Shameless Sex

**What if someone told you that your vagina was trying to tell you something, but you just didn't know how to listen?** Join us on this episode of Shameless Sex as we dive into the world of pelvic floor health with the one and only Dr. Sara Reardon, aka The Vagina Whisperer. With hundreds of thousands of followers on social media and a bestselling book, FLOORED: A Woman's Guide to Pelvic Floor Health at Every Age and Stage, Dr. Reardon is here to spill the tea on all things vagina. **Here's what you can expect to learn from this episode:** • The fascinating story of how Dr. Reardon became The Vagina Whisperer and dedicated her life to helping people care for their pelvic floors • What the heck is the pelvic floor, and why is it so crucial for our overall wellbeing? • The common symptoms of pelvic floor dysfunction and why so many people suffer from it in silence • What to do when your doctor tells you that your pelvic pain or leakage is "just part of being a woman" (hint: it's not okay, and Dr. Reardon

Can you handle the face-to-face intensity of face fucking, sitting, and queening? In this episode of Shameless Sex, we dive head-first (pun intended) into the world of face-centric kink with the incomparable Orpheus Black. This isn't Orpheus' first rodeo with us – he's back for his sixth visit, and we're thrilled to have him share his mastery of the erotic arts. Here's what you can expect to learn: • The nuances of face fucking, face sitting, and queening: what sets them apart, and why people are drawn to these intense, intimate experiences • Safety first: essential precautions and potential risks to consider when exploring these kinks • Top tips for maximizing pleasure and connection during face fucking, face sitting, and queening – from dildo dynamics to queening techniques • The best props and toys to elevate your face-centric play • Orpheus' expertise on the intersection of trauma, transformation, and conscious kink By tuning in, you'll gain a deeper understanding of the complexities and joys of f

Beyond the Bedroom: The Art of F**king vs. Making Love Get ready to dive into the world of intimacy, connection, and unapologetic lovemaking with Erwan and Alicia Davon, the dynamic duo behind the Davon Method. As renowned relationship coaches and Tantra teachers, they're here to dish out the truth on the age-old question: what's the difference between f**king and making love? Here's what you'll learn from this episode: * The fascinating story of how Erwan and Alicia went from individual journeys of self-discovery to creating a revolutionary approach to relationship coaching * The lowdown on the difference between f**king and making love (and why it's not just about semantics) * Alternative terms for "making love" that won't make you roll your eyes (we've got some suggestions!) * How Tantra can transform your sex life (and what it means to f**k Tantrically) * Practical Tantric tools to boost intimacy and connection (no matter your relationship status) * How to apply these tools to your solo practice (

In this special mashup episode, we dive deep into what it really takes to keep passion alive over the long haul with one of our favorite returning guests: Dr. Alison Ash, aka Dr. Aly. As a trauma-informed intimacy coach, Stanford University lecturer, and founder of TurnON.love, Dr. Aly brings a unique blend of academic insight and real-world tools for sustaining emotional and sexual intimacy. We explore: #83 How to Be an Intuitive Lover #311 How to Take the Pressure Off of Sex  #348 How to Keep the Flame Blazing in Longterm Relationships Dr. Aly also shares details about her upcoming courses and retreats, including her popular Sustainable Intimacy: Refuel Passion for Lasting Love couples retreat and her Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Skills online course. Whether you're partnered or solo, this episode is full of actionable insights that can help you connect more deeply, communicate more clearly, and bring more pleasure into your life and relationships. Sustainable Intimacy: Refuel Passion for Lasting

The Ultimate Pleasure Experiment: Can a Magic Wand Really Change Your Sex Life? Get ready for a fascinating conversation with Danielle Bezalel, MPH, aka DB, the Creator and Host of Sex Ed with DB, and a special anonymous guest who participated in the Magic Wand study.  Here's what you can expect to learn from this episode: • The surprising story of how our anonymous guest became part of the Magic Wand study and what they learned about themselves in the process • Why Danielle felt compelled to study pleasure and how it led to the creation of the Magic Wand study • The gap in sex education that the Magic Wand study aimed to fill and how it's changing the conversation around pleasure • The most striking results of the study and what Danielle found most surprising • How the study's findings can be applied to real-life sex and relationships • What still needs to be studied in the world of sex and pleasure, including representation and inclusivity As a listener, you'll benefit from: • A deeper understandi

