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In this electric Shameless Sex episode, BDSM mastermind Orpheus Black returns to decode the art of the Switch—the deliciously fluid player who can dominate, submit, and glide between the two with swagger and grace. Whether you suspect a Switch lives inside you or you’re already toggling roles but want more skill (and less whiplash), this conversation hands you the roadmap. What you’ll learn before the flogger even warms up:   • Switch 101: how Orpheus defines Dominance, submission, and the magic zone where they meet.   • The “Am I a Switch?” checklist—desires, tells, and green-flag feelings to watch for.   • Rookie rules: scene negotiation, consent choreography, and aftercare when both partners’ needs flip.   • Level-up tactics: pacing power exchanges, reading energy shifts, and avoiding the dreaded role-confusion hangover.   • Lifestyle vs. play-only switching—how to keep everyday power dynamics healthy (and brunch-friendly).   • The Ultimate Switch toolkit: mindset exercises, communication hacks, and

Novelist, curator, humanitarian, conscious business leader and modern mystic Renee Blodgett has lived multiple lives in one. Having traveled around the world, she has plenty of stories, from riding elephants in the Indian jungle and photographing polar bears in northern Canada to teaching English in Kenya, exploring glaciers in Iceland and selling kilims in Turkey. She has lived in eleven countries, including South Africa during Apartheid and the Gaza Strip.  Her multicultural background and years of experience as a communications strategist have led to a career of uplifting others through content, speaking, coaching and leading. Known as a master of storytelling, she has written for several magazines and networks and her own award-winning online travel magazine, We Blog the World, which reaches over half a million globally.   Renee has launched award-winning campaigns for start-ups and Fortune 500 brands for nearly thirty years and has appeared as a spokesperson on major network broadcast stations and glob

Want to have the ultimate sex—whether you’ve got a pussy or a penis?   In this Shameless Sex mashup episode, we’re diving deep into the most unforgettable moments with Keeley Rankin, M.A., a leading intimacy and relationship coach since 2010. From decoding orgasms to overcoming shame, Keeley’s expert insights will help you unlock new levels of pleasure, confidence, and connection.   Here’s what you’ll learn:  Proven techniques to enhance and expand your orgasmic pleasure (#199 All About Orgasms)   How to navigate and overcome premature ejaculation, delayed ejaculation, and erectile challenges (#184)   Powerful tools to shed penis shame and embrace your sexual self without judgment (#403 Overcoming Penis Shame)   The transformative practice of “less doing, more being” to invite deeper pleasure and presence (#351 Less Doing + More Being = Hello Pleasure)  Listen to the full episodes here: #199 All About Orgasms #184 Premature Ejaculation, Delayed Ejaculation and Ed  #403 Overcomi

Get ready for a shameless discussion with the legendary, the iconic, and the amazing…Nina Hartley!  Join Amy and April as they sit down in person with the iconic Nina Hartley on the Shameless Sex podcast. Known as "a legend in the adult world" by CNBC and an "advocate for sexual freedom" by Las Vegas Weekly, Nina brings decades of experience and insight to this candid conversation. With a career spanning over 1,000 adult films, numerous awards, and a reputation as a fierce advocate for sexual freedom, Nina brings her unique perspective and expertise to the conversation. Here's what you can expect to learn from this episode: How Nina went from nurse to sex educator to porn performer and creator, and what she's learned along the way A game-changing pussy-eating tip that will leave you (and your partner) begging for more The surprising truth about skin hunger and why we're all aching for touch What Big Dick Energy really means (and how to get it) The powerful ways in which embracin

In this epic mashup episode of Shameless Sex, we're throwing it back to some of our favorite conversations with the incomparable Reid Mihalko. As a renowned sex educator, Reid has been a repeat guest on our show, and for good reason - his expertise and charisma are simply irresistible. Join us as we revisit some of the hottest topics from his previous episodes, guaranteed to leave you feeling informed, empowered, and maybe even a little bit naughty. In this mashup episode, you’ll hear clips and tips from Reid about: #105 Threesomes #326 Orgies and Play Parties #423 Are Unicorns Real?  #5 Casual sex - first episode with a guest!  Here's what you can expect to learn from this mashup episode: The dos and don'ts of navigating threesomes, orgies, and play parties The lowdown on unicorns: are they real, and how can you find (or become) one? The art of casual sex: how to do it right, wit Reid as our very first guest on Shameless Sex Tips and tricks for managing jeal

