering Instagram influencer (@gypsetgoddess). Zach Puchtel: a musician and  transformational author of the upcoming book “The American.” Amber Valdez: The "Life Purpose Cheerleader" coach and author of Stickie Affirmations. Preston Smiles: a popular transformational YouTuber, and founder of ‘Man Cave,’ an online brotherhood of conscious men. This concept was conceived from the positive feedback we received on Episode 149 where I brought in 5 of my friends and just sat around and talked about life and what’s real for us. If you'd like to listen to part 1 of this series, check out Episode 171

Alex Banayan is a speaker, venture capitalist, and (as of June 5, 2018) a published author.  His new book, The Third Door, is Alex's story of how he stopped at nothing to interview some of the world's most influential people to learn the makings of success including Lady Gaga, Tim Ferriss, Warren Buffet, Steven Spielberg, and Bill Gates. Alex is a prime example of how a hungry amateur can accomplish great things in creative ways that seasoned professionals simply don't.  In today's episode, we discuss the challenges Alex had to face and lessons he learned on his seven year road to writing his book, the advantages of being an amateur, and how everyone can get what they want in life using the principle discussed in The Third Door (we also touch on the recent passing of his father and how it influences him today).  When you feel stuck or frustrated with where you are at, this book and podcast episode is an excellent reminder that "There is always a way." Learn more about Are You Being Real at AreYouBeingReal.com

On this week’s episode, we shake things up by bringing four friends of mine into the studio as part of a new group format we are experimenting with here at Are You Being Real.  This concept was conceived from the positive feedback we received on Episode 149 where I brought in 5 of my friends and just sat around and talked about life and what’s real for us. This week’s guests are: Caitlin Turner: an empowering Instagram influencer (@gypsetgoddess). Zach Puchtel: a musician and  transformational author of the upcoming book “The American.” Amber Valdez: The "Life Purpose Cheerleader" coach and author of Stickie Affirmations. Preston Smiles: a popular transformational YouTuber, and founder of ‘Man Cave,’ an online brotherhood of conscious men. They discuss what limiting beliefs are STILL holding them back even after doing their own personal development work for years.  They all share honestly and openly except for one guest that gets called out while the microphones are still rolling (listen through to the end

Alicia Dunams is a master communicator, coach, author, and speaker. Her new book, I Get To, is full of invaluable tips and tricks on how best to communicate with others, as well as with yourself. In addition to being an author herself, Alicia also helps others turn their messages into bestselling books through her program, Bestseller in a Weekend. In today’s episode we discuss the importance of jumping into those sweaty-palm conversations and how openness ultimately gives us freedom, how to be inspired by the gap between where you are and where you want to be, and simple frame shifts that will help you harness the power of the words in order to achieve your biggest goals and dreams. Learn more about The One & Only at AreYouBeingReal.com/170

Amber Rae is an author, speaker, and artist who has has a new book out called Choose Wonder Over Worry. It's all about creating a new relationship with that voice in our head, and it comes from Amber's personal journey after burning out from a career in the corporate world. "My focus on the inward journey is what catapulted my outward journey." - Amber Rae Learn more about The One & Only at AreYouBeingReal.com/169

Judy Carter has been making people laugh for over twenty years. As a bestselling author, speaker, and comedian, Judy shares stories of how she has turned her biggest messes into her biggest successes, and inspires others to do the same. Tune in to learn how to use comedy to gain power over your problems, find the extraordinary lessons in an ordinary day, and act authentically to effect change in those around you. Learn more about The One & Only at AreYouBeingReal.com/168