Let's Get Real About Anal: Breaking Down Fears and Unlocking Pleasure Are you ready to talk about the butt? Like, really talk about it? Join us on this episode of Shameless Sex as we dive into the world of anal sex with Jamie Joy, a certified sex educator and self-proclaimed "hungry slut for freaky fantasies". With over a decade of experience in spreading joy, consent, and pleasure, Jamie is here to dispel the myths and misconceptions surrounding anal sex and give you the lowdown on how to make it a pleasurable experience for all involved. Here's what you can expect to learn from this episode: • How Jamie's journey in the field of sexuality led them to become a leading expert in anal play • The most common fears and concerns people have about anal sex (yes, poop is on the list!), and how to overcome them • The benefits of anal plug training and how it can help first-timers ease into anal play • Tips and techniques for smooth insertion, whether you're using a plug, dildo, or something a little more... na

UTIs: the ultimate party crasher in the world of sex and relationships. But what's the real deal behind these pesky infections? Join us on this episode of Shameless Sex as we dive into the wild world of urinary tract infections with Megan Henken, Co-Founder and Chief Marketing Officer of MyUTI. With over two decades of experience in diagnostics and biotech, Megan's on a mission to transform women's health through innovation, education, and empathy. Here's what you'll learn from this episode: • The lowdown on UTIs: what they are, how they're caused, and why they're not just a vulva-owner problem • UTI myths busted: separating fact from fiction and tackling the shame and stigma surrounding vaginal health • How to ID UTI symptoms and what might feel like a UTI but isn't (psst... it's not just about the burning sensation) • The scoop on Micro Plasma, BV, and other mysterious conditions that might feel like a UTI • Home remedies to keep UTIs at bay and promote vaginal wellness • How hormones and aging affe

Can you really overcome the shame and guilt tied to your religious upbringing and find your authentic, sexy self? Join us on this episode of Shameless Sex as we dive into the complex world of sex, shame, and spirituality with certified sex and relationship coach, Erica Lemke. With a background in community counseling, kinesiology, and dance instruction, Erica brings a unique, holistic approach to helping midlife women and couples reclaim their sensuality and confidence. Here's what you can expect to learn from this powerful conversation: • How Erica's own journey led her to become a sex coach and her experiences working with clients who've been impacted by purity culture • The challenges of overcoming sexual shame related to religion and Erica's expert tips for navigating this complex issue • The good, the bad, and the ugly of purity culture: can it ever be a positive force in someone's life? • The transformative power of saying yes to your desires and how it can help you break free from shame • How Er

Happy Anal August! Is Your Behind Getting the Love it Deserves? In this episode of Shameless Sex, we're diving into the world of anal health and pleasure with the one and only Dr. Evan Goldstein - the leading anal health expert in the US and founder of Future Method. Tune in as we explore the importance of proper anal care, why it's often left unspoken, and how to take your anal game to the next level. Here's what you can expect to learn: • Why proper anal care is a total game-changer for your overall health and sex life • The reasons behind the anal care taboo (and why it's time to break the silence) • Expert tips for proper anal care, tailored for both pussy owners and penis owners • Dr. Goldstein's top tips for anal pleasure, from beginner to advanced • The lowdown on "jizz in the ass" etiquette (because we know you’re curious) • An inside look at The Future Method and how it's revolutionizing anal care • How to get your hands on Dr. Goldstein's book, Butt Seriously, and work with him one-on-one

Can you handle a double dose of Shameless Sex? In this sizzling mashup episode, we're bringing together two of our hottest episodes featuring the one and only Layla Martin, the visionary founder of the VITA method and the "Headmistress of Pleasure" herself. Here's what you'll learn from this shameless mashup: • The secrets to having mind-blowing sex that will leave you breathless (and wanting more) • How to break free from mediocre sex and ignite a passion that will transform your relationship • The art of tantric sex and how it can revolutionize your love life • Tips and tricks for communicating your desires and needs to your partner • How to cultivate a deeper connection with yourself and your partner By listening to this episode, you'll gain a deeper understanding of what makes great sex, and how to bring that magic into your own life. Whether you're looking to spice up your relationship or simply want to learn more about yourself, this episode is for you. Layla Martin, our fabulous guest, is a re