Are You Ready to Level Up Your Sex Life? Join us in this sizzling episode of Shameless Sex as we sit down with the incredible Shan Boodram, AASECT certified sex educator, certified Sexologist, and host of the Lovers by Shan podcast. She also has an incredible MasterClass we love called The Art of Sex Appeal. With over 20 years of studying and experiencing sex, Shan is on a mission to guide and support those who are already on their sexual journey. Here's what you can expect to learn from this episode: • How to navigate your unique body and desires to enhance your sex life • The importance of sex positions tailored to your body and your partner's • How to prioritize women's pleasure and create a more satisfying experience • Tips and tricks from the Kama Sutra to live a more pleasurable and connected life • How to transition from a novice to an "athlete" in the bedroom • A sneak peek into Shan's erotic jewelry line, Kama, and her MasterClass, The Art of Sex Appeal Shan's passion for modern intimacy and relati

Are you ready for some real tips and tricks for a mind-blowing sex life? In this exciting mashup episode of Shameless Sex, we’re diving into the wisdom of the incredible Alicia and Erwan Davon, renowned Relationship Coaches and San Francisco's leading Tantra Teachers. Since 1995, they've transformed relationships with their innovative Davon Method, teaching over 20,000 students through groups, retreats, and individual sessions.  In this mashup episode, you’ll hear juicy clips and the Davon’s top tips for: #374 Kissing Like a Pro: Master the art of the perfect kiss that leaves your partner wanting more. #401 Stripping Away Body Insecurities: Learn how to embrace your body and boost your confidence in and out of the bedroom. #327 Bringing in a Third: Navigate the exciting yet challenging world of threesomes with ease and respect. #310 The Art of Orgasmic Anal Sex: Unlock the beauty of the orgasmic backdoor from the experts.  Benefits for You: Gain practical tips to enhance your intimate and sexual c

Are you ready to take your intimate conversations to the next level? In this episode of Shameless Sex, we dive into the tantalizing world of dirty talk with the incredible Ashley Manta! Join us as Ashley—an award-winning sex educator and the mastermind behind the CannaSexual® brand—shares her expertise on how to spice up your verbal game in the bedroom. With a history as a phone sex operator and a wealth of knowledge on the mindful integration of cannabis and eroticism, Ashley is here to help you embrace the awkward and find your unique voice. What You’ll Learn: The Art of Dirty Talk: Discover how to confidently express your desires and fantasies. Embracing Imperfection: Learn why it’s okay for your dirty talk to be awkward or imperfect. Body Language vs. Words: Explore how sometimes, actions speak louder than words. Personalization: Understand that what’s sexy is different for everyone—find what works for you and your partner. Practical Tips: Get actionable advice on how to start incorporating dirty t

We’re excited to bring you a special feed drop from Rom Com Vom, a miniseries from Sex Ed with DB that dives into the messy, funny, and sometimes uncomfortable themes in our favorite romantic comedies. This clip comes from their episode on 10 Things I Hate About You, where host Danielle Bezalel is joined by comedian and director Melissa Strype. They break down the film’s gender dynamics, Patrick Verona’s bad boy charm, and what still holds up — or really doesn’t — in this late 90s teen classic. Listen to the full episode here and find Sex Ed with DB wherever you get your podcasts. Austin! Dallas! Santa Cruz! Come to one of our next live shows for our Who's Your Daddy Tour: https://www.shamelesssex.com/whos-your-daddy-tour Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links:

Are you ready to dive into the wild world of dating? From sparks flying to cringe-worthy moments, this episode of Shameless Sex has it all! Join us as we welcome Dirty Lola, the award-winning sex edutainer and self-proclaimed dildo slinger, to unpack the complexities of modern dating. Known for her live Q&A show, Sex Ed A Go-Go, and her role as a Sexpert on the Emmy-nominated Netflix docuseries The Principles of Pleasure, Lola brings her wealth of knowledge and playful spirit to the conversation. In this episode, you’ll learn: The highs and lows of dating in today’s world How to navigate awkward first dates and red flags Tips for effective communication and setting boundaries Dating app hacks from the expert  The importance of self-love and confidence in attracting the right partner  Real-life dating stories that will make you laugh and cringe Get ready to giggle, gasp, and gain insights that will transform your dating life! Whether you're swiping right or feeling stuck in a dating rut, this episode