Ready to Unlock the Secret to Mind-Blowing, Life-Changing Orgasms? We're talking cervical orgasms, folks - the kind that leave you breathless, bewildered, and begging for more. But what exactly is a cervical orgasm, and how can you experience one for yourself? Join us as we dive into the world of transcendent pleasure and feminine liberation with the incredible Catrina Armendariz, a former dominatrix turned somatic guide for visionary women. With over a decade of experience in coaching, trauma-informed embodiment, and sacred sexuality, Catrina knows a thing or two about helping women tap into their deepest desires and unleash their full feminine power.  Here's what you'll learn from this episode: • The difference between cervical and A-spot orgasms (because, let's be real, it's time to get specific) • What a transcendent orgasm is, and how it can transform your sex life (and beyond) • Tips and tricks for receivers and givers on how to experience and give cervical orgasms (because practice makes perfect,

What if you could unlock a secret world of pleasure, connection, and transformation? Join us on this episode of Shameless Sex as we dive into the world of upscale play parties and sex-positive communities with Alain and Marz, the dynamic duo behind the Top Floor Club in New York City. Here's what you can expect to learn from this episode: • The fascinating story of how Alain and Marz created and evolved the Top Floor Club into the vibrant community it is today • The cultural shifts that are drawing people to these types of spaces, and what it says about our current society • The intentional design and secrets behind creating a truly safe, welcoming, and sexy play party experience • The do's and don'ts of sex parties, including essential etiquette and mindset shifts for first-timers • How to navigate your first play party as a couple, and what to expect • What Alain and Marz hope you'll take away from attending a Top Floor party (hint: it's not just about the sex) With their combined expertise and pas

Welcome to a no-filter tour of Gen Z hookup culture with Sienna Alexandra—rising sophomore at San Diego State, soulful singer-songwriter, and daughter of legendary sexologist Dr. Sadie Allison. Part “mini Dr. Sadie,” part dorm-room oracle, Sienna pulls back the covers on what sex, dating, and everything-in-between look like for today’s college crowd. What you’ll learn in this episode:   The real story behind Gen Z buzzwords—translated, Shameless-style   How hookups actually happen (spoiler: Hinge still has a hinge in the game) and the surprising script Gen Z follows once the bedroom door closes   What it means to be in a situationship, sneaky-linking your way through campus life because you’re not clapped, you’re fine shYt! Sienna’s top 3 tips for navigating college sex with confidence, consent, and zero cringe   Why casual doesn’t have to mean careless—and how to keep pleasure, safety, and self-respect at the center of every swipe   The musical side of sexual expression (p

In this episode, we dive deep with repeat guest Dr. Sadie Allison, pioneering sexologist and bestselling author of Ride ’Em Cowgirl, who’s been helping people tap into their sexuality for 25 years. She has been featured on The Howard Stern Show, Discovery Health, Playboy Radio, and in Cosmopolitan and has been a guest on over 1,000 radio shows and podcasts.  In this episode, you’ll learn: `How Dr. Sadie became the “penis genius” and a pioneer in sex education (and what inspired her iconic books) The most common fears and challenges people face when it comes to “getting on top”—and how to overcome them without breaking a sweat (or a hip) The crucial but often-overlooked role of foreplay, arousal, lubrication, and entry—why the beginning can make or break the ride Underrated sex positions that can totally transform your pleasure (plus, Dr. Sadie’s personal favorites!) The one riding technique everyone should know for mind-blowing penetration Dr. Sadie’s compassionate advice f

In this episode, Amy and April sit down with Leah Piper and Dr. Willow Brown—founders of the Sex Reimagined Podcast and holders of 40 years of combined tantric-taoist wizardry—to demystify Sexual Mastery for penis AND pussy owners alike. From ancient bedroom secrets to modern day, melt-your-mind techniques, these ambassadors of love drop the mic (and maybe your jaw) on what it really takes to become the most attuned, electrifying lover in the room. What you’ll learn (and be dying to try):   What sexual mastery truly entails for men/penis owners and how it goes beyond just being a "great lover." The top roadblocks keeping men from full-on bedroom freedom (and how to smash them).   Ancient beliefs about men's sexuality and their relevance today. Practical steps for advancing sexual mastery that anyone can embrace. The transformative results these practices can bring to your sexual experiences. Communication tips for partners seeking more in their sexual relationships. W

Are you curious about the irresistible allure of daddies, dominance, and the playful power dynamics that spice up your sex life? Dive into our latest mashup episode of Shameless Sex, where we celebrate everything about the daddy universe — from nurturing to naughty, tender to commanding. This isn’t just about taboo; it’s about embracing desire in all its forms and exploring what makes your fantasies come alive. What you’ll discover in this special episode:   The different facets of “daddy” — from caring protector to dominant force — and what they reveal about desire.   Insightful clips with top educators and authors, including Watts the Safeword, Zachary Zane, Mischa Byruck, and King Daddy Heff, sharing their expertise on kink, bisexuality, daddy dynamics, and domination.   How to navigate power dynamics safely and consensually, enhancing trust and intimacy.   The role of dirty talk and verbal dominance in turning up the heat.   The playful and empowering side of kink and BDSM, i

Ready to demystify multiple orgasms and discover how to tap into full-body pleasure? We’re joined by one of our favorite sex educators, Sarah Tomchesson—a Certified Sex Educator, Intimacy Coach, Magic Wand’s Marketing Director, Vice Chair of SIECUS, and co-host of the queer feminist podcast Fuck Yeah—to unpack everything you need to know about expanding your orgasmic potential. In this episode, you’ll learn: What exactly are multiple orgasms, and can everyone experience them?   The common roadblocks that make multiple orgasms tricky to achieve (and how to overcome them)   Essential mindset and environmental tips to set the stage for mind-blowing pleasure   What to avoid—because sometimes the biggest pleasure killers are the things you don’t realize   The concept of “full body arousal” and practical ways to cultivate it   Why breath-work is a game-changer—and beginner-friendly breathing techniques tailored for all bodies   The ins and outs of edging: what it is, why it

Ready to keep the spark alive in your long-term relationship — without feeling like you're stuck in a rut? On this episode of Shameless Sex, we’re diving into 4 Top Tips to Keep Your Long Term Relationship Spicy—straight from our recent couples retreat where attendees said we “changed their lives” (and even saved marriages!).  Ever wonder how to stay endlessly curious about your partner? Or how to master those tricky conversations that keep your connection thriving? We’ve got you covered with playful, practical advice that will make your relationship feel fresh, exciting, and deeply connected every day. What you’ll learn in this episode:   The secret to staying endlessly curious — inspired by Esther Perel’s wisdom   How to give and ask for permission to navigate tricky conversations with ease   Creative ways to spice things up, including fun photoshoots and the magic of always using lube (yes, really!)   Why communication is the ultimate umbrella for all relationship growth—plus the b

Dustin Rybka, host of the Sex Party podcast, joins us to share his story of moving from being a club promoter in the nightlife scene into the world of sex podcasting.  It’s a no-holds-barred, laugh-out-loud conversation about his  adventures, the crazy stories that kept him up all night, and how he went from innocent to insatiable—sometimes all in the same weekend. In this episode, you'll discover:   How Dustin’s journey from the nightlight industry led him to podcasting about sex and dating  Stories about  asked to have sex with someone’s girlfriend or wife at the club The biggest lessons learned from 3 years and 170+ episodes of the Sex Party podcast   Dustin’s future plans—-think OnlyFans, relationship adventures, and building his “Sex Party Empire” To join the fun and listen to his podcast, Sex Party with Dustin Rybka, visit sexparty.fm Santa Cruz! Come to one of our next live shows for our Who's Your Daddy Tour: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.shamelesssex.com/whos-your-daddy-tour⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

In this mini episode we share a clip from episode ⁠#415 ⁠featuring dream couple Jamilah Mapp, a passionate author, sexologist, and tantric practitioner, alongside the charismatic Divine Masculine Orlando Roye, a sex-positive wellness advocate and educator. This dynamic duo is passionate about helping couples (re)connect, dive into deeper intimacy, and turn up the heat in the bedroom. Join them (we highly recommend it!) for their upcoming Good LOVE Couple’s Retreat⁠ in beautiful Costa Rica June 14-19, 2025. To sign up or learn more go to ⁠https://tinyurl.com/2hddekcx