Navigate the complexities of modern relationships and sex with the help of one of the world’s most trusted voices in sexuality. In this episode of Shameless Sex, we sit down with Dan Savage, the best-selling author and the brilliant mastermind behind the Savage Love column and the Savage Love podcast. Get ready for an eye opening discussion that will leave you questioning, laughing, and HUMPing! In this episode, you’ll discover: The wild ride of podcasting since 2005: What it was like to be an original podcaster and how the medium has evolved.  Writing about sex since the 90’s: How Dan’s shaped sex past, present, and future.  An inside look at HUMP! Fest: The inspiration behind it, Dan’s HUMP! journey, and why you need to experience it for yourself (and possibly become a HUMP creator yourself). Dan’s Dictionary: What is GGG, Tolyamory, and other fascinating words and phrases all coined by Dan. New sexual terms and trends: What’s bubbling up in the world of sex, and how Dan brilliantly interprets them.

Are you ready to elevate your oral game and become a fellatio champ? This episode of Shameless Sex is packed with juicy insights and expert advice from the incredible Dr. Alison Ash! Join us as we dive deep into everything you need to know to master the art of oral pleasure. From anatomy to technique, we’ve got you covered! In this episode, you’ll learn: The surprising reasons some people shy away from giving oral pleasure and how to overcome those barriers. Why honing your oral skills can transform your confidence in the bedroom. A quick dive into dick anatomy 101—because knowing your canvas is key! Essential tips and tools for providing consistent and reliable penis pleasure. Intermediate and advanced techniques to elevate your skills to the next level. Practical advice for those who are not fans of ejaculate—yes, you can still enjoy the experience! Strategies for penis owners to encourage their partners to embrace oral pleasure. Exciting new offerings from Dr. Aly that you won't want to miss! Wh

Are you ready to dive into the enticing world of bi-curiosity and threesomes? Join us in this episode of Shameless Sex as we explore the thrilling intersection of desire, identity, and pleasure with the incredible Darshana Avila!  In this engaging conversation, we tackle the burning questions surrounding bi-curiosity and navigate the complexities of threesomes in a way that’s both enlightening and playful.   What You’ll Learn The truth behind the stereotype: Are women really more bi-curious? Is bi-curiosity just a phase, or something deeper? Navigating feelings of attraction to women while in a monogamous relationship. Tips for exploring your queerness solo or outside of your partnership. The ins and outs of introducing threesomes into your relationship: communication is key! Debunking the myths: Why is there a preference for same-sex threesomes? Resources and guidance for embracing your bi-curiosity and exploring threesomes. Darshana Avila, a trauma-informed and pleasure-centric erotic educator, is

In this bonus episode Amy interviews her mom - co-owner of the mother-daughter run online adult store (alongside Amy) http://purepleasureshop.com - all about sex toys! From what sex toys were like in the 60's -90's to how they've evolved, as well as her mom's own personal experiences with sex toys from teenage years to current day, be prepared to learn, laugh, and feel inspired to find the right sex toy for you at any age. Key products from the interview: The Magic Wand Mini: https://tinyurl.com/mpbjjc8f The Magic Wand Original: https://tinyurl.com/yc4mfckj SpareParts harnesses: https://tinyurl.com/mrc5m7xk The Big Boss: https://tinyurl.com/yvawp8a3 The Lelo Sona 2: https://tinyurl.com/2pb4enax The Womanizer Premium 2: https://tinyurl.com/hcrk4hw7 Uberlube: https://tinyurl.com/5d78bc66 Shameless Sex Faves: https://tinyurl.com/uy78xce4 AND get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com Join us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in Indio, CA May 8th-11th, 2025! http

Have you ever wondered if unicorns exist—not just in fairy tales but in the world of sexuality? In this tantalizing episode of Shameless Sex, sits down with the fabulous Reid Mihalko, the original Unicorn of the sex education world, to explore the magical realm of threesomes and the unique role of unicorns in intimate relationships. What You’ll Learn: What is a Unicorn? Discover the definition and the reality behind this elusive creature in the world of sexuality. Threesome Midwives: Learn why unicorns are considered the essential guides for navigating threesomes successfully. Pros and Cons: Weigh the benefits and challenges of being a unicorn in today’s dating landscape. Tips for Unicorns: Get practical advice on how to find partners, navigate playtime, and make the most of your unicorn experience. Playing with Unicorns: Essential tips for those looking to connect with and enjoy experiences with unicorns. Join us as we dive into a conversation filled with playful insights, expert advice, and a sprinkl

In this ad-free episode we are celebrating Black History Month by spotlighting a number of our amazing black educators, artists, and doctors who have shared their brilliant wisdom and gifts on our show. From love, dating and finding "the one" to riding him like a cowgirl, oral sex/fellatio, swallowing and deep-throating, and kink/BDSM/bondage - these 7-10 minute clips will blow your mind! For full episodes be sure to check out the following on your favorite podcast app: Damona Hoffman #365 Say F to the Dating Myths and Live Your Own Love Story Tyomi #344 How to Ride that D like a Cowgirl Jody ProHoeVocative #387 Pleasing That D from a Fellatio Expert Dr. Ianessa Humbert #329 Swallowing, Oral Sex, and Deep-Thorating Orpheus Black #333 Tie Me Up! Join us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in Indio, CA May 8th-11th, 2025! https://tinyurl.com/2pfuyvef Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now

Are you ready to explore the future of pleasure? Dive into the vibrant world of sexual wellness with intimacy expert Susan Bratton, as we uncover the most exciting sex trends of 2025 in this hilarious and insightful second part of our two-part series! In this episode, you’ll learn about: Yummy Gummy Sex: Discover how candy flips, love gummies, and even shroom sex are revolutionizing your intimate encounters. At Home STI-Testing: Find out why the pandemic led to a new era in sexual health and how you can test with ease from home. The Clean Sex Oil Movement: Get the scoop on eco-friendly, sustainably packaged sex oils that are redefining self-care. Penis Empowerment & P-Spot Activation: Explore advanced techniques that shift focus from the tip to deeper, more fulfilling experiences. Sex Treat and Retreats: Learn about indulgent getaways that blend goddess embodiment and Tantric exploration, including our very own Shameless Sex retreat in Palm Springs! Join us for a lively conversation filled with

What if we told you that the future of pleasure is not just about the act, but a full-on experience? Buckle up, sexplorers! In this hilariously enlightening episode of Shameless Sex, intimacy expert Susan Bratton is here to spill the tea on the wildest and most innovative sex trends of 2025! Get ready to redefine your pleasure game with insights that are as spicy as they are smart. What you’ll learn: Yoni Massage and Lay-Ons: Discover how this tech-enabled Tantric technique can bring you and your partner closer, whether you're a DIY enthusiast or looking to pamper her! Sex Tech Revolution: From warmth and inflation to photobiomodulation and app-driven orgasm meditation, dive into the fancy-pancy world of next-gen pleasure devices! The New Relationship Landscape: Forget monogamy; we’re diving into the delicious chaos of “SWICY” relationships—sweet and spicy is the new vanilla! Orgasmic Cross-Training: Ready to level up your pleasure? Learn about slow-switch muscles and how to maximize your orgasms tog

Navigating Love in the Digital Age with Nico Vellotta! Ready to spice up your relationship and break the taboo around sex talk? Join us as we dive into the fascinating world of AI and intimacy with the incredible Nico Vellotta, Head of Relationship Science at Arya! In this episode, we’re getting real about how technology is transforming our love lives.  Here’s what you can look forward to: Nico’s Journey: Ever wonder how someone becomes a leading voice in sexuality? Nico shares his inspiring path to the forefront of couples wellness.  Meet Arya: Discover how Arya, the innovative AI intimacy platform, is revolutionizing communication in the bedroom.  Millennial Magic: Why are 80% of Arya’s users millennial women? We break down the stats and reveal the secrets behind this trend. The 7-Year Itch: What is it, and how can you avoid it? Nico’s got the scoop! Awkward Conversations Made Easy: Learn how Arya helps couples tackle uncomfortable discussions about sex, making intimacy feel more accessible and enjoya

Get ready to dive into the most tantalizing episode yet of the Shameless Sex Podcast! This week, we’re chatting with Rob Perkins, one of the geniuses behind OMGyes.com, a groundbreaking platform that’s all about unlocking the secrets of pleasure. If you’ve ever wondered how to spice up your sex life or tap into new realms of satisfaction—this episode is for you! What to Expect: OMGyes Origin Story: Discover how he went from a curious mind to the co-founder of OMGyes, shaping the conversation around sexuality and pleasure. Research Magic: Ever wondered how they gather insights from thousands of folks? Rob spills the tea on their innovative research methods and how they choose their pleasure categories. Results That Matter: Spoiler alert—learning new techniques really can rev up your sexual satisfaction! Perfect timing for those Valentine’s Day plans, right? Techniques that Rock: While we won't reveal every juicy detail, hear about the life-changing techniques that have our hosts buzzing (hello, clitoral